See..... I like this girl and this other due likes the same girl.... The girl had a pool party and other day and didn't invite me but she invited the other dude..... So i asked her why she didn't invite me..She said" My dad would've started asking you questions." OK.... The other dude told her he's totally obsessed with her. She told me that she has way, way more feelings for me than him... What should I do?

A) Beat the living out of the guy
B) Deal with it and ask her to be my girlfriend
C) Give up..........

wait, did the girl tell you why her dad would start asking you questions, but not the other guy? if she didnt, ask her first. the girl u like said she has more feelings for you...there's a possibility that she just said that because she didn't want you to feel bad for not being invited. have you talked with the other dude? is he so obsessed, that he doesnt like the fact that you like the girl? but on the other hand, it was just a pool party. there could be many reasons. talk it out. also watch what goes on.

dude. based on this girl's actions, sounds like shes totally playing you two. there must have been more than just "my dad would've started asking questions" for not inviting you.

i think that she's telling BOTH of you that she likes either one of you, to make it seem favorable without her losing the interest from either one of you.

and at her pool party, she obviously didn't want the two of you with her at the same time. because then you would both see that she's playing you both.

sorry for being critical but i think that's how it is. it's not the other guy's fault. not at all.

if she always prevents being with you two at the same time, then she's obviously playing a game by trying to have the both of you at the same time. telling both you and him that she likes you/him more than the other.

if i were you, i'd forget her.

if you tried plan B and asked her out, it depends on what her intentions are. it'll definitely put her in a shitty situation though.

she might say yes and still continue to take interest in him, regardless of your new relationship, or say no and give you some shitty-ass excuse like the one before, and still try to persuade you she likes you better.

best thing i'd suggest is not GIVING UP. but finding someone who will treat you as an individual. you and ONLY you.

^Wow. I could've never thought of that.


I agree with him though.
Us girls can be like guys and play.

First of all this should be in Relationships.
Fighting does not solve everything. Why don't you just ask her out?

Well she sounds like she doesn't see you as that good of a friend...no offense. I was in the exact same situation except it was in a end of the school year party at her house and she said "Oh, I didn't want my parents to bug you" and it was so akward. I then asked her out and it wasn't pretty -_-..

I'll talk to her about it....... She said yea.... lol... She's my girlfriend now.... and she hates the other dude

Sounds like everything went as planned?

Congradulations!

awwwwwwww lols congrats man!

Congrats.

This should be closed now.

closed. =)