Like..I have a few close/best friends and then a bunch of good friends. My close friends are nice to me and then mean and then nice and then mean and yea..it gets on my nerves..i only have liike 2 best friends that dont do that..what should i do??

Well them close friends ain't your friends if they be mean to you.

Quit calling someone that is mean to you your friend!

how exactly are they mean?

maybe they're just kidding around. when i was with my friends we openly called each other b*tches, sluts, whores, etc and lightly made fun of each other. it was all in good fun though. it was never meant to be hurtful.

my close friends and i are really comfortable with eachother so we're very straighforward and say whatever we want in front of each other. if you and your friends are really close just tell them that they're being catty bitches and to knock it off...or something to that affect. i'm sure they mean no harm and don't have bad intentions.

maybe they don't realize that their being mean to you. and if you want them to stop you've gotta speak up and tell them.

maybe theyre kidding. if they really mean it, then they arent close friends.

one of my best friends r like tht to...what I do is be mean back, I aint takin her bull...

Talk to them. Tell them how they're so mean to you. If possible, record what they say to you on your cell phone ( if you have the recording option or a cellphone). Play it back to them. Maybe they'll get the hint. If not, you might wanna start friend hunting.

sometimes friends liek to be mean for fun...like i call my friends bitches...but they know i don't mean it and i still love them
if your friends are being mean like treating you like shit...then you should just talk to them or stop becoming friends with them or deal with it

if they're b*tches and you cant stand it, ditch them.

maybe they are going through something.. sit down with them..and just have a chat.. or make new friends.. as what some ppl say how can they be your close friends if they're mean to you.. but remember, think of all the good things about them.. and think about what you are gonna say before you act... so dont start calling them b*tches or anything for no reason.

well; if there mean to you.. maybe they're going through pms?
if they do it alot and you told them then they arent really your close/best friends they're jsut good friends?

gah. i have this friend, shes a girl, and as of recently...well since last summer shes been obsessed with these guys from texas that she met at a youth gathering in florida. its so old and she acts like nobody here in missouri matters anymore. like shell talk to her "friends" here but only about these texas guys and she never seems interested in what were doing. i might add that these guys are almost 5 years older than her and in college, not that thats as bad as living in texas...about 15-20 hours away.