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ichiban
Okay .. this guy knowz that i like him and i know that he likez me .. on AIM he always goes like "i love you" and stuff .. but i'm not his grlfriend or anything!! my frends all been tellin him, ASK HER TO BECOME UR GF .. we don't really talk about it .. but most guyz i know just ask the girl to get with them right away .. i've already been waiting for two weeks .. I don't want to wait forever, and I don't want to ask him to be my bf .. becuase we all know its the guys job shifty.gif So i dunno whats going on .. sad.gif
DesperateXMeasures
Who said it's the guys job? xD
If you want to go out with him that bad....just ask him yourself.
faithin_felix
omg, first of all i read in a magazine it's not a guys job, girls ask guys out, that is actually better. you know why? because guys are scared to ask you girls out and when they hear that you have the courage to ask them out, the guy knowing how hard it'll be will accept you of course. just keep in mind " Online lovers, Offline could be affairs." just a message from faithin_felix to ichiban. ask yourself and have faith in every letter you say.
psychoticangel
wait... first of all, how'd he know that you like him? and... have you met him personally? coz you know... there are those guys roaming in this world who flirt with girls whom they know, likes them. So... my advice would be... be careful. Coz if you get your hopes too high up, you might fall down hard enough to produce an irrepairable scar. So think before you actually make the move if you cant wait. And keep in mind that the higher the expectations, the greater the disappointments. happy.gif
ichiban
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wait... first of all, how'd he know that you like him?


Well, he just told me that he liked me all of a sudden one day, and i was really happy because i liked him too so i tld him that....

I said to him yesterday, well we're not together or anythin ..
and he said, no not yet

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PinoyOtaku
QUOTE(ichiban @ Apr 23 2004, 11:54 PM)
I don't want to wait forever, and I don't want to ask him to be my bf .. becuase we all know its the guys job  shifty.gif

Great that explains a whole lot..... blink.gif Well I guess that means that I better grow a spine and go on the offensive next time...>>
xjjajeengx
laugh.gif "no. not yet?" wth?! _dry.gif

anyways. OMG just ask him dang!!! laugh.gif get up ur courage. dont expect the guy to do it all the time... i mean, some guys are sooo frikken nervous and shy and stuff,...... like WAY worse than gurls sometimes. so c'mon and just ask!!!
angel-roh
QUOTE(ichiban @ Apr 23 2004, 9:54 PM)
Okay .. this guy knowz that i like him and i know that he likez me .. on AIM he always goes like "i love you" and stuff .. but i'm not his grlfriend or anything!! my frends all been tellin him, ASK HER TO BECOME UR GF .. we don't really talk about it .. but most guyz i know just ask the girl to get with them right away .. i've already been waiting for two weeks .. I don't want to wait forever, and I don't want to ask him to be my bf .. becuase we all know its the guys job shifty.gif So i dunno whats going on .. sad.gif

haha that reminds me of someone...tsk tsk...
haha well... hmm let me think-_-;; well michelle..
u said that u like him, right? then y dont u jus
date him?-_-;; is he askin` u too? -_-;; well...
that guy seems like he neba went out and i guess..
or maybe he jus want some loves, so he can kiss
that girl and all? cus thats wat my crush did-_-;;
and i didnt like it heh... so iono it's ur choice...hehe^__^
conster
hehe im a girl i wouldnt make myself ask a guy out and i agree that u should have faith and be brave but u should do it if u want to and if u feel comfortable about it happy.gif wait.. im kinda lost.. so did u ask him about it already..? _unsure.gif

and if u didnt and u wanna make him ask u.. then somehow get him jealous.. make him feel that "ur a special girl and there are other guys out there that want u as much as he does and if he doesnt make a move then ur gone" and dont show him u like him a lot yet cuz he'll take advantage of that
faithin_felix
ok, its your choice, just remember there are many players out there. GUYS...your life, your choice.
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