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xEat a VeganX
i like this boy at my school, he always makes me laugh and is fun to be around. im not sure if he likes me back, but i think that he might. the problem is his best friend keeps hitting on me, ive made some obvious hints that i dont like him, but you know how boys can be.... thick. im horrible with confrontation so is there anyother way i can get the point across that i DONT like him??



stupid boys...
Mireh
Ignore the kid. _smile.gif Act mean to him.

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whomps
you could either shun the other guy away or just tell him the truth.
Just_Dream
Yea, don't lead guys on. I mean, it's better to say something now.. BUT if he does like you and then you like his friend.. he MIGHT get mad at his friend.. erg.. DRAMA.. that's the only bad part of the aftermath >_<"
malenky_koshka
what about telling the guy you like that his friend is hitting on you? ask him what to do, because even if he doesn't like you, by the way you describe him, he'll probably help out.
xEat a VeganX
thanks guys.
NvieDi3ai3yGrL
there isn't many ways to avoid the confrontation. if he makes you feel uncomfortable and you don't like him simply tell him so and that you don't appreciate his remarks, etc. you have to say how you feel or they won't ever get the picture.
f00LisH_h3aRt63
dont lead that guy one...because if u do then more than one person will get hurt. plus playing mind games arent nice. lOL

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Ghost_Knyght
Sort of off topic but Drama = Purified Annoying.....things
angel-roh
QUOTE(Mireh @ Apr 17 2004, 7:20 AM)
Ignore the kid. _smile.gif Act mean to him.

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i agree with val... jus ignore him and jus be mean to him and all... and say somethin that will shock him and that can make stop him from hitting on u^^
anna_banana08
haha. i guess you should take their advice... act mean :-P
Mizz Cindy Tron
tell him tu freak off hahaha jk umm... well..talk tu him about it. Ask him if he lyks u first and if he says yes THEN talk tu him. If u just talk tu him about it and it turns out that he really doesn't lyk u then...that would be pretty embarassing..lol Let him down softly wink.gif
FlyingFries
.......pinch.gif girls can be really confuseing also
EmeraldKnight
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....... girls can be really confuseing also


Yup... everyone's an enigma.. if ppl werent so confusing, where would the fun be in finding out what they're realli like?
rOckThISshYt
i don't really think it matters. maybe he just likes to flirt. i do that all the time. just hit on people for the fun of it. but if you like this guy, then just let him know.
ryfitaDF
my best advice is just get it over with. tell the kid you don't like you don't like him. tell the kid you do like that you do like him, and if he says no then just move on to somone else cause he obviously diesn't deserve you liking him.

and try not to lead people on. i've lead people on before witout even knowing it and i still feel bad about it.
sweetlyz
ask your friend to say something to this guy .. or just ignore him
melface
be like... "Oh... You're not my type, but your best friend is. ;]"
darkcoldplace
just as easy tell him to fcuk off or you can be good and tell the boy u like to tel lhis friend to fcuk off ohmy.gif
hybrid
Wait.. if you're being mean to his bestfriend, wouldn't that mean that he's going to say, "Hey that girl is mean" and his bestfriend won't go out with you anymore?
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