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azndreamer
Question: Is flirting with someone and hitting on them the same thing?
Shahin
Yeah.
yellowgurl
flirting and hitting on them ... depends how you define both ... to me I think that flirting is kind of like just fun not expecting anything from it.. and hitting on them is liking them alot? so.. i guess they arent the same
xMiZziexKiMx
i think it's different..... but who knows......
freshxsmiles
QUOTE(Shahin @ Jul 8 2005, 9:40 PM)
Yeah.
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hmm, flirting and hitting on someone are different to me. Maybe its the same with some, but to me flirting is just to tease someone or try to get a guys/girls attention (depending what sex you are lols unless your gay/lesbian) or just being dorky/stupid with your friends. And Hitting on someone to me is that your really trying hard to impress or get that somebody to like you.

But truly, i have no clue. I mean usually if you flirt or hitt on someone..you like them..or you find intrest in them.. haha i'll just keep at that.
maia_dc
No. Flirting is when you're friendly and suggestive, but no promises or questions asked.
Hitting on someone is upright asking for their number or to sleep with them.
3ssx
hmm they're similar.
enyceXaddiction
QUOTE(yellowgurl @ Jul 8 2005, 8:41 PM)
flirting and hitting on them ... depends how you define both ... to me I think that flirting is kind of like just fun not expecting anything from it.. and hitting on them is liking them alot?  so.. i guess they arent the same
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^agreed. it depends on what point of view flirting and hitting on someone is it you.
Spirited Away
QUOTE(azndreamer @ Jul 8 2005, 8:25 PM)
Question: Is flirting with someone and hitting on them the same thing?
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First off, what does your common sense tell you?
SandRAWRz
i think hitting on falls under flirting
Chii
they have different meanings.

flirting is when you're just playing around or trying to hint your interest lightly, however hitting on someone is when you just outright make your interest obvious.
ktsou11
i think they're both the same thing just that hitting on someone is a type of flirting.
[Scr3amin][Horror]
I think it the same... huh.gif
Except it said in different ways
salcha
Hitting on someone is more extreme and straightforward. Flirting is fun and giving little hints.
mai_z
I would say that flirting is more fun, casual, and innocent, while hitting on someone is much more direct and definately not innocent
Paradox of Life
QUOTE(mai_z @ Jul 9 2005, 1:09 PM)
I would say that flirting is more fun, casual, and innocent, while hitting on someone is much more direct and definately not innocent
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I agree. Flirting is something you can do with several people just for fun, but hitting on someone is direct and you're saying you like them especially.
nosuntoday
QUOTE(azndreamer @ Jul 8 2005, 6:25 PM)
Question: Is flirting with someone and hitting on them the same thing?
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kinda.. yeah.
ldy_kari
Flirting is when a guy really likes you and wants your attention badly
Hitting on is like you just want to have her like you do a blow job etc get it over with
bbyunique
its kind of the same thing...it depends on how you flirt since there are different level of flirting
im_aGERM
they're similar. flirting is just having fun and hitting on is just when you want something.
IamRad
i dont think it is.. it depends on how you view it
lilJdawg
QUOTE(maia_dc @ Jul 8 2005, 9:36 PM)
No. Flirting is when you're friendly and suggestive, but no promises or questions asked.
Hitting on someone is upright asking for their number or to sleep with them.
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^I agree.
dragyn
Hitting on someone is a more direct approach. They're the same basic concepts, but when you say 'hitting on' it denotes a way more straightforward attitude. Flirting takes two people, but it only takes one person to hit on someone.
teeners4
i think it's different. some girls are naturally flirty. and they dont mean to be. whlie hitting on it's like you know you're doing it, and you're hoping the guy gets attracted by it and gets interested in you. while flirting is like you're just doing it, not expecting anything big...
murderwaltz
QUOTE(maia_dc @ Jul 8 2005, 9:36 PM)
No. Flirting is when you're friendly and suggestive, but no promises or questions asked.
Hitting on someone is upright asking for their number or to sleep with them.
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i concur.
Im So Vain
Its not in my opinion, because I flirt a lot with guys, but that does not mean Im trying to get with them. They're two different things flirting with someone is more fooling around or playful like. Hard to explain.
HoodieObsessed
QUOTE(freshxsmiles @ Jul 8 2005, 5:49 PM)
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he wasn't spamming, he was giving his opinion, if he thinks they are the same what else is he sopposed to say? if you can state your opinion in a very small amount of words why should you ahve to make it longer for no aperent reason jsut so ppl like you won't call it spam? th'ats just stupid. mellow.gif

I think that hitting is more serius than flirting. but I don't know about this stuff, I'm pretty out of it.
Joss-eh-lime
QUOTE(maia_dc @ Jul 8 2005, 7:36 PM)
No. Flirting is when you're friendly and suggestive, but no promises or questions asked.
Hitting on someone is upright asking for their number or to sleep with them.
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pretty much that. flirting is supposed to be fun, but hitting on someone is more aggresive
tears_of_blood
lol, agressive. i guess hitting on someone is when you know that you like them and perhaps they like you back as well?
stephenmatthewg92
I don't consider it the same thing. If you're telling someone all the things you like about them then you are hitting on them. If you're just flirting, then you're.. flirting
silentxcries
uhhhhh idk.. probably.. like i said idk.. maybe try using a thesourus [or however that is spelt]
xXMomoBubbleTeaXx
QUOTE(maia_dc @ Jul 8 2005, 10:36 PM)
No. Flirting is when you're friendly and suggestive, but no promises or questions asked.
Hitting on someone is upright asking for their number or to sleep with them.
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^^^^ I agree...I <33333 flirting, but I consider hitting on someone being agressive flirting..I think thats why it's called hitting on someone... ermm.gif
sheddingtears
well to me

flirting could mean that you either like them or you don't and you do it just because

and hitting is having a thing for them and hoping they notice
sweetabandon
QUOTE(one_and_only @ Jul 15 2005, 11:36 AM)
pretty much that. flirting is supposed to be fun, but hitting on someone is more aggresive
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lol my first thought>> hitting:agressive::punching:angry

sorry i'm a dork.

well i guess everyone's explained it here.

flirting=playful
hitting=straight up "I want you, NOW."
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