In the begging of last year when i first started 7th grade there was these three girls in my science class they all sat together and all knew each other. there was one girls out of the 3 that was an outkast. she was fat and she had red highlights

a couple months after school had started one of her friends (who is really close to me now)(im on the phone with her sometimes till 4 in the morning) told me she liked my hair!!! but i didnt like her not only from her looks but the way she judges ppl and the way she handles things man


what should i do about this problem?
wat should i telll her?
how should i tell her?
shes kind of creepy dude
she was a background u would never think of


HELP ME!

I used to have that problem, too. I always thought overweight girls would be a lot nicer, but she was very rude and bossy towards me. I suggest you not tell her. IMO, it's best to avoid contacting her or even talking about her. If you tell her, it might start something big. Like a fight, a huge arguement, etc., you know? So I'm just saying to avoid her at all costs. Try not to say anything mean if you do talk to her.

wtf is up with people judging fat people.
they can be rude or nice. not all fat people are like.. have no self confidence.

just say thanks if she says it to you AND LEAVE IT AT THAT.
shes not gonna eat you or something.

I think we should close this topic, first of all I read it 50 times and it didn't make sanse, you said the fat girls friend (aka your friend now) told you she liked your hair....and then you say how rude the fat girl is, WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT!

Just because she tells someone that she likes your hair doesn't mean that she wants you, okay?

Don't talk to her, if you don't like her. Don't be freaked out.

And, most importantly, don't judge her because of her appearance or "background".

hahaha! that sounds oddly familiar, don`t you think?

anyway, who said you had to talk to her or get close with her? just keep your distance if you don`t want to associate with them.

I'm the " friend " you're talking about. At times, I do think it's really mean that you judge her the way she looks. Maybe, she doesn't want to have any contact with you either. You judge her, she judges you. Just stay out of her way, and she'll stay out of yours. I'm on the phone with you right now. Sure, you make jokes that sometimes can be amsuing, but once you think about it, it may hurt her feelings even if she doesn't show it. <3

i dont really see a problem...

but if you dont like her dont hang out with her. just, dont be rude.

I. do. not. understand. you.

What is your point?

I agree, you should not judge people based on their appearance or their background. They could of changed since their background, its okay to think twice though. Also, she just said she likes your hair right? How are you scared of her and why are you? So, let me get this straight you talk to her friend and her friend told you what the girl said?

Ahh. I think you just need to get over it. Seriously. x_x She doesn't bother you, but you still seem to seem bothered by her, for no reason. It's just, I don't know. If you think about it, how would you feel like you were her ? Her backround, sure, it's not great, but that doesn't mean she likes it either, right ? Let's just lay off the jokes, and stuff, shall we ? I think that'd be best. You wouldn't like it either, if you were in her position. Yep, I'm telling you this behalf of being someone on this site, not as your friend. Maybe, my opinion will change your point of view ?

okie, that was weird. if overweight folks are mean, then skinny people are nice? is that the kind of logic (illogic) kids learn today?

Hypocrite. You judge her when you call her fat. kthx.

Agreed
Whats there to worry about, she compliments you, thats over with.
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And I'm trying to understand your post I really am, but it doesn't really make any sense

I don't get how this got so many replies, I can't even understand what she's trying to say. >_<

she just likes your hair. why does it matter if shes fat?

I kind of understand. If you don't like her because of her personality and not just of her looks, then I guess its kind of okay to be weirded out. But, honestly.. she's paying you a compliment. Get over it.

tell her you think she is creepy

Id tell her she was fat

that's what i was thinking too


i'm glad that you're a closed minded person because you know what? i used to be that chubby girl but i've slimmed down. in a few years you're going to kick yourself because you missed out on a diamond that wasn't polished yet.

Yo, don't double post.

Be her friend and dont judge her. She probably didnt have many friends.

maybe thats because your an a-hole, and you judge people by looks and not personality. or maybe im just crazy and go by the saying "you should judg a book by its cover".

and to the who ever started this topic:
wtf? how the f**k can yu judge someone based on they're weight. anyone can be a bitch or a the nicest person you know weather they are fat, skinny or in between. i mean holy crap the girl gave you a compliment what do yu think cause shes fat that means she wants to eat you? wtf is wrong with you thats disgusting and this topic should be closed.

(sry for cursing i just can't stand people like that.)

yeah, seriously.. what is ur problem? haha

Agreed.

You're immature. You're being judgmental by calling her a 'fat girl'. I'd say get to know her better. She might be a lot cooler than you think. Apparently you're not even giving her a chance.

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This should be moved to relationships...?

it may be true, but it hurts. if you were fat, and someone called you fat, wouldn'y your feelings be hurtin the slightest? dont say "i wouldn't care" because you would.

She's fat. And mean. And she had the nerve to pay you a compliment.
Geez-I don't get you. What does any of this have to do with her being fat? And it's not like she said she wants to be your friend or anything. She just likes your hair. Get over it.

i dont really get the problem if i get a compliment i say thanx and leave it at that if she is a bitch (mind my language) then let her be or if she does continually bug you talk some sence or something