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Mizz Rizza
wat is the difference between soul mate and the love of your life?
which one would you choose?
no problem or advice needed to be given
i guess i was just wondering
cuz it kinda makes me wonder :/
xFaith
I think a soul mates is someone who is like you; who completes you.. love of your life is just someone you love VERY much.. :P a soulmate can be a friend too, so i'd choose a soulmate :P
c4rL4
Soulmates hav things n common.. but the person u love..
sometimes.. opposites attract..


WEll.. My friend.. has that prob..
its like.. shes wid sum1 but she has diz soulmate and she likes him or sumtin..

If i were you.. id go wid.. Soulmate also..
cuz u guys hav things in common..
sadolakced acid
let's see...

soulmate= perfect companion

love of life= who (or what ) you devote your life too.

i'd want a soulmate.
anubis
i definitely choose love of my life

--a soulmate is someone that you have a bonding relationship with--almost as if you're one person. you share common interests and is definitely a person you can talk to anytime--since you have so much in common.

--but a lover shares what a soulmate doesn't. intimacy. now if love of my life means the same person for the rest of my life, i'd definitely choose that because, although a soulmate is someone i can share a conversation with at any time, a lover is someone i can express myself to (psychologically, mentally, romantically, and even sexually).

my values weigh more towards love than friendship.
sadolakced acid
QUOTE(anubis @ Jul 11 2005, 3:45 AM)
i definitely choose love of my life

--a soulmate is someone that you have a bonding relationship with--almost as if you're one person. you share common interests and is definitely a person you can talk to anytime--since you have so much in common.

--but a lover shares what a soulmate doesn't. intimacy. now if love of my life means the same person for the rest of my life, i'd definitely choose that because, although a soulmate is someone i can share a conversation with at any time, a lover is someone i can express myself to (psychologically, mentally, romantically, and even sexually).

my values weigh more towards love than friendship.
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unfortunatly, you're assuming the love of your life loves you back. which is not nessicarily.
anubis
QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Jul 11 2005, 2:48 AM)
unfortunatly, you're assuming the love of your life loves you back.  which is not nessicarily.
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of course i'd assume that _dry.gif

i'm sure mizz rizza didn't mean love of your life as unrequited love or a one-way love--or else there wouldn't need to be a question in the first place.

you can stick to your choice, and i'll stick with mine.
sadolakced acid
QUOTE(anubis @ Jul 11 2005, 3:52 AM)
of course i'd assume that  _dry.gif

i'm sure mizz rizza didn't mean love of your life as unrequited love or a one-way love--or else there wouldn't need to be a question in the first place.

you can stick to your choice, and i'll stick with mine.
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hmm... well, i don't think mizz rizza meant soul mate as friend either...

oh well. love is fun.
this__love
i'd rather have a soul-mate to complete me than a 'love of my life' that makes me feel empty. o_o; i dunno xD why can't we have both? like one or both of them as friends only? what's so wrong with that? xD
_suzie_
soulmates are a great thing. i have had the pleasure of having two

one of them was coincidently someone i did love, and it turned out bad. i think i'd love to have a love of my life again, but they always end so shitly, so i guess a soulmate would be better
silver-rain
Well, the love of your life could also be your soulmate.
A soulmate is someone that is perfectly compatable with you, someone you can spend the rest of your life with. It can either be a friend or some romantic partner.
The love of your life is someone whom you will always love for the rest of your life; whether they love you back is different. However, if the love is reciprocal, then they could also be your soulmate.
I believe that I have already found my soulmate, who is also the love of my life.
anubis
QUOTE(linke3 @ Jul 11 2005, 8:27 AM)
Well, the love of your life could also be your soulmate.
A soulmate is someone that is perfectly compatable with you, someone you can spend the rest of your life with. It can either be a friend or some romantic partner.
The love of your life is someone whom you will always love for the rest of your life; whether they love you back is different. However, if the love is reciprocal, then they could also be your soulmate.
I believe that I have already found my soulmate, who is also the love of my life.
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good answer happy.gif
mouse_3k
Theres not difference...
lKVNiiKINKYl
love of your life...some random person who is really special

soul mate...someone just like you and is more of a bestfriend but i think you can have a soul mate love of your life type of thing going on if your lucky =0
Azarel
Soul mate - I personally think that you don't have control over this one. A soul mate is someone you were made for, a soul mate is someone who you are destined to be with, as final as that sounds. He/she is the one that complements you in every way; he/she knows exactly how you feel, knows exactly how to make you happy. When united with him/her, you feel complete - you know it's him/her.

Love of your life - This one, you do have control over. The love of your life, the one that shines brighter than the others. Perhaps not a soulmate, but as close as you can get because, after all, not everyone is lucky enough to find his/her soulmate in this large world. However, this love can be unrequited, one-sided, or even just an infatuation.

I'd definitely choose a soul mate - and I have just that.
lilJdawg
QUOTE(Azarel @ Jul 11 2005, 5:16 PM)
Soul mate - I personally think that you don't have control over this one. A soul mate is someone you were made for, a soul mate is someone who you are destined to be with, as final as that sounds. He/she is the one that complements you in every way; he/she knows exactly how you feel, knows exactly how to make you happy. When united with him/her, you feel complete - you know it's him/her.

Love of your life - This one, you do have control over. The love of your life, the one that shines brighter than the others. Perhaps not a soulmate, but as close as you can get because, after all, not everyone is lucky enough to find his/her soulmate in this large world. However, this love can be unrequited, one-sided, or even just an infatuation.

I'd definitely choose a soul mate - and I have just that.
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I agree with her.
enyceXaddiction
QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Jul 11 2005, 3:40 AM)
soulmate= perfect companion

love of life= who (or what ) you devote your life too.

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there goes your answer
Jordan Inc.
im not even sure wut soul mate really means -.-
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