endura88
Jun 13 2005, 06:14 AM
my boyfriend so much i cant even imagine living without him but sometimes i feel bored with him i mean like there's nothing to do....i mean im shy so dont talk much....my question is how do i show him i love him and that i need him?all i wanna do when i see him is hug him he's my first love and we've been together for 1 month a 1 week i wanna get to know him better and for him to know me better but how ?

i need everybody's opinion and advice thankx!
_sarcastic_
Jun 13 2005, 07:05 AM
you can spend time with him, make the first move of hugging him i'm sure he'll like that. talk to him to get to know him more
topsyturvy
Jun 13 2005, 07:20 AM
Agree with ^.
Don't worry, that was me a couple months ago. Next time after hanging out, just lean in and give him a hug.. and don't pull away for a while. Then, after you do let go, look deep into his eyes and smile.
That worked for me.
Chii
Jun 13 2005, 07:40 PM
umm...you and your "love" of a month and a week (who you like totally cannot live without
) don't know each other??? how can you claim that you love someone you barely know? being with someone for a little more than a month doesn't mean you know them!!
why don't you try starting over with hi...and talk about interests, family, life, and take it from there...
some love you have...
aera
Jun 13 2005, 08:30 PM
you dont know him... yet you cant live without him? thats a little odd ><
in order to get to know someone... all you do is talk to them about stuff.
dahding
Jun 13 2005, 08:32 PM
if u need help to express how much u love someone, that u'll resort to asking people on an online forum how to...
is that really love? get creative..talk more. get to know him better. go out on more dates. it's not all hugs and kisses u know..that's why i broke up with my ex.
tooeffingcrazy
Jun 13 2005, 11:45 PM
I don't know how you can call this love. It's not even a real relationhip! This is just a teenage crush thing that only happens like a month or two. No wonder you're bored. Try to acually TALK to him. Interract with him. Are you guys scared to see each other? Scared to hold hands or hug? If so, you guys should really pick up the pace.
mzkandi
Jun 14 2005, 12:46 AM
I think you need to get know him better before say you are inlove with him. Communication is key in any relationship.
technicolour
Jun 14 2005, 01:08 AM
QUOTE
mzkandi Posted Jun 14 2005, 12:46 AM
I think you need to get know him better before say you are inlove with him. Communication is key in any relationship.
If you get bored with him..i don't quite get how you could be in love with him.
ps, i agree w/ you mxkandi.
iNyCxShoRT
Jun 14 2005, 03:31 PM
Never say I love you that's all I know not to do with a 1 month relationship. You can tell him that you're glad you met him, or that you're glad you two are together. Smile at him for no reason.
XaZnX07
Jun 15 2005, 09:22 AM
welll you can fall in love anytime doesnt matter if its a day or a year all you know is how you feel so dont let any body ask you "are you in love?" if you feel that way then you feeel that way but anyways i guesss you have to open up alot more and be very comfortbale around him ya know? i have been with my girlfriend for a month and something weeks and i love her, and i know how you feel cause i am dying with out her right now she went on vaca, just tell hiim a little every day dont over do it or it would be like your obsesss wtih him, but yeah just be as open as possible like dont htink to much when you talk to him just speak what ever your heart and your mind wants to well wish the best of luck for yuou!
.:Tony:.
mouse_3k
Jun 15 2005, 04:28 PM
if ur shy with him, u aint in love.
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