I was sit at my computer sunday night and my aunt imed me.... we got to talking and she wants me to move to arizona and come live with her because I really hate my life right now and I want to get away from it all... so I'd be moving from wisconsin to arizona... she found me a job down there... I'd go to a college down there and everything... the only thing is that she wants me to have my parents "blessing" about this... I know I am 18 and can make any decision i want... but my aunt doesnt want my parents to hate her if i move down there without their consent... and my parents got mad at my brother for moving about 15 minutes away last summer... so I dont know how i am gonna bring this up to them, and how i am gonna convience them that this is what i want to do...

well...if i was u, i'd jus leave w/o tellin them sh*t if i had a place ta run off to, but in ur situation ta clear ur aunts name, u should jus pack up all ur stuff n on tha day ur movin out, tell them that ur gona move in wit ur aunt, ur an adult n that it was ur decision

gl hun

i was planning on doing that... but i just cant... i am hoping they just understand and help me move

y cant u? i can, i jus dont have a stable place ta go to

because my aunt doesnt want them to be mad at her...

jus say it was all ur idea or dont tell them ware ur goin ..

I cant not tell them where i am... i dont want to cut myself off from them

then y r u movin? wats so bad bout ur life?

I want to move to start a new life... because it seems like all my friends are turning against me

ohh so it has nuttin ta do wit ur parents, so we're not in tha same boat, then jus talk ta them bout it, tell them wat u jus sed

i would... but my parents dont understand what i am going through... any little problems i have they just think it is nothing

tell them that u havta lyk b "on ur own" or sumthin.......do they at least listen n remember? cuz weneva i say n e thing its lyk i neva sed it =/

i dont think they listen to me when i talk...

well then again may b we r on tha same boat, its not gona matta wtf u say ta them cuz in my experiences it doesnt do sh*t, even if u have a very understandable reason theyre not gona hear u, so jus leave n tell them ur leavin, jus walk out....

im not sure if this advice is fa u or me lol

I dont know... I am just trying to figure out a way to bring it up...

hmm.....iono but u should prolly jus do it now or soon, jus get it ova wit......cuz then it'll b lyk one step closer ta a new start....dont let w/e they say get ta u, if u wana go then go no matta how they react....

you see the problem is is that my aunt wont let me go without them saying its ok... because she doesnt want them to be mad at her... whether it was my idea or not...

i noe but lyk, try ta make her undastand that its not really ur parents decision n e more, its urs, its ur life, u should b able ta do w/e u want wit it, u have tha right ta tha pursuit of happiness......

yeah, but my parents would be mad at her if i just left... i dont think you understand what i am saying... i NEED my parents to ok... or else i cant do it..

You should definatly talk to your parents about this. Explain why you wanna move, and that you are in good hands with your aunt. Tell them that you would keep in contact with them, and that you are 18 and have the right to make your own desicions.

If that doesn't work, whine.

Just to let you know....
Arizona sucks.
I would know. I've been living here for over half mah life.

I used to live there... and I loved it...

What part were you living in?
Where I am.....it sucks. xD

wow... then dont move.. maybe thinsg will be better... running away from ur problem wotn solve much..

Yeah... but i kind of want to be away from home for some reason.... i got 4 months to think about this...

4 months...thats nice...hehe my sister moved to utah-_-;;
heh she wants to hab a better life..psh haha yeah right..
i told her "u qona` regret it, jenny... im serious tellin` u da
truth" lols and shes all yellin` at me...haha.. and wen she
got there...she called me and start cryin` -_-;; haha i told
her "i told u..." heh... well u gotta think more...heh... if u
think it's an ok thing to move to arizona, then go fo' it...
hehe that place is scary tho` hahaha... heh i luv grand canyon tho`!!^___^

Go to San Diego, CA! Wee! But then, do you have family in San Diego? The question still remains.....

no... my family lives in either wisconsin or arizona...