I'm having a difficult time where I work i'm in the military air force. How do you respond to tough love and bullying type personalities? I find that when I react with kindness its taken advantage of, and giving tough love back creates more of a problem. I'm tired of being belittled. What's the right way to deal with it?

Ignore the people who are being dicks to you, then it'll die down, cause the yprolly like the reaction you give to them

Drink their blood and eat their soul.

need more detail, don't really get it

Yeah. Exactly what are they doing? and are you a male, female and or both.

"f*ck off" and walk away

it's obvious that their only being that way because they're trying to make you better.

I'm sorry for posting in here but I saw the title and had to. I am prior service and I'll let you know that half the people are insulting or being negative to you because they are either insecure with themselves or they just are shitty people. They key is to focus on your job and your training because when you do that it blocks everyone and everything out. Good luck and hooah.(Army for life)

Sounds like you're a huge pussy. Man up, Private Pyle.