last month me and my bf broke up because he thought i liked this other guy,robin, becuz i was hanging out with him (since my bf always hangs out with his friends). so anyways i was really upset when he told me we should brake up . and now i like robin becuz i know i can trust him since he was there to comfort me when my ex broke up with me. now i just flirt with him becuz i really like him but he has no clue that i do. we always hang out now like going to mall swimming, ect. should i tell him if i like him. or even if i really do like him.

well it seems to me that you grew attached to him when he was there for you when your bf broke up with ya. when you broke up with your boyfriend you were a bit more open minded to him. so you may or may not really like him, that is up to you. but if your willing to give it a shot with robin and you think that it wont mess up anything to much on your friendship then go ahead, more power to you for being able to get yourself back up and on track!

Ah, it sounds like this Robin may just be your rebound guy. Hold off telling him for a little to see if your feelings are genuine.

nobody cant tell you if really do like a person.

nobody knows your feelings.

you have to figure that out yourself...if you were soo sad when ur bf broke up with you..doesn't that mean you still have feelings for him?

girl open your eyes GUYS WILL NEVER GUESS IT. their the blindess human beign living on earth. tell him.

Tell me, you dont need us to tell you that =)

^^ agreed! give your feelings a little bit more time and then approach him if you still like him!

give it time.

Try and give him some hints that you like him. See what he does.

same thing happened to me, but only i broke up with my ex-ex to go out w/ my ex... it turned out that i have been keeping touch with my ex-ex bhind my ex's back.. i told him the TRUTH, on that same day i told him [that i was talking to him] he broke up with me... so it turnes out BOYS really cant handel the truth... [eventually we got back together and wanted me to give hime a second chance]

tell him. but we cant tell you whether you like him or not, thats what you feel.

i also agree ...

i finally told robin that i liked him. he didn't react to it. he just said "oh". we still hangout and stuff and i go to his house sometimes. im not sure if he likes me though cuz he doesn't show it and everything we hang out i get confused wether we're just buds or not since we hang out so much together

Seems like your attached to him these couple weeks. I think you should wait awhile 'bcuhs you juhs broken up with your boyfriend & yeah. Then when you think the time is right, tell him your feelings & see how he feels about it.

i think you may be thinking this guy is really sweet and all possibly cuz that last bf you had acted like a jerk. although dont listen to me please this is just my opinion. it could be you like him, too. but i would give it a little time.

You were hanging out with him WHILE you had a boyfriend. You grew fond of him AND he was there for you.

Dude. If you dont say SOMETHING TO HIM you'll loose him.

^^^i told him that i liked him and he didn't act any different then before. i don't even know if he likes me back tho. ugh im so confused

I agree. it seems like your transition was a little quick, I'd jsut wait and see what you think of him when your feelings settle down a bit, then you can make the decesion

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oh, you already told him you liked him. well, so much for my advice

maybe you should ask him wether he shares your feeling...but be ready for disapointment, he might not like you the way you want him to

you should just tell him, and if you guys are good enough friends, then things won't be awkward around you two.

"better to regret something you did than to regret something you didn't do" kinda thing.

1. sad feelings + guy friend + hormones = using him + rebound guy.
2. we can't decide what u feel. ur gonna have to determine that urself.
3. wait a while until u can really determine that ur fine and if u really like robin/not.


oh wait. i just read what u wrote.

well, sounds like ur just friends. friends hang out together...some more than others. sounds like he's just ur best guy friend to me. u can ask him if he feels the same for u, but i wouldn't get my hopes up if i were u.

yesterday got me even more confussed cause robin told me to go to the mall with him and i said ok cause i thought since it was no big deal. then my best friend came along. so the three of us hanged out and watched a movie. my friend sat by herself in a two seater, because she was tired and wanted to lay down. me and robin sat in the two seaters above my friend. he then sat in the same seat as i did. i was like how come you didn't sit in that other seat. he said i don't like that seat i like this seat. so after the movie we went to eat at the food court. me and my friend brought stuff to eat and robin just sat there and watched us. me and my friend shared a drink with seprate staws. then robin took the drink and drank my staw after i drank it. so i didn't want to drink it till later. he kept on drinking my straw i got pissed off cuz i didn't get to drink any except for the frist sip. then he was like lets hold hands and i didn't hear him so he picked up my hand and put it on his and we walked i didn't notice till later cuz i was looking at something in the store windows. then when i noticed i let go and he seems like this . then me and my friend went somewhere to buy shirts i think hollister. he was like wat do you want to eat. i was like i want some of that ice cream (i was just joking). he left so we went to hollister. when i was trying on cloths he ran in with the ice cream cup in his hands and catching his breath. i was so shocked .when we went home he said this was the greatest day to me and gave me a hug. that day really confused me cuz he was all acting like we together
srry for the long story

well yeah, go for it , you only live once, you should go right up to him and kiss him... he'll like that , try it

if i do that i might ruin our friendship