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Dude. Talk to her about it. Don't let her change the topic or anything. You have to get her to say no to him, or your relationship is doomed.

Its that simple.

yeah. make sure you tell her how you feel. and don't act like this whole situation thing doesn't bother you. then maybe she will have the courage to say no to the other guy. that's dumb though. the other guy should just go with his girlfriend.

Yeah, talk to her about this. It doesn't seem fair, since you are her boyfriend and that Sean guy already has a girlfriend. Why can't you guys just go with your respective girlfriend/boyfriends?

Thank you guys I really appreciate it. I sent Joni an email telling her everything along w/ a link to this topic so she can see how others think.

JONI IF YOU ARE READING THIS PLEASE THINK. IF I DIDN'T LOVE YOU I WOULDN'T OF SAID EVERYTHING I JUST TOLD YOU. I CARE ABOUT YOU AND I CARE ABOUT US. THINK ABOUT EVERYTHING I JUST TOLD YOU IN THE EMAIL. WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT IT, IT ALL COMES TOGETHER AND MAKES SENSE.

Again I wanna thank everyone who helped out. Like I said, I truly appreciate it. This girl is my one true love and I can't let this haunt us.

bump

Pwned. THe guy was Pwned, Tell him ur sorry, and let them go together. I mean they did make a promise. You go with his ex, and you all 4 hang out.

exactly what ariel said. and you should tell her in person.

sean still has feelings for joni. otherwise the deal would be off, since they both now have a boy/girlfriend. but i guess joni would feel bad since they made a deal... tell her in person that this bothers you. might as well have sean and his girlfriend there too.

please, DEAR GOD dont do this through email

face to face is the way to go

Well...That was dramatic.

And to the poster, don't handle your business through emails, do this stuff face to face.

face to face.. rocks! lol.. but you knoe wut.. you should talk to him and just day.. "hey you know wut.. why are you still up for this m/c deal with my gurl friend.. wut about you're gurlfriend and her feeling.. do you only care about ur self?"

cuz man.. good thing his gurlfriend slapped her.. cuz he didn't even think about her either!

wow, man - that sucks.
You should really just go up to her and tell her how you really feel about this, and what must come first; a promise not kept or her boyfriend not satisfied. And same goes for your friend Sean; whats more important? joni, or his girlfriend?

or, be immature and go with sean's girlfriend
jokes, jokes.

for the record i really do wanna tell her in person but we only get to see eachother on an average of once a week.

i don't mean to be nosy but... you're not going to tell us what happened?

sadly nothing really happened...yet(?). she was just feeling bad and saying shes sry. i told her eveything on my mind. plus she got mad at me for making this post. who knows maybe she'll change her mind sometime, it isn't till Oct. 1. I'm just gonna not talk about it for a while, let things go back up hill and see what happens