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matthew3431
me and this girl are best friends, we usually talk on the fone almost every day, unless she is at my house or visa versa. she falls for guys really easily because she keeps falling for the wrong ones. the guy she likes now she had already gone out with and broke up with him because he is an a-hole. and she went out with this dude 3 times and he treated her like dirt. shes says she cant live with out so wht do i do to get her to like me since we are already best friends?
Eryi
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Well, tell her you like her or something and start asking her out. Just keep the flirtation going on.
waitwaitwait
That's sort of a hard situation you have there...

You could tell her, like JAM said. But what if she doesn't like you back? You wouldn't want to ruin your friendship with your best friend.
Paradox of Life
Yeah, this should be in relationships. Hm, it looks like this girl isn't ready for a relationship judging by her choice in boys and how many times she's gone out with them. I think you two should just be friends for now. I know it's hard for you to keep your paws off her, but if you rush a relationship, it'll end just as fast.
LoST SouL
omg i am in the sam situation but only the other way around .... in other words im in your friends position[always getting the wrong guys and telling my best friend] well i am asumming you keep telling her what type of guy she should b looking for... like some one who respects her treates her right etc. be that type of guy... she is your best friend you must know her well.. TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL! JUST TELL HER! who knows she may feel the same way
iNyCxShoRT
You can't make her like you obviously. So the first thing you should do is tell her that you like her. And if she can't handle that fact and starts being all ignoring you, heh-what a nice friend. Take a chance. She likes you or not. Only one way to find out.
x0hAyLiE0x
all u gotta do is show her u have an interest in her and if u see a sign she might like u then yeah ask her out
lAzN YiN YanGl
Be honest...don't try to hint her that you like her because she most likely won't notice because you are such good friends.
heyyfrankie
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Mizz Rizza
well she keeps falling for the wrong ones
and if you think that ur the rite one for her
then show her
prove to her that you can be better than any of the
other guys
that she falls for
she's had to many heartbreaks
and prolly so many tears
that she needs a guy like you

and if she rejects you
which i would doubt she will

dont be sad
cuz im sure at one point
she'll realize ur wats best for her
but until then
continue to be there for her
continue to be a friend
DixieDaCutie
let her know how ya feel...who noz, she might feel tha same way, but you're nvr gonna find out if u don't get it out there. if she's not into u, u'll still be her best friend... hopefully she'll be glad to have the chance w/ someone that's not a total @ss.
laxumaster8
yes, talk with her...maybe she doenst now that you really want a relationship with her...or maybe she just wants it the way it is...i hope you find a good solution
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