seriously.

So I was stupid and am hooking up with this guy that is still so hung up over his ex-girlfriend. he's always going on and on about how "she's my holly, she's not coming back. wild animals don't come back." Or about how "she's so perfect and i'm so screwed up, every moment i had with her is like this great, cosmic mistake." WORD FOR WORD YALL. WORD FOR f*ckING WORD.

So as shit goes, I thought we could just be friends with benefits or f*ckbuddies or whatnot, but of course, I end up catching "feelings" for this guy, so obviously, it sucks for me to have to listen to him EVERY DAY about how he's so SAD and DEPRESSED and is going to KILL HIMSELF.

On top of that, he gets f*cking jealous whenever I'm with other guys. Even guy friends. Every time I'm like "okay, I'm going out now," he gives me this snide "Oh... hot date?" bullshit and I'm like "..." and he apologizes for his douchebag comments later, but wtf. And yeah, I'm seeing other guys. Just causally, no sex, just fun dates (I think I learned my lesson with being a slut). We're not exclusive. Of course, I'm not telling him I'm seeing other people, but how is it fair for me to tie myself to him? He says that he's fine with me seeing other people because he doesn't want to "stop me" from "enjoying myself" but the ONE TIME I mentioned I had a date, he got all cold and pissy.

I like this guy. Like, I really do, but I can't handle his drama. So I tell him I think we should just stop what we're doing and he threatens to off himself. Nice. Very nice. If he actually does it, I'm going to feel f*cking guilty because I told him to shut the f*ck up and that i didn't care what he did.

but yeah.

no more sex for me until the third date!

ok, end rant.

we're done now for good, so no more ranting. promise.

sandy was right :(

f*ckbuddies? Seriously?

Ditch the drama-llama
You can do better
Ill be you new F*ck buddy :D

which one is this one? i can't keep up with all your boys


didn't kevin and i already explain this stuff to you

yeah yeah, but ya'll didnt get into what i should do when he talks about how he's sad about his ex + when he gets jealous + when he threatens to kill himself.

its whatever, i'm not even talking to him anymore.

It sounds like he thought he could f*ck his emotional pain away and you're the girl he was using to do that. You deserve much better than that! Good riddance to him.

@JC: Symbiotic f*cking? :/

what

what. i dont have emotional pain :(

Using each other for a positive gain.


That's why I didn't quite get why JC quoted my OP differently, haha.

i quoted you differently because you were saying it sounds like he's using mel. but it sounds like she's using these dudes as much as they are using her.

no big surprise when you sleep around tbh

i've stooooopped. it was like a one-month rampage, but i'm done.

you need to just get with a black or latino already mel. We really just want to f*ck and that's it.

nothing at all. it isn't your responsibility, he is not your boyfriend nor should he be. anybody who talks about past relationship is not ready to move on. even if you are supposed to be his friend, you don't have to deal with his baggage. as much as you would want to console a friend with a broken heart and shit, it's annoying to hear the same sappy sad love story over and over.

jc's right, you both are using each other. he just wants someone to listen to his story/get his. even if he gets jealous, don't mistake that sign for him falling for you. he's not getting attention from the girl he wants, so he expects full attention from you; wanting you to want him and nobody else. it's highly likely he'd toss you aside if his ex ever comes back.

best is the leave the situation. if he really likes you, he'll call and personally go out of his way to be with you, not to just f*ck you and tell you about his problems. you do not have to announce you want to leave him and f*ck somebody else, just leave silently. no offense, most girls get weak in these situations and refuse to stop sleeping with the guy so i wouldn't be surprised if you f*cked him again. but, i hope you keep your word. gl

wtf, i cant believe no one has said this yet



























dont forget that 1 last f*ck though, why not just ignore the shit out of him, gain the power back

what, speak for yourself

i think you meant to say

Lmao JC no bueno to you.

eww

tl;dr

this time I actually didn't read it though

i like how you had to deliberately write out how you didn't read it instead of just ignoring it and moving on with your life like all the cool people. you're so alt. that's so cool.

yeah cj you're such a jerk.

do u have pics of this guy.

it's funny because it's true

It's annoying when you're an outlet for someone's pathetic relationship qualms. Good riddance.

This is how it's played out for me.

"Bawwwww."
"Hay your jokes make me laugh and forget all about him and I think you're attractive! I am totally giving you flirtatious vibes."
"I like you explicitly."
"Wait, now you're opening up to me a little. Wtf??? I just wanted someone who will listen to me in my rebounding phase!"

I used to feel used at the fact that they benefited from my company for awhile before moving on, but eh, whatev. It's not like I lost anything (luckily I've never capitulated to having sex).