I really fell for this guy! I mean realllllly! It started out as a silly crush but crew into a massive obsession! I need to get over him but the thing is I can't because in the back of my mind I still believe I have a chance.

See when i use to see him a lot at school i thought he was always sending me signals and my friends saw it too and they were all "i think he likes you!" and this made me like him more because my friends were behind me.

Anyway ya i talked to his friend and he was like "no he doesnt like you. he doesnt like anybody right now" and i asked him if i had a chance and he was like "nope" but i'm stupid enough to listen to my friends who are like "oh maybe he's lying" or "maybe he changed his mind" (its been about a month since i talked to his friend or even seen the boy of been obsessing over)

Anyway whenever i look back at all the signals he gave me i still think i have a chance and same with my friends. Theres a slight chance he might be at one of our mutual friends birthday part on tuesday. How do you think i should act? Should I flirt with him? Should I ignore him? Should I act normal and pretend that I don't like him and think about him every second of the day!!!??? (i told you i fell hard for the guy) or do u think i should, if the timing seems right, confront him about my feelings? (did i mention he just graduated and his headed halfway across the country in a little over a month?)

I say get to know each other first.

I told me ex that i liked him and he was having a relationship at that time, and everything was all messed up.

Maybe the signals he was sending was because he's just really flirty. That's how my guy friend is, and I liked him for a long long time, and etc.

Don't worry about what your friends or his friends say; a lot of times people who think they know really don't. Just do whatever you feel is right.

lol ur story is kind of like mine except the guy i like is going to college which is 5 hours away approx i hate it how crushes can become massive obsessions. i seriously shoudln't be spending so much time thinking about one BOY erk.jghsd.fg

haha... just don't ignore him.

what kind of purpose would that serve? guys hate mind games.

nuff said.

Duhh, get to know him more.
You might never know what's up after that. =)

friends are misleading. that's when the trouble comes rolling in.

just talk to him yourself and see where things go from there.

oh man, you should talk to him first!