how do i stop likin my best friend ahh i need help

Tell yourself that if you guys ever go out and your relationship turns ugly, you'll never be the same ever.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

ive tried tat but its not goin away

feelings arent under ur control lol i guess till (s)he breaks ur heart then u'll stop

uff tass wat im scared of

u can think of it this way, if u cherish the friendship with him more then u should let go, think of him as an older brother... and say... even if u guys end up going out, wut happens if u guys break up? that'll hurt the original friendship and u guys will stop talking and if he does break ur heart, its better so u can let go right...?

hmm, i don't think it's possible to make yourself stop liking a person. cause you can't control your feelings.

She was my best friend. Now shes my g/f. It's not that bad. As long as you have the courage to talk to him/her once you break up, your friendship will never end.

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It's awsome how she says "He's MY man!" I feel so manly.

You can't for yourself not to.

theres really nothing u can do because u cant choose who u love or like. ur heart does not ur mind. so no matter how hard u try to not like ur best friend. ur just gonna have to let it ride its course. thats all.

jackie

justin was my best friend...nd' he reallie loved me a lot...lols... but we ended up in a relationship! lols newais... jus to let u kno... my other friends were going in that porblem... like my friend told me... that he lost friendship with his friend... that she was so uncomfortable around him...so yeah... ask her "wat do u think abot me?"... even tho that will make her think that u like her....but still gib a try asking that...and if she says ur nice and cool... and when u hear like "ummmmm..." that means....a bad thing..lols i guess? haha...well i kno that it is cus i jus knoe~~ lols

umm my advice is to not stop.. maybe they're into you too
mine turned out good and when we decided to be friends, we we're still best friends

its not that easy to just stop liking someone .. maybe yOo should talk to her about it. yOo could try to see how it would go between yOo two to see if it would actually work .. but keep in mind that there`s a chance it won`t and if that happens you both need to talk about what it`ll do to your relationship as friends

why do you want to stop liking him?? To be honest tho, you cant control the way you feel about someone..if you feel that way..then you feel that way..you can hide it..but you cant stop it just like that

why can't you just let it flow.. see what ends up happening sooner or later w/ your friendship.. maybe she/he might even like you too.

yeh ghirl..i kno exactly how yoo feel. tha guy i like is also my best friend..en sadly..he's movin. so i figured i needed to tell him..but i was juss too scared. so i got my best friend to tell him. but things turned out to be that he juss liked me as a realli realli good friend-- juss like a sister. yeh it hurt..but it was worth a chance to take. tha first dey it was realli awkward..but we finally talked about it en now things are juss tha same as it used to be b4 he knew that i liked him.

i'm in the exact same position as you. it happened to me before with my other best friend, and we did end up going out, and now we're so awkward around eachother it's crazy, though we're finally getting better after 5 months. i don't know what to think with this other guy now though.

with time, feelings fade.... ahahha who am i to say this... almost 5 years that i'm stuck on my best friend

its hard, you gotta like someone else...

you can`t really force yourself to stop liking someone...

i`m on the same boat as you are-- i`m in deep for my bestfriend... just wait it out.. if a relationship isn`t what they`re looking for, then settle for the friendship.... you never know what can happen in the future.

boo.. haha we have the same lil picture thingy-ma-bob!! WEEE we must be cool..

anyways*

you cant really just stop liking someone.. trust me.. i have TRIED! doesnt work.. sooo... i think you should tell him//her.. how you feel.. iunno thats what i did.. and we`re still best friends.. iunno.. see how things go?

move to another state.

keep tellin urself "we're best friends and our friendship is much more impt than relationship"

it's not easy to stop liking a best friend .. more times than not you end up falling for a close friend in your life .. maybe they are feeling the same .. give it time to see what it grows into .. if it doesn't work out .. the only way to really stop liking them the fastest is to distance yourself from them a little bit ..

easily- you don't.

replace that feeling with someone else