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LittleLulu
walking up to a girl randomly and start talking.

totaly worked on me.

i didn't even realize it until like 2 months later --_--"
ComradeRed
Get them extremely drunk, pay a hobo off the street to beat them up and try to rape them, and then come in at the last minute and chase off the hobo, thus saving the girl and earning you her eternal gratitude.
sillakilla220
if u really like her take her out and throw some roofies in her drink. if not just get to know them real well and tell them u love them. telling a bitch u love her will get her wet everytime... just use it wisely ermm.gif
misoshiru
^uh no. who the hell would get turned on by an "i love you" rolleyes.gif
sillakilla220
well if u whisper it in their ear w/ your fingers up they P**sy it makes things a lil different. girls just wanna be loved.
ranniel
try to be all cool and get their attention
Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg
Firstly, I hate when guys refer to it as "getting girls". We aren't toys or things you can possess, we are HUMAN BEINGS.

The worst thing you can do is ask a girl out through her friend. That shows that you're unconfident and, quite frankly, too immature to even have a girlfriend. Don't try and be friends with her, because she'll think that's all you want to be and then you have no chance. Going from friend to boyfriend is not easy, nor is getting out of a relationship and still staying friends. The best thing you can do is show her that you're interested. Ask her questions, want to know more about her.
Respudious
QUOTE(sillakilla220 @ Mar 23 2006, 4:16 PM) *
well if u whisper it in their ear w/ your fingers up they P**sy it makes things a lil different. girls just wanna be loved.




Um, there is a thing such as tact?? which you obviously lack.


If any guy thinks this is the way to get a girl you are either messing with a gutter slut or do not have any respect for girls. My way to get them was always to just be myself, try to be as honest as possible, and never overpursue or seem too desperate.
Programmer
keep it real...let her know that your not a baller your not tryna be a poser and you like her....get's em everytime....
myPESTICIDE
my God!! girls are not trophies.
gamer987
1. I would date em
2. Talk intamitly
2. Bang them effin hard
Sparkle09
I'm a girl, but I like when guys go right in for it and start talking to me.
It makes me feel special, like out of everyone they want to talk to me.
adurf
QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ Jun 13 2005, 10:07 PM) *
Oh man, I hate it when people out of nowhere go like. "Hey, my friend thinks you're cute." *thumbs up* heh heh =\
i hate when that happens.. im like.. 'thats interesting.' hahas. [x

anyhoo, just talk to them and become friends first. (= then do your thang. [;
proudpk
Something that's worked for me in the past is, after you've got to know her a bit and she considers you as a friend, just drive to her place *WITHOUT CALLING* and ask her out. I'm pretty sure most girls like being surprised like this as long as you do it right and do it at time you are perfectly certain that they have nothing to do. It doesn't need to be something huge... What I liked to do was during the summer I would offer her to go take a walk on the beach before joining up with our other friends for the evenning. Insisting too much about being alone with her all the time is generally not a good idea. Go with the flow and one day it will feel perfectly natural to bring her back at your place after a night out in the bars or a party.

peace.
PrideOfAzia
too shy to do chit. whistling.gif
Uronacid
most girls are pretty much whores... i mean like, i go to school and practically all of them are slutting around... i guess if i wanted to pick one up:

i would say, "hey bitch, how about me and you go somewhere behind the school... and well know, go have seee....igarettes"

you gotta keep it a secret becuase if you dont the say say, "do you think im some kind of slut!"... in reality you do think that they are a slut, but you don't accually say that... you just think it.

if they start acting up just so, "no i don't think you're a slut... i just think you're beautiful"

if they act up even more say, "god, do don't want to f**k you any more becuase you act like such a bitch"

if they act up even more say, "listen you know what, i'm done with this... you owe me an apology!"

they will start to get a little bit said, and then they will be sure to sleep with you becuase they fele like they owe you something and they are sluts....

my mom told me that shifty.gif
lumpy
QUOTE(PrideOfAzia @ May 22 2006, 2:27 PM) *
too shy to do chit. whistling.gif




i know exactly what this is like.. mellow.gif
Comik-knerd
Go right in and talk to her....eather that or just act cool to get her attaintion...most likly the first though...
SyKoKiNeSiS
Oh and another way to get a girl is simple.. act like you don't want it.
Smoogrish
QUOTE(Uronacid @ May 24 2006, 3:39 PM) *
most girls are pretty much whores... i mean like, i go to school and practically all of them are slutting around... i guess if i wanted to pick one up:

i would say, "hey bitch, how about me and you go somewhere behind the school... and well know, go have seee....igarettes"

you gotta keep it a secret becuase if you dont the say say, "do you think im some kind of slut!"... in reality you do think that they are a slut, but you don't accually say that... you just think it.

if they start acting up just so, "no i don't think you're a slut... i just think you're beautiful"

if they act up even more say, "god, do don't want to f**k you any more becuase you act like such a bitch"

if they act up even more say, "listen you know what, i'm done with this... you owe me an apology!"

they will start to get a little bit said, and then they will be sure to sleep with you becuase they fele like they owe you something and they are sluts....

my mom told me that shifty.gif


Actually, not all girls are sluts. They really are not. And "getting girls" is not all "Ooooh, I wanna sleep in bed with her!" or something like that. That's just sex. Not trying to get into a relationship with someone you truly adore.
much2muse
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Oh man, I hate it when people out of nowhere go like. "Hey, my friend thinks you're cute." *thumbs up* heh heh =\


i hate that too. stubborn.gif and you can never quite know if the friend is joking or not. I consider the friend move sort of elementary-school.

Just going up to a girl and talking to her is best.

I think all girls like that. I know i do anyway.

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It makes me feel special, like out of everyone they want to talk to me.


i agree. _smile.gif
Hiphop d[-_-]b
Come right up and start talking.
iminlovewithTomDelonge
QUOTE(Respudious @ Apr 10 2006, 2:36 PM) *
Um, there is a thing such as tact?? which you obviously lack.
If any guy thinks this is the way to get a girl you are either messing with a gutter slut or do not have any respect for girls. My way to get them was always to just be myself, try to be as honest as possible, and never overpursue or seem too desperate.



*claps really hard* thank you, sir.

i'm sick of people who think that the way to a girl's heart is up through her P**sy...

ugh, it's sooo dumb and annoying.
guen
QUOTE(Szeh @ Jun 11 2005, 1:34 PM) *
Go straight forward and ask for their number. cool.gif



no. im sure you would more than likely scare her. i know i dont want a guy i dont know asking for my number.

QUOTE(sillakilla220 @ Mar 23 2006, 12:47 AM) *
if u really like her take her out and throw some roofies in her drink. if not just get to know them real well and tell them u love them. telling a bitch u love her will get her wet everytime... just use it wisely ermm.gif



no. dont tell her you love her unless you really do.

QUOTE(Respudious @ Apr 10 2006, 2:36 PM) *
Um, there is a thing such as tact?? which you obviously lack.
If any guy thinks this is the way to get a girl you are either messing with a gutter slut or do not have any respect for girls. My way to get them was always to just be myself, try to be as honest as possible, and never overpursue or seem too desperate.



i totally agre!!
vn_cuti3
QUOTE(ichigofan @ Jun 11 2005, 9:59 PM) *
you shouldnt always be friends with them cuz then theyll think of you as a cuddly teddy bear and not a "hot" guy you would go out with, just try to talk to them, for ex if you have a class with her or something in common just bring it up and start from there dont just come out of nowhere cuz thats scary =P




couldn't say it better thumbsup.gif
Just2Fresh
When you friends with a girl first thats the HARDEST obstical to over come when you want to get with them. No matter what you do or say they only see you as a friend becasue they are comfortable with that. It sucks but its how things work.
Aerjae
Just be nice and cool around her... but not too much to be her 'Best Friend Forever.' That's probably the worst thing you could do if you like the girl. Always be yourself and never lie. Eventually they'll figure it out and get mad.
Just2Fresh
But when you girls figure out or get mad about it, its usually too late when we've already moved on to someone who notices us. Whats up with that?
CrazyJellyBean
I'm way to shy.. I've always wanted to go ask it's just weird.. Hmmm I never understood why Sure I can kinda talk to a girl But when it comes to the point of asking them out.. Or being asked out Its just....>.<
illriginal
Go for it... don't be scared. What do you have to lose? Women dislike men that don't have confidence. Learn to build a bit of a cocky personality but also add humor. Don't make yourself seem like you're the shit and better than everyone.

So become a bit cocky and funny and that's part of the formula that will get you into the dating scene without problems... but do not lose confidence... EVER!! If you have no confidence, women will see you as a weakling...

Plus what's the worst that can happen if she turns you down? NOTHIN! You move on.. and look for more fish in the sea, start with girls in the rating of your liking 1-5. Don't get into a relationship with them, but become their friends. Get to know how women think and what things women "generally" like and dislike and work your way up the rankings 6-10 until you find that really hot ass girl of your dreams.
scottypottyboi
QUOTE(Szeh @ Jun 11 2005, 1:34 PM) *
Go straight forward and ask for their number. cool.gif


woah thats brave of u
a painefull euphoria
QUOTE(mipadi @ Jun 11 2005, 10:23 PM) *
Give them shots isn't an option?



^^haha i wish it was easy like that.


no but for me i always become friends first thing.
but sometimes that not always works out for the best.
or sometimes ill jsut straight out and give her my number.

when it comes to guys.
i like to try to get to know a guy first very well before i accept his offer for me to go ouy with him.
MrStrife
gotta just go for it!!!! never know until you try but definitely dont be too strong. 1 mean if nothing you will at least have another friend.
show_me
QUOTE(XaZnX07 @ Jun 13 2005, 7:07 AM) *
first just start looking at them and if they see you looking and look back at you smile or something, then as time passes alittle go up to them and talk to them lol i did that once in my life lol

.:tony:.

I do that all the time in my life! You gotta hit your game quick if you're going to just say wussup to a girl at the gym or starbucks, because its a one shot deal. Yup yup, SPIT YOUR GAME ON THE TREADMILL.
laurie_
i love meeting random strangers on the street=)
it's not creepy in the slightest way... i mean, how else can you meet other real-life people asides from being introduced by your friends if they weren't complete and total strangers in the first place?
the beauty of childhood is being innocent enough to go up and play with a stranger without fear=)
datass
...or you can try and just hit on her...
Joss-eh-lime
QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Jun 13 2005, 5:11 PM) *
i hate it when strangers just walks up to you and start flirting...i dunno it seems perverted for some reason

yeah, but sometimes the stranger is hot...
& you want to talk to them.
but there's nothing to say since you don't know each other.

[/my current dilemma]
multifaceted
Straight up talking. Not like the ask your friend to ask their friend to ask some cousin's friend to ask a girl out. You know the whole roundabout way. Not going to be successful in asking her out that way.

I don't know why guys always shy about talking to girls they like. What's wrong? We don't bite. And even when we are PMSing, our bark is worse than our bite.
Joss-eh-lime
^seriously i wish guys would come straight out and talk to a girl they like.
that'd make it easier for me. :]
ixamxyou
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