hmm is it TRUE dat u stop growin when u loose ur virginity?? someone told me dat u stop gettin taller n etc...................

i don`t think that`s true. i`ve qrown but.. i heard that you`re hips qet bigger or somethinq like that.. it kinda did for me

LoLs~ u serious?! haha... umm....lols haha i dont think so~ lols.... haha if it's true..ermmm haha jk

haaaaa... i finally found out y people date... to hav SEX.. well we cant hav sex in our reglion until u r married.. so i am sticking to that.. anywaz how would u noe that, that person might had sex with a million people? hope i was a side kick..

nice!!!
way to go man


about the topic now....
15. isn't that too early or what?

theres not a certain age when you should lose your virginity..you should lose it to someone you realli truly care about..just make shure it is the rite person or else you will regret it for the rest of your life

uhhh....wen u feel ready?....

well if ever1 starts thinking like u then the 50% would be like 0%.. .well its better to hav it after marriage.. well by the way its ur life.. i just gave u an advise

yOo should be smacked krnxswat! haha j/m. but i say wait, to me you`re tOo young. my lit`l sis is about your age ... and i can`t imagine her being sexually active and in the risk of becoming pregnant. you may feel like your ready, but think about the consequences first .. are you REALLY ready? you`ve still got high schOol and college ahead of yOo .. everyone i know is already getting married and having sex. A few of them are struggling as it is .. do yOo wanna risk that?

you can't really tell if they're the "one". you're too young to know right now. when you're older, then of course you'll know you wanna spend the rest of your life with them. hey don't get me wrong. i'm 15 too. but that's just my opinion. at our age, we won't know what real real love is yet. you have many opportunities to meet other girls. but if you really think, you wanna have sex. talk it out with her.

also, if you've only been dating for like 2 months, & you think she's the "one". then just don't do it. it's stupid. just wait.

I think u should wait until marriage. If u do it now then u can risk alot.Lyk...HIV...AIDS...STDS...and all that other stuff that can end your life very quickly. If u lose your virginity, then you’re giving a part of yourself...to someone else...You can never get it back.Even if u sell your soul.. If u wait and do it on your wedding day. Everything would be perfect. If u wait THAT long. Then your partner would know how much u are loyal to her and be lyk...”I've been waiting this long just for u." It also shows that u would wait for anything just 4 that one person that u love so dearly...
Even if u think that "Oh yeah wutever life is short and shyt" then u are wrong! Life goes on and it will never end. Don’t be so impatient and go have sex with this gurl u lyk.No matter how long u have known her. Or how much ya'll have in common. Losing your virginity is a HUGE deal. So wut if sex is GREAT!! But shouldn't it be even better If u save it 4 that right person..? I mean...who knows...Later on in life...your taste in gurls will DEFINITELY CHANGE!!
If u go and have sex with that gurl right now...and u look back on that day later in life...u are gonna have so many regrets and so many mistakes that u've made. And it is too late...cuz u have already found that perfect soulmate...but u cant share that special moment when ya'll get tu learn together how sex is really like. Then it's not worth it to go and bang sum gurl and later in life feel lyk an idiot So stop rushing things through...Just take it slow...okay?

Oh yeah...just remember to live your life tu it's fullest...
Go and have sum fun!
And dont be so tied down to sum gurl u lyk.
I understand that she means alot tu u.
And that u have strong feelings 4 her
But it doesn't mean ya'll gotta go and have sex.

I completely agree with you hun

Lol how very silly of you Chinkieeyedpnoi

Well, I'm not a virgin, and I'm also not married, but I was reasonably young and i didn't end up hurt, I think you just know when it's ok, because you can both sense it, if you get me?

Man just ignore that, it probably doesnt make any sense LoL...sorry about that

14 isnt 2 young as long as u been wit da person 4 a while n rly luv em...lol
lol im almost 15 n I already started I regret it tho...I wish I wouldve waited longer

I agree with what roxanne said ...

make sure that person makes you feel comfortable. it's really hard to say when you know it's right. there is no right "time" for it. you just have to "feel" right at that moment when you're with that person. you'll be able to tell that it's perfect and it won't be something you'll regret. you honestly have to trust your instincts on this one.

everyone thinks they`re in love .. hey i admit it, sometimes i think i`m in love .. but no one really knows what love is. it could be mistaken as infatuation. and i know that age ain`t nothing but a number and all .. but when it concerns sex, 14 is tOo young for me. it doesn`t matter if you`ve been with the person for a long time till that age, think about it .. yOo get pregnant, what are yOo gunna do? can yOo handle it? will this "love" between yOo withstand that .. even after the test of time? becoming pregnant at a young age like that, CAN ruin any relationship .. whether or not you`ve been with someone for a month or even years. if yOo wanna have sex, then okay .. its up to yOo, but i suggest yOo tOo talk about the risks first. sorry, i sound like a mother huh? but psshhh, like my mom ever talked to me about this stuff. i learn from everyone else`s "mistakes" .. and i`m SOO happy it hasn`t happened to me. but its ultimately up to yOo, if yOo believe yOo love that person .. go for it. follow your instincts.

Dude, I lost my virginity when I was Eleven. That is sick isnt it? it is. I lost it on the side walk of an abandoned school playing truth or dare with my neighbor hood friends. It's that STUPid? I dont think you should start having sex before your 13, ABSOLUTE minimum age. For the longest time I felt guilty. But it doesnt matter. Now I know that a sexual appitite is normal.. But I'm not going to go screw the first guy that tells me he loves me. I'm going to screw the 3rd NO! Just kidding. No, they wouldn't even have to tell me they loved me, It'd be something I wanted. You need to set yourself moral boundaries and shit. Find out what your comforatabele doing. It's not up to a census to decide. Statistics SUCK. I hate them. Particularly, because I am one of many different kinds of statistics... a few of which are not cool. At all.
Just do what you want, But Be SAFE.

My personal opinion is that you should wait until you are old enough to handle the resposibilities that sex entails. I don't think that you should have to wait as long as marrige, just long enought to know that you have a commitment and that you really love her and that she is the one. Not really the ONE, one but the one that you feel is the one at the time. Did anyone get what i meant by that?

welll said... thats the truth too... but i would have to say wait untill your married

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i think you hsould just wait until u get older... ur still young...

yea 15 thats to young

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i thought sex was better after you are married

try to be a virgin till ur 21 lol
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if you wont regret it and you love her enough, then yeah, go for it. be safe and make sure shes comfortable with it, and if youre ready then..well, your call.

i was talking to my friend today, and i already knew that her mom was only sixteen when she gave birth to sabrina, my friend. but today i found out that her dad was only fourteen. as in like... nineth grade fourteen. he was young as f*ucking hell!!! i do think it's okay for a fifteen year old to have sex, but it just proves how careful you have to be. take me for instance. i only buy extra streghth condoms. lol.

Abstinence!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

iono...but don't do it in the girls bathroom like the ppl in my friends school. lol

It should be like with the Legendary Amazon Tribes: You should have to kill someone before you have sex.

I don't know, I don't want to lose my virginity with just any guy. I value it and I'm not going to put it to waste. If I lose it in high school, you get a reputition of being easy and when you date a guy, you won't have that same respect that you would had before. You are expected to have sex with them and that's what they expect from you. That's probably the primary reason they date you. I've seen it happen, just don't want it to happen to me.

I'm staying a virgin until marriage. To me it is something you should not only experience with someone you love but someone you will be with for the rest of your life. Alot of poeple say they love you and want to be with you for the rest of their life, and then end up throwing you away like garbage. I don't want that. I also don't want a child right now, and STD, or emotional baggage. Plus you don't know who they have slept with or what type of person they really are sometimes. This next statement might come from watching Maury too much they could be taping you and how would you like if your face was all of the market, all over the internet, sleeping with some guy. It might be a slim chane but i don't want any chances with that.

HA_HA lol

nah just wait til you know its time.

i lost mine when i was fifteen. i don't think you should wait until you're married but i do agree that your girl may regret it one day. don't be pressured to do anything. do it for the right reasons if you truly think you're ready and she's ready.

I don't think you should have sex. It probably is the hormones talking. 15 is a little young. I mean, I'm 16, one year, yeah and I'm talking =X. But yeah, my point is it's too soon. Maybe you should wait a couple of years. Make sure, when you do have intercourse with someone, to be tested for STDs, use protection, and that you've got a connection with them.

On the other hand, I read a similar topic somewhere about a girl who had sex when she was 13, and she said she was glad she did it with that guy. She was glad that she did it at a young age with the right guy instead of 18 with a jerk.

But I think I'm going to stress the "Don't do it" point more. ^^;;

same thing happen at my skool..

Psssh, i don't even have to try, i just am.

That's how elite i be.

Just do what feels right. But, if you want to do it with someone you'll be with for a long time, I doubt you and her will be together that long.

hoomie lost hurr virginity at age uhh lyke durr 12 weird!!!! [IMG]

um, i think 16 is the legal age for that.. i dunno... but ppl do it ne ways if u jus want pleasure, eh whatever, get it over with nd end up a father, but if u really love her, wait a while, maybe she is the one who isn't ready.

i'd b honest 2 u. this ain't the right time for sex. ur 15, right? Yu should wait till after ur married. Yah, i kno 50% of marriges in the U.S. end up in divorce, but this ain't the right time for sex. she might get pregnant from it. it's for ur own safety. srry, but this is the truth. im not bein mean or n-e thing

you should wait till after your teen years, physically you are ready, but mentally youre not!

I think it's better to have sex when you're married. When you have sex at this age you put yourself in the risk of getting stds and getting the girl pregnant. All that drama leads to a horrid future b/c it brings STRESS. And how do you know that you really love her? Remember, Condoms aren't always effective, and don't rely on birth control pills/patches either.
> Don't think about sex now, you got a future ahead of you and you need to worry about SCHOOL now.

it all comes down to the relationship level...me and my bf waited a year to do it and we are glad we waited...but i was 14 at the time! but i knew that my bf was the one because we could stay together for that long...i would wait a little while to see if this girl is the right one

the only people that can really decide on that subject are you and your girl. =D If it's something that you feel uncomfortable talking about with her, then it's probably not the right time.