Is it just me or can a kiss be more intimate and erotic that sexual activities? I mean, I know when I kiss someone I really care for, the tenderness and love that goes into it turns me on more than foreplay and sex.

I suppose that can happen. A passionate kiss in my opinion is better than foreplay. It's sweet and it shows how much you care for them,

Either my ex really sucked or I absolutely despised foreplay....I'm not sure if I liked his kissing either...But, in general, I guess I would prefer kissing to foreplay as well.

i have to agree with you there naomi. in comparing some relationships i can definitely see that a kiss with someone you truly care for can be incredibly amazing.
its hard to explain though, but yeah.

definately, especially if the relationship is really serious...sometimes i'd rather be kissing my boyfriend than doing other things

I completely agree with you guys, a kiss is definatly one of the sweetest things a guy can do for me

Hm , I <3 kissing but kissing gets me in the mood to do other things.

Ohh Naomi, one of the only TRUE romantics I know <3

Yes, a kiss can be 100000 times better than sex and what not. If you are truly in love, even the simplest things (like holding hands) will give you the most pleasure in the world.

^^ I agree.


Smooching with my hubby gives me the warmest feeling inside.

Yes, a serious relationship makes it all the more wonderful. I guess it really is a mental (and emotional) thing.

And yeah...kissing really does put me in the mood.

Aww...I've never had a passionate kiss. Making out is just something I do for fun. Like video games.

i completely agree with emily.



haha that's kinda cute.

depends on the kiss really. sometimes it can.

My thoughts exactly.

i guess it can be intimate if both parties are passionate about each other. Oh, and wtf is foreplay? I've never heard that word before.

1. foreplay

Fooling around and such :
-kissing
-touching
-BEING CRAZY!
...without taking it too far (i.e. f**king each other)
you dont have to be single!!!



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Actually...I like hugs even more.

lol Felicia. Well, when I say foreplay, I'm referring to what some might call "third base". Haha.

Ick. I suppose it's more exciting for men because of their ... out of control hormones? I would be extremely uncomfortable if another being was putting their hands on me in a sexual way. Kissing is better by a long shot.

That hurts... There's no need to make us (men) feel bad! We're just stupid so we do not understand things.

^^ It's not that you're stupid. Men usually act on physical stimulation more readily that women. It's human nature.

I agreee. It really depends.

Mhm, it depends on the person and on the type of kiss.

Oh, no. We're stupid, and we've made peace with that fact.

Yes, we have. We're totally ok with it!

^ Haha, that's funny.

But really. I went through this whole sexual phase this year, and now that I look back, it was fun in a weird horny/aggressive way, but now that I'm a bit older and a bit wiser, I want the passion, the intimacy, and the tenderness that would be promised through a good kiss. I don't know, maybe I'm just a hopeless romantic.

oh i want the same. well... i think going slow in a kiss is more romantic. but going fast in a kiss reminds me how fiery the relationship is. i don't know much... i'm chalk full of useless information. anyways i think it depends... what mood you're in maybe? i'm also a hopeless romantic... =]

Depends on who its with.

Of course it depends on who it's with. If it's someone who means something to you, it'll make a BIG difference.

yeah, there are definite advantages to kissing

Definately agree just kissing my bf sometimes...MMm so good

=] same