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earthangel64
does ne1 kno this....cuz like every guy i have liked...hasnt liked me bak.if someone could give me some tips thatd b great happy.gif
littlewhite
QUOTE(th5418 @ Aug 29 2004, 6:52 PM)
2) I like someone, what should I do?
Two choices, first choice is to throw a hissy fit in your room everyday for being a moron. Second choice is to ask them out.

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See what it says there. It is from a pinned topic from the "relationships" section.
ParanoidAndroid
It really depends on what type of guy you're trying to attract here. Most of the boys attracted to me are the non-shallow ones. but when i wear a home-made corset every guy looks at me... Just try to act like you're not sooo mean cuz that can intimidate men...
mzislandpinay
act ur self!! he'll lyk you for you.. and if he doesn't have those "special feelings" then move on.. rememeber.. there are plenty fish in the sea.. lol
teenprincess
QUOTE(earthangel64 @ Aug 24 2005, 7:00 PM)
does ne1 kno this....cuz like every guy i have liked...hasnt liked me bak.if someone could give me some tips thatd b great happy.gif
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Weird... most of the guys I like/liked are guys who have either liked me first, or I thought liked me.
Just thought I'd share... anywho

Just flirt with the guy and make it kind of obvious you like him, if he doesn't like you back at least you flattered him... I mean, what person doesn't like it when they find out someone has a crush on them. And if your too shy don't make it obvious... just be subtle with the flirting.
kayc333
it depends but why dont you try to be yourself first. you know, go up to him and saay hi etc.. who knows *shrugs*
angelic_grl
QUOTE(earthangel64 @ Aug 24 2005, 7:00 PM)
does ne1 kno this....cuz like every guy i have liked...hasnt liked me bak.if someone could give me some tips thatd b great happy.gif
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wow. we have something in common. noone has ever liked me (hated is more like it but anyway-) But you should be yourself. And you should get to know him better before asking him out. biggrin.gif
mai_z
I swear, we've had topics on this before.

Want a guy to like you? Sounds cheesy but be yourself. It's horrible if the guy you like falls in love with the fake identity you've made yourself, only to be crushed when he finds the real you. Be yourself, the only difference i'd make is be more confident and outgoing. confidence is easy to fake, and it somehow magically seeps to to the inside so you're confident inside and out.
HoodieObsessed
First of all, learn how to spell properly and I bet that'll make you look alot smarter in front of him.

Second of all, be yourself, unless that includes spelling horribly in which case, don't.

Third of all, be a little flirty around them. Don't go overboard, but be nice, smile, make jokes (unless you are horrible at making jokes, than I'd just stick with compliments)
PingPong
guys dont really like gurls when they dress all slutty.. i mean.. like the right guy..

just be urself..
mouse_3k
be urself. if they dont like you then get ova it, not every guy in the world is gon like you.
lilliannnn
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Aug 25 2005, 12:16 PM)
be urself. if they dont like you then get ova it, not every guy in the world is gon like you.
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DAMN STRAIGHT. You took the words right out of my mouth.
SandRAWRz
use your charm be flirty...but don't throw yourselves at them
when you get yourself right where you want them...play hard-to-get
Atobe_Keigo
Hmm...How nice...You should be yourself. Not every guy will like you. Tis okay though! If they're not perfect for you, go find another one.
Hell-Rell
Don't play too hard too get or some guys will give up
laydee hottness
QUOTE(reolistic @ Aug 25 2005, 4:09 PM)
Don't play too hard too get or some guys will give up
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That's what happened to me cry.gif Let's just say.... I really liked him, he liked me back, I was trying to play hard to get, and now he doesn't like me... and I kinda still like him ya know sad.gif
Cwlplover
No matter what I do, I can't ever seem to get a guy...

I don't know what's wrong with me.
I think it could be my school, because there's not many guys there, and the hot ones are all taken, and the rest of them don't like girls or something. I don't know.
inthemudhole
Be yourself, be patient, and don't make that the main thing you focus on. Honestly, your grades and friendships and relationships within the family are all more important than boyfriend/girlfriend relationships at your age.

But if it bothers you a lot, just be yourself. Become friends with some guys and just be yourself. Don't try and be all sexy or edgy or anything. That gets incredibly annoying after a short while, so just be yourself and be patient. If you rush into a relationship, you'll rush things during the relationship, and things most likely won't go as smoothly as you had probably originally planned or hoped them to go.
seremela_culnamo
Ever since grade 5, once I like a guy, I don't talk to him at all unless I'm forced to or cornered in the way that my friends somehow manage to get us alone.

I really like this guy that I just met a few days ago. He has been in my classes before and I always thought he was cute and smart. No wait, he IS cute and smart. Haha.

If you want a guy to like you, I guess it's better if you get to know him first. I realized how much I like this guy after finally getting to know him and finding ways to talk to him. I just hope that I wouldn't do that too much or he thinks I'm attached to him or something. But it's funny how he sometimes react to the times when our friend bothers me. Either he's trying to make our friend stop because it's not a good thing that he likes to push me around for the fun of it, or he's just jealous or whatsoever. I hope it's the latter.

Most important of all: BE YOURSELF.

I'm doing that and I will see if he likes me in that way back. If he doesn't, I won't be happy about it, but I will still want to be friends with him.
Se7eN_x
I think it depends on the type of girls the guy likes. Just be yourself, because the relationship you`ll have is going to be much better.
toria66622
I jus talk to them bout things they like I guess? I dunno...I'll talk to someone and the next thing I kno, they like me:( it kinda sux
Paul M. is baaack
Come on to him! We want it bad!
mzbbc
be yourself and just be easy to talk to. guys won't really bother to try to get to know you if you act all closed off.
_sarcastic_
just be yourself, look approachable. if guys only like you for your outside appearance then they are seriously not worth your time anyway
xBaBiEGrLx
be yourself...
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