ok i really relaly think it's annoying how i've got this facial hair on my upper lip. it LOOKS like a freaking mustache and i am a freaking girl. i care about what ppl think of my appearance & getting rid of my facial hair would be ... AWESOME!!! sooo can anyone give me adviceee i found out my mom has the problem too i think that's where i got it from

bleach it! or ermm...shave it..?

AHHh then it wud grow back thicker and crap wudnt it? that's also a typical man thing to do

I think the best way is to bleach it.
It's still there... but people won't notice as much.

oo. okay =) as long as it isn't as noticible it sounds great lol. any other ideas? ....

Wax it off mi mum does that.

Your options: bleach it, wax it, shave it, or pluck it.

I suggest bleaching it.

bleach it is better :] i asked my mom

p.s azarel ur asian?? omg.

um..that's a toughy. never really dealt with that. the other options sound PAINFUL. so bleach it?

Don't shave it whatever you do, because you will have those bumps and really look like a guy. Bleach or waxing is best =]. best of luck!

i never tried bleach but waxing is good too. it doesn`t leave anything behind.

i'm stupid..

what's bleaching??? does it hurt?

....... what did you think I was?

i heard a long time ago that 90% of women wax their upper lip and the other 10% shave it.

i think bleaching would be kind of hard, wouldnt it get on your skin and make it stand out even more?

i have that too! except its not noticable cause im super duper tanned haha i want to bleach it, but it would stand out EVEN more. so i suggest waxing, DONT shave it.

nerdxcore...

they sell facial bleaching kits. I use one but ehhh... I guess it works okay. You can still kinda see it but i guess it depends on your skin tone

well that's me on the right. umm yea i ono my skin tone color exactly. so yeah there u go lol?

when i'm talking to people on AIM, i type with one hand (lol) and i pluck my upper lip with my other.

Well, it's not all that noticeable to begin with, but I suggest bleaching it in your case.

An alien...obviously.....


Yea, don't shave it whatever you do. Bleach or wax. I would wax, but it's kinda painful, espeically the first couple times.

if you wax it, does it start to grow back thicker?

DONT WAX OR SHAVE IT AT ALL!!!


its hardly noticeable and you're pretty. shaving it would make it grow back darker and darker

if you're still worried just go to Boots or whateer and buy the bleaching cream, i know loadsa people who do it. they dont need it tho, htey just think they do.

shaving doesn't make it darker, however the angle does make it more noticable. Waxing doesn't make it any darker, it actually starts to thin if you do it regularly for a long period of time.

lol thanks suzie. what's... "boots" lol.. ive never heard of that?

Bleach is bad for your skin. Period. Wax or shave it and it'll be fine. I have "fuzz" on my upper lip too and I just shave it (I have blonde hair though.) Shaved hair grows back at an angle and has a blunt point from being shaved so it can have the appearence of being darker or thicker. I strongly don't recommend bleach. Bleach the household product is hazardous and why spend $15 on a hair bleaching kit? Once it's mixed, it has to be used within several hours. Waxing would last longer but I don't have the money or the luxury =) You could also try lotion hair removers such as Nair but I don't find that they work all that well.

I suggest you wax it, it's like whaa? 7 dollars and when it starts to grow back and you can't go to the waxing place, jus shave it.

heey joan...i'm a friend of cindy ngyuen's....but anyway.....bleaching is like dying it....it turns it a really light blonde

ok so i guess... im gonna wax it? ,... how often wud i have to do it though

-bleach. [still there.]
-shave. [hard, you're gonna have to do it continually.]
-wax. [hurts, but it's gone longer.]

I sometimes shave it...as long as you see it when it starts growing backk all you have to do is shave it again!!..I have the same problem..I might try the waxing but I would have to do it ova the weekend cause my friend got her eyebrows waxed & I could totally notice that she got it done..

um. well if i remove the hair and stuff. do u think people would get suspicious or anything lol.

do NOT shave it. it will turn out prickly and dark.


get it THREADED...
its the best way cause it even removes the tiniest and it will grow back slower and thinner.

PLUCKING IT is another good option.


who cares if people notice, as long as you feel good about yourself.

thanks everyone!!!!

Errr...I have the same problem...

I've gotten tanner, so it's not as noticeable...and people in other countries (besides the U.S.) really don't give a phuck. Honestly. Have a mustache and they'll still find your face cute...^0^ So nice!

Nair works, and your hair will regrow back within a week or so, but don't leave the Nair on for too long...actually, you're not supposed to use Nair for your face anyway...but don't listen to the bottle...listen to ~EXPERIENCE~...if you leave Nair on for MORE than 4-5 minutes, it'll start to burn, and the next day, if you touch/rub your upper lip area, it'll start being pricky...;_; So be careful~~!

Waxing is hard for the small hairs, and some times you have to PLUCK it out...I haven't tried threading before, though. Heard it hurts like hell the first time, but you get used to the pain, just like you do with waxing...

Don't shave. Period.

don't shave it, go get it waxed... its really the best option besides electralosist and stuff

the best way is definatrly waxing that shit off. just go to a nail salon its $5 or $7.

i say just shave it. it doesnt really grow back thicker, it just looks like that xD thats what i do at least.

ok i've tried waxing my upper lips.. but for watever reason the wax doesnt work there.. lol it kinda melts.. but it works fine on my legs... i donno wats wrong

I have that problem... if I did anything, I'd probably bleach it.

I suggest you wax it, though, just to be safe, since you're kind of a tan/darker skin tone, it might stand out more.
I'm, like, Edward Scissorhands pale, though, and I have very dark brown hair. lol

thread it .. it stays away longer yeh it is a litttle painful but it feels great afterwards

i think you should pluck

^ no it wont it'll grow back the same, but since you waxed the hair off it'll probably grow back in a month. so it only lasts like a month.
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[/random] I have a small visible mustache as well and im a girl. I don't really care about it, everyone has it some more than other. It all falls out when your older

uhhmm; you could go to a nail salon or spa and like get it like waxed off.. of you could get someone to pluck it out for you. Or shave it like guys do.

ok i said the above thing n no one replied to me :(

but anyways i wont shut up lol... in the above posts girls have mentioned the hair removing cream... well i tried it and it burned.. not much at the time but later on.. n i didnt even leave it on for long.. n now its teh second day n i donno why but i feel even ashamed of going out cuz i keep on imagning i look like i have shaved.. (i do feel n look diff)... and the rashes u can say... oh wait lemme take a pic...
yeah there.. look at me i look horrible.. n it looks as if i am acid burnt or something (not that i know what it looks like to be acid burnt)

for alll facial hair...wax it

i've tried those hair removal stuff but they only work for ppl who don't have sensitive skin cuz i kinda do nd i used it nd well its almost the same as lassipiktunn they have rashes looking annoying thing so i guess pluck but it kinda hurts never tried waxing but i want to =\ bleah well it'll look weird if u get tanner nd the bleah is still there oO hmm..i might do waxing wen i get my eyebrows done too nd see whats the result is =D

i second that sista!i shave it because my hair is dark and my skin tone isnt really dark either so yea, it isnt really noticeale unless you know ppo who are so close to you they look like they are about to kiss ytou or you make out often so yea

threadded???
my mom works at this place and she always has to go buy thread for that facial lady, she said you just wrap it around and pull but i dont think it works @_@

it works just like a tweezer. besides if it didn't, this method wouldn't have lasted over hundreds of years.

get the facial hair [wherever it is on your face] waxed. yes it might be painful but it is a good way to get rid of it for a few days/weeks. it shouldn't cost that much, maybe 10.00 depending where you go. you could try to shave it but you could always cut your face and have weird cuts all over.