...but then after you start going out it seems less fun cuz the mystery of whether they like you back is gone....meh...if you dont get what im saying i dont blame you...i dont even get what i just wrote...this forum business is harder than i thought!
Full Version: the chase!
i dont know what it is...but i find this part of a relationship really fun if ur successful, its just like flirting back and forth and gradually getting more and more close, and then each time i move up a step with a girl it feels awesome! maybe its just a highschool thing....i mean the time i first held my gf's hand after like 4 months of talking and flirting...it felt great...like ive earned it or somehting..lol..i doubt older people get a chance to gradually flirt into a relationship...but yeah...anyone get what im saying?? ...but then after you start going out it seems less fun cuz the mystery of whether they like you back is gone....meh...if you dont get what im saying i dont blame you...i dont even get what i just wrote...this forum business is harder than i thought!
...but then after you start going out it seems less fun cuz the mystery of whether they like you back is gone....meh...if you dont get what im saying i dont blame you...i dont even get what i just wrote...this forum business is harder than i thought!
Umm, what's the point of this topic? This isn't a journal.
& Is this girl your very first girlfriend, 'cause you seem too joyful.
& Is this girl your very first girlfriend, 'cause you seem too joyful.
sorryy....i just wanted to see if i could relate to anyone. guess not tho -_-...and yes it is my first gf, i guess im still too young to understand relationships fully....ahh..sorry for wasting your time
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know how that feels, man. But i think this should be in relationships.
The flirting is great. Hehe. But after that's all done, you can have these really great, deep conversations. It's quite awesome.
know how that feels, man. But i think this should be in relationships.
The flirting is great. Hehe. But after that's all done, you can have these really great, deep conversations. It's quite awesome.
I feel yah. Sometimes the chase is what makes the whole thing worthwhile. Whether u get the girl or not, if the chase was fun, I guess it isnt all that bad. And sometimes the chase is better than what u actually are chasing.
Those days when u poke the girl, and she chases u, and u hide behind a pillar, lol. Oops, im reminicing. But yeah, I understand.
Those days when u poke the girl, and she chases u, and u hide behind a pillar, lol. Oops, im reminicing. But yeah, I understand.
hmm nope wouldnt know what it would feel like one girl for 2 years now and we're just friends
Aww crap...There is so much I WANT to say, but I don't want to ruin your happiness.
I have personally not chased anyone, someone has chased me. Well, I don't think I've chased someone. ANyways, I'm happy for you (in a sense) but, the chase isn't as fun for us guys who care about the little things and have spent 2 years blah blah blah.
Yea, I just save you 15minutes of your time, you owe me your life.
I have personally not chased anyone, someone has chased me. Well, I don't think I've chased someone. ANyways, I'm happy for you (in a sense) but, the chase isn't as fun for us guys who care about the little things and have spent 2 years blah blah blah.
Yea, I just save you 15minutes of your time, you owe me your life.
yeah it is fun to flirt and then they flirt back but then it gets weird.
sounds cool
QUOTE(aanttd @ Jul 2 2005, 6:16 PM)
sounds cool
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when I was younger it was fun but now I just skip that and go straight to the relationship
The chase CAN be fun.. But I like relationships better because then you can do more than just flirt and hug... Like hold hands, get/give kisses on the cheek, kiss, be held ect ect. Sometimes the relationship can be a drag though.
QUOTE(some-one- @ Jun 26 2005, 8:04 AM)
i dont know what it is...but i find this part of a relationship really fun if ur successful, its just like flirting back and forth and gradually getting more and more close, and then each time i move up a step with a girl it feels awesome! maybe its just a highschool thing....i mean the time i first held my gf's hand after like 4 months of talking and flirting...it felt great...like ive earned it or somehting..lol..i doubt older people get a chance to gradually flirt into a relationship...but yeah...anyone get what im saying?? ...but then after you start going out it seems less fun cuz the mystery of whether they like you back is gone....meh...if you dont get what im saying i dont blame you...i dont even get what i just wrote...this forum business is harder than i thought!
...but then after you start going out it seems less fun cuz the mystery of whether they like you back is gone....meh...if you dont get what im saying i dont blame you...i dont even get what i just wrote...this forum business is harder than i thought!hehe..thats how i feel, exactly..
when you start going out, the suspense and fun of it all disappears
thats probably why i haven't had a serious bf yet... 
heh..oh well..i'll settle for flirting..for now xD
lol..i kinda felt da same way as yoo feel... ^^
well idk... i just be myself and all of a sudden boys like me [not to sound concedid]... all you have to do is be yourself...
but sometimes doing that can get myself carried away by doing MORE than being myself, like changing the way i act towards the boy[s] that like me [thats if i like him back]
but sometimes doing that can get myself carried away by doing MORE than being myself, like changing the way i act towards the boy[s] that like me [thats if i like him back]
Omg i totally, completely, honestly know exactly what you mean. I mean, really. Thank god someone started this topic.
The chase was without a doubt the best part. After that the passion started fading away...
The chase was without a doubt the best part. After that the passion started fading away...
i love "the case" or whatever you call it. because basically thats the most exiciting and frusting part for me. but its fcked up when you take "signs" the wrong way during "the chase" because most of the time it will hurt you.
i get wat you mean
but im not really agreeing with you
when you say it's not fun anymore
that it get boring
cuz iono i think that if you're really
in love with a guy/girl
then every day shouldn't be boring
but im not really agreeing with you
when you say it's not fun anymore
that it get boring
cuz iono i think that if you're really
in love with a guy/girl
then every day shouldn't be boring
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