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ix3youx33
hey well i'm in like middleschool n i have a lot of friends and all but like over 10 people hate me cuz i like have boyfriends older than me...
enyceXaddiction
i dont get whats the problem of having a bf older thne you. i ALWAYS have a bf older then me cause i hang out with older people.
parallel
I like. Wouldn't care what like. Other people think.
So like. Don't worry.
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[Scr3amin][Horror]
blink.gif What wrong with having older boyfriends?
I have one, I guess the people are just jealous of you.
So who gives a crap about what other people say?
Just as long your happy everything will turn out fine _smile.gif
yOUCANtSEEmE
i always date people older than me. i dont think its a problem.

but i had a problem i guess sort of like yours. when i was in middle school i would date people in high school. i guess a lot of people were jealous. they said that they didnt believe me and started talking behind my back telling everyone that they dont think i really had an boyfriend in high school.

it shouldnt really matter what other people think. obviously they arent your real friends. its just a little bit of middle school drama. youve still got your true friends so dont worry.
Azarel
Honey, this is life, not a videogame. There are no re-do's. You can't start over.

Wait until high school before dating. You young'uns. Geez.
xlaydee_v
QUOTE(Azarel @ Jul 10 2005, 12:23 AM)
Honey, this is life, not a videogame. There are no re-do's. You can't start over.

Wait until high school before dating. You young'uns. Geez.
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hahaa, i agree. stubborn.gif
Azarel
Oh, but on the upside! NICE AVATAR. Sinfest's Pooch & Percival are definitely my faves of the comic. :]
SandRAWRz
screw them...they're just jealous they need to get over it and move on
mouse_3k
like omgosh like really? wow thats totally like weird _dry.gif

If ur friends hate u for your boyfriend then screw them. But if your 13 and ur boyfriends are about 19 then I would hate you too. If its at a reasonable age like 14 and 15 or 16 then its fine.
SpedMonkee
well i mean there is nothing wrong with having an older bf.. it just depends how old.. because i say more than about 6 years is just wrong... but ive had bad past experiences....
yellowgurl
theres nothing wrong with that... are you sure they aren't just jealous of you?
osidepinay33
iit should matter wut ppl say juz cuz u have an older b-f it doesn't matter maybe they juz jealous..
[x]Mari[x]
Depends on the age difference... when you're older, it doesn't really matter, but when you're still in school, some people look at it oddly... such as a 7th grade girl dating a junior in high school. Seems kinda odd to most people.

But, there's nothing wrong with older boyfriends, and nothing wrong with you being older than your boyfriend, either.
ktsou11
they hate you cause they're probably jealous. just who cares. once you get into high school, all that pettiness in middle school is gone. just deal with it for now and dont even worry about it.
3ssx
who cares what other ppl think. =] heck with them
this__love
^i agree. it's what YOU think that matters. ^^;;

anyways, you don't need people to agree with you. it's what you think that counts as long as it's the right thing.. that i guess it's all that matters? ^^

you can't start over, it's impossible. if god really granted us reincarnation then don't you think we'd all suicide to have another life when things go wrong?
bbyunique
you can't start over. just move on and live your life. fcuk what people think. impressing/pleasing others does nothing good for you. i've always dated people my age or older. its normal to date older guys just not tooo old.
sheddingtears
dont worry about it. if you like your bf, duh, then dont change just to please other people. if it's that fitting in problem, just make new friends. older guys could be more mature and experienced, unlike the immaturity of those 10 people. it's not even their lives. just lives yours and keep what makes you happy.
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