Last night I threw a nice little bash of about 15 people at my house. I invited my girl there as well. Now she's the good little catholic girl...And I'm kind of the badboy rebel who does everything wrong. I am like a social butterfly at parties, moving from group to group keeping everyone smiling....But I think I was lacking attention to my girl.. Which normally isn't like me...But I had 14 other people I had to keep smiling too. My girl is very anti-social, and wasn't having a good time. We eventually broke out the pot, and we were drinking and smoking till highness in the backyard. At this point I was like a little schoolgirl prancing and making everyone laugh..Everyone except my girlfriend... Who seemed to be getting more and more upset. She left the party at like 10, and it kept going till about 1ish. I called her after everyone left and she didn't pick up the phone. I read on her xanga "yeah ty was just wrapped up in doing other stuff... with other people..." So I think shes mad at me...Like really mad. I told her she wasn't going to know anyone at the party and she should have brought her friend, but shedidn't and ended up being bored... So...Am I at fault? Should she be mad? Don't I throw pimpin good tuesday get-togethers? If you were my girl, would you be mad? Comments plz~

If i was your girlfriend i would be mad cuz ill be left out if knowone knew me.She should of ask some of her friends to come over and enjoy the party.So i guess its not really your fault but i guess just to settle things i would say im sorry to my girlfriend.

hahaha anywho,
i would sorta be mad that i didn't have a good time and that i had no one to talk to. maybe her friends were somewhere else but maybe u should have introduce the 14 other people to her so she won't be so lonely. you should say im sorry and do something for her to cheer her up.

no i wouldnt b mad!

i dont know, i understand how she would be mad, but she can't except you to ignore all of your other guests, you know? i mean, what's the point of throwing a party if you are going to spend the entire night with her? maybe talk to her about it, take her out or something....

i agree i can see her being a little bit upset but not alot..

yes i agree with cassie and starling. because ur friends wouldve been mad at u if u only paid attention to her and not them. when u have a party is means 'social time'. so yea its normal for her to be mad, but at the same time she needs to understand that u just cant ignore everyone else for her.

jackie

if I were ur girl, id be a social ladybug! but seriously though, both of u couldve done a little better...like she couldve been more into ppl and stuff and/or u couldve introduced her to everybody and tagged her along the whole night...somthin like that

i would be very upset. more like... very jealous as well... i mean, you said she was a catholic shool gurlish type, right? then it was kinda your fault inviting her in the first place because you were going to drink and stuff... and obviously she wouldnt enjoy her time if you werent going to talk to her and make her feel comfortable. i mean, yes you might not understand why, but she could feel very lonely and upset because it seemed like you didnt care.

You should have made her feel more comfortable. and looked over ALOT to see how she was handling things, and did u say bye when she left? if you didnt SHES PISSED! but i understand your side to the story

I would so totally get pissed off. Next time you get high, invite her.
But you know you have to pay more attention to her at parties. Introduce her to the others, go along kinda with what she wants, and she wont be as mad. Also, if she's bored at a party, entertain people and talk to her at the same time. Or have a big powwow instead of a high party.

i think thats a pretty reasonable thing u cudv dun

Hmm, that's a good idea.

This reminds me of Real World..

I did say goodbye to her and hugged and kissed her at the end of the night.. and I could tell then that she was upset with me. It wasn't like the normal goodbyes. And she wouldn't ever get high, its not her thing.. As far as dragging her around, I shouldn't have to drag her everywhere.. I introduced her to everyone that was there.. she was the one who didn't initiate conversation with the peoplez.

I think that that was why she was mad, that you didn't want her around. She is your girlfriend, no? You keep company with her. Why did you ask her anyway? Also, yes, you SHOULD have to drag her around because she was asked to come here. You were able to drag everyone else that you asked around, didn't you? She saw you as thinking of pot and stuff before her, and that hurt her.

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I agree with what Juliar said. I think at first she was upset that you didn't pay as much attention to her, although you were the host of the party. I'm thinking she might be upset about the pot...ugh...I guess if you like that...but I hate it when my guy friends smoke...I just leave when they start...it irritates me.

Hmm...If I were your girl, definatly.

Us females are very jealous and sensitive. By just talking to other females, we take it as flirting.

at least I do.

If I was her, I would. Is it really your job to keep going around and make sure everyone's smiling? No; they can still have a good time and laugh and all. She would eventually get over it. I don't know.. I just feel that you should have gave your girlfriend a little more attention; that's what girls like, when guys make them feel special.

Edit; Now, I think about it; I guess both of you have your faults, hehe. It was your party so it was your duty to make sure everyone is having a good time, but you still should have paid a little more attention to your girlfriend. But on the other hand, she could have brought a friend along so I guess it's kind of her fault, too.

if i were her, i'd b kinda upset, but like that's the problem when ur goin out wit sumone who's like the 'opposite' personality to you. u wern't wrong to go around and try and keep everywun happy, especially since it wuz ur party, but next time jus try and give ur gurl a bit more attention, or maybe if she wouldn't mind, she might rather stay home, or go to a movie wit friends??

partially, i think you're right. you said you asked her to bring a friend or something, right? anyway, you also had to keep everyone @ the party happy too. i can also understand (by the way you tell the story) why she would feel a little neglected. big party, your moving about everywhere, not really stayin in one place. so really, i guess it could go either way

hmm i can understand y she ish mad n stuff but u r kinda rite how she should of brought a fren so she wouldnt of been so bored but u should of also tawked to her more n stuff.

lols lols if seonho was ur gf...HAHAHAHA lols jp hehe but if i was ur girl... i wuld be mad too... cus ur not spending more wit ur girl...... and spendin time with friends more.... hey u didnt forget u hab a girlfriend...did u? but u kno...she prolly jus tired... and well.... yeah of course... but... u kno... she prolly wanted to spend more time wit u... and not the ppls that she doesnt kno or knows~ so yeah... u needed to comfort her more... than ur friends....... heh yeah nd' GOSH U DIDNT RECOGNIZE ME IN CREATEBLOG CHAT! lols oh wells...it's cool haha

Yeah I'd be a little mad. She is, after all, your GF o you should have paid a little more attention to her. But no worries, just do one of those puppy dog's look and say you're sorry.

hehe wow

i ownnnn you ty

if im ur gf ill be mad cuz if ur the one who threw the party u shoulda planned on inviting ppl that she already knows so she doesnt have to ask her friend to go.. and u should have asked her whats wrong and introduce her to the rest of ur friends and get her to the hang of it, maybe she was just shy =)

First off...Inviting friends of hers would make the party very horrible...Cuz all but her best friend are stuck up snobs who just need a good deep dickin... Second...The matter is resolved...She's just upset that we did so much drugs... Thx for all yalls comments.

you should appologize if my girl did that to me I would think she was very whorey

*Points to post above her* That's not me.