i was wondering if any of you could help me answering this. im asking, not in terms of satisfying some guy's desires. im talking about how to keep a good relationship on the girl's part. [edit: assuming he is working hard on his end to keep things going also] keeping his interest in you as a person, getting closer as friends and as a couple, keeping things interesting vs being bored/awkward etc... thanks!

i don't know...because in a relationship you're not really supposed to cater to your boyfriend's every whim.

there's no formula that leads to happiness, just be who you are. you're not going to laugh and kiss 24/7, you're going to fight and go through hard times and boring times.

you're supposed to love him for him and vice versa.


but you wanted an answer so, maybe you should just talk about life or stuff that happens in the world, things that mean something...not what whoever wore or whoever is going out. guys don't really care for gossip...unless it's someone they know, but not all the time.

Put out more, silly

^haha i said, not in terms of desires... who said i had a problem with that lol!?

just don't complain or whine alot. don't have to many rules he has to follow if its unneccessary (sp?). when you argue come to a compromise, and always leave with a hug or kiss no matter how mad you guys are. just talk to him when he needs someone to talk to and always be there for him. also be supportive even if you don't agree. establish a best friend relationship but as a boyfriend also.

If you try and u still dont make him happy then he aint worth it.

Exactly.

for me, i just act myself... like trying to make your man happy isnt really a good of a relationship... your guy should like you for who you're... if your just trying to make him happy [keywords: trying to make him happy] then there no point of the relationship [in the way you described it]