to some people this may sound awful at thirteen so..
ive found a person i completly trust and love, wanting to loose it. i know most the facts about things, and i feel totaly ready. - but in the simplest words does it hurt? and could it be possible ive already stretched/broken due to using tampons? need as much advice as possible please :) ? x

You mean lose it? Lose what? If you're talking virginity, search through the 19084093285 topics in Girls Locker and Relationships.

the green and red sentences seem to contradict each other

This topic does seem to come up alot.
You would probably get more feedback just reading the old posts.
They will all inevitably lead u to two words.

It depends...
on the girl
on the guy
on the circumstance.

tbh thirteen is a bit too young. I think you should wait, you wouldn't want to regret doing it at a young age.

I don't think it matters what age you lose it. As long as you don't do something stupid like get pregnant, or AIDS.

what does age have to do with anything anymore?

sweety, as much as you trust & adore this guy..
your still a bit young to be able to make these judgements..
ya know?



but like leyvacu said, in depends..
:)