Theres this guy who likes me at church. I wouldn't have a problem with that, except he buys me jewelry. I barely know the guy and we're 12. My friends also said that the jewelry had real diamonds and junk. I'm all confused now. What should I do?

eh give it back? i dunno...if you don't want jewelery you should tell him. tell him he can't buy his way into your heart. sounds corny but i guess it's true.

Milk off him for as long as possible.. Accept all his gifts, pawn them for cash, buy something you really want. If he ever stops, give him a little sugar so he'll keep buying for you...Keep it going for as long as you can...free stuff is great.

But thats evil!

Tell him that it's sweet of him to buy you gifts, but that you can't accept them as i_am_shoe said. If you don't want them, give them back. If you feel that you should have them, however, just accept them and smile. This has happened to me before. But, even as I resisted they wouldn't stop. I gave in, it made them happy. So, if you want to do that, then there's a third option. Wow...I wonder if that made sense.

no offense...but if ur both 12, its most likely fake, but either wat give it back if u dont want it n dont accept n e thing else from him, jus tell him that it makes u uncomfortable wen ppl buy/give u expensive stuff [thas tru fa me] may b that'll work

btw, y is this called "sigh i dont like being old?"

Both of you guys are twelve damn....thats super young...well....like to me it seems like it is puppy love to me....cause both of you guys are young and like him buying jewelry is something that always has a cause for return and I mean him buying you jewelry there is always a catch to that...and plz believe no matter how old they are...something always is need

if the gift giving is making you uncomfortable then you shouldn't accept it, especially if it is real, i mean it would be a shame for him to be spending all his money for no reason. just be nice to him and say that its sweet but you can't accept

first off.. what do u mean by the title of this topic? "i don't like being old".. wahts that got to do with the topic?? LOL


why take it from him? you'd be giving him the wrong idea.. when accepting it.. don't u feel like you owe him something? by taking it makes him think he has a chance... and btw, are you positive he BOUGHT it himself? what 12 year old can afford diamonds? if by chance they ARE real.. their probably his MOMS.. HAHA-- i had an ex boyfriend that use to steal from his grandma and his mom to give me jewelry!

yeah don't give him the wrong idea. give the jewelry back, he might think you got a thing for him :S

This is called "Sigh I don't like being old" because I didn't have to worry about this when I was younger.

dont worry about being old, older people are more wise, and they are more respected, unlike adolesents like me, that gets pushed aside and never get taken seriously. be proud

wow. old at 12, eh? sheesh. try being 20.

lol 12 isnt old... wait till ur 16, thats like the climax of ur life lol return the jewelry bak to him and tell him to stop giving it to u cuz if he does it again ur gonna throw it at his face and run lol

whats the topic of u being old? u just 12!!!

i say u hand him bak the jewelery..and run away from him!

hey now... if the jewelry's authentic... SELL IT!! haha. tell him you don't like him (if you don't)... and if he keeps giving you stuff... say thanks and keep it of you like it.

haha lols. he must be a rich kid. well i say that... just give it back to him. Heck, you can accept like one gift i guess... but i mean, he's going to get the wrong idea!! ONLY accept if he says that it dont matter whether you like him or not.

But, isnt it kinda awkward to accept a gift from someone for no reason? It is for me...

hahahahahaha o mai`-_-;; hehe i told this to jackie..
"the cruel susan's past" hahahaha well there was this
guy who had a crush on me and he bought me this
realllie expensive necklace-_-;; but hes reallie poor, so i...
returned it and gib the money back to his mommie...
so yeah haha... i asked him where he got the money
and he said that he was savin' it up for me-_-;;; o man
i felt very bad...-_-;; no more playin` wit guys~-_-;;

oh, also, one more thing, if you keep on accepting them and do nothing with him, he might be somewhat...ignorant i guess and say that you're greedy or something because you keep on accepting his gifts and you're just giving him a hug or whatever....like he might start thinking youre one of those girls that just want the gifts and such....
sorry if you didn't get that....ehh that was kinda hard to say in words...

You can say, "You don't have to give it to me, thanks anyways.."
I mean, dang you guys are young...so young. It's all puppy love as mentioned before, he'll get over you in a couple of days :-D...so then he'll have another person to give the jewelry to...-->me, j/k...whoa, that did not sound right. Just forget what I said. If he gives you jewelry, it's probably fake. To see if it's a diamond, just scrape it against glass and if the glass breaks, then it's real (haha, I highly doubt that you will do that, never mind..don't do it! It was just a suggestion...a bad suggestion )...another thing, just avoid eye contact and pretend he's not there...he'll hopefully get over it. Good luck!

i doubt a 12 year old can afford real diamonds...and if your acceptin it he thinks you must like him...so give it back and tell him you cant accept it

Don't listen to them..Accept the gifts..Take them with pleasure..THEN CRUSH HIM!!! MUAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!

Don't listen to Lq_darksoul! Don't turn bad...haha. Okay, maybe you can take the gifts but don't crush him...he'll get crushed when he sees you have no love for him (not love...haha, such a strong word...you have no liking for him). *looks at lq_darksoul* you should be ashamed of yourself lol..j/k
You're a guy, it's normal <--haha

*runs before she gets told*

daaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyuuuuuuuumm that is hecka young! wow 12 years old! well i dun think that u should accept anymore of his gifts. becuz if you keep doing that then hes gonna think that u want him and want to be with him thats why u are accepting his gifts. its kinda strange that he can offord to buy all this jewelry and give it to you just like that....it seems like not rite. if u do like him try to find out HOW he got all of that and was his parents cool with it because if its athentic....well tha means hes pruddy rich. or hes just doing some bad things to get you the jewelry. I dun think u should have anthing serious u guys are both really young! think about it first! and gurl U are not old! real life starts when ur at least 15 or 16 lol and u dun want to get dere believe me

i'm with darksoul

oh and maybe he's selling drugs or stealing. when you don't like him anymore rat on him to his parents

Me too! Haha...

He's a goldmine. Mine him until he's depleted. But you're both 12, the gifts are pretty much fake stuff, unless his dad's a druglord.

I wonder where he got all those stuff from?

Oh yeah, I forgot to add that part. He gives it to my brother to give it to me. My poor brother is his friend. I had to tickle him to know who gave it to me.