XCandiixLipz69X
Jul 10 2005, 11:12 AM
Okay, so I've been hanging out with this 18 year old guy, and I'm 15. And I'm supposed to hang out with him today, but my dad doesn't want me hanging out with him anymore, because it looks bad. How do I tell him I can't hang out with him anymore, without him thinking that
I don't want to hang out, when it's really my parents?
sandy_lumpy_shore
Jul 10 2005, 12:00 PM
well tell him the truth. "my dad doesn't want us hanging out but i..." and tell im how you feel. like more or just friends
yycleo
Jul 10 2005, 12:09 PM
Yea, Tell him the truth.
And have u indtroduced himto your parents. Maybe they'll change after they've met him.
Paradox of Life
Jul 10 2005, 01:20 PM
If you guys are friends, he deserves to know the truth. There's no reason to keep this "secret" from him. Tell him your parents dont' want you two being more than friends. If you can't hang out with him, oh well. There are a lot more fish in the sea your age and it'd be a lot less complicated with your parents.
IamRad
Jul 10 2005, 01:41 PM
he may understand if ur dad tells him...and most guys know how protective girls parents are.. so yeah
Hiphop d[-_-]b
Jul 10 2005, 01:42 PM
QUOTE
well tell him the truth. "my dad doesn't want us hanging out but i..." and tell im how you feel. like more or just friends
QUOTE
Yea, Tell him the truth.
do that. if you tell him that, and ask if he'd like to meet your parents and make an impression maybe theyd change their minds.
Bobblehead425
Jul 10 2005, 01:46 PM
try making a big deal out of how ur dad wont let you hang out...then he will know ur telling the truth

srry u cant hang out
enyceXaddiction
Jul 10 2005, 01:48 PM
QUOTE(sandy_lumpy_shore @ Jul 10 2005, 12:00 PM)
well tell him the truth. "my dad doesn't want us hanging out but i..." and tell im how you feel. like more or just friends

^exactly. i would just sneak out and meet with him lols
xSiLLyMex
Jul 10 2005, 02:11 PM
I agree w/ everybody..Tell him the truth.
..:loveee.NuTTii
Jul 10 2005, 02:40 PM
Telling the truth is the best option. Or you could try to reason with your dad and try to change his mind.
yellowgurl
Jul 10 2005, 02:45 PM
Your parents are probably worried for you, why not try introducing your friend to your parents and maybe they'll change their mind. If not, then tell your friend the truth
SandRAWRz
Jul 10 2005, 04:24 PM
say my parents don't want us to hang around anymore so this is what we do we sneak around
mouse_3k
Jul 10 2005, 04:32 PM
"my dad says I cant chill wit you. See ya" then dip out...simple
stephinika
Jul 10 2005, 05:20 PM
^^
how nice.

heh
but yeah just tell him the truth, or try to convince your dad, but that's probably a lot harder so yeah...
osidepinay33
Jul 10 2005, 05:21 PM
lyk everyone else said.. tell him the truth..lol
Skyline Drive
Jul 10 2005, 05:23 PM
I agree with everyone else.. it's best to just tell him the truth. He will understand.
xlaydee_v
Jul 10 2005, 10:04 PM
tell him the truth liek everyone else said.
3ssx
Jul 10 2005, 10:16 PM
just tell him your parents dont want you to and that your sorry. and you really want to but your parents just wont let you
this__love
Jul 11 2005, 05:29 AM
well, you like being his friend right? all you can do is tell him the truth no matter how he takes it. tell him straight, "my dad doesn't want us to hangout but I still would like to hangout with you.. I just don't want to go against his wishes because well, he's my dad." and if he doesn't understand, then screw with him. you don't need him. you have many other friends to hangout with. what's one going to do? anyways, you can still prove to your dad that your eighteen year old friend is a good person because maybe your dad thinks he is bad? i dunno.. ask your dad what's wrong with him i guess. three years older isn't much of a difference.
sheddingtears
Jul 24 2005, 07:17 AM
it's nice how you are listening to your parents... but if you like him that much, dont lie to him. maybe he can come over and have dinner or meet your dad in person or something. or maybe your dad knows hes bad for a reason.
This is a "lo-fi" version of our main content. To view the full version with more information, formatting and images, please
click here.