Hi there,

I was getting changed for PE earlier today and noticed that my friend had big red marks on her butt (she was wearing a thong). At first I just ignored it and told myself it was wrong to look in the first place, but then I thought "What? Isn't that abuse?"

I eventually summoned up the courage to ask her and she told me she had been swearing at her mum earlier in the day and as punishment she had her bum smacked on the bare...

I am 13 and haven't been smacked bare bottom since I was about 11. A few of the other girls in the changing rooms were really open about it and said they got smacked all the time. At our school we get punishment letters sent home with different sections like "chewing gum" and "swearing". Normally, I just get grounded for that kind of thing, or at the worst my mum or dad gives me a couple of spanks, but I haven't had a full pants-down spanking since primary school! - I was wondering if this is normal, or isolated to our school.

Have any of you had experiences of this kind of thing at that age?

Hmmm. How old is your friend? 13? Well, I don't get spankings anymore. I am too old for those, lol.

yeah she just turned 13

Hmm. She shouldn't really be wearing a thong. But anyways. It could be abuse if her mother/dad/whatever is doing it too much for no good reason. Or, it's probably just punishment.

^ Agreed. A thong at 13?? If those were really abuse marks, she would try her best to hide it instead of show it through wearing a thong.. -______-;

i agree=.=|||
may be she was trying 2 get attention

Well I think there was a pretty good reason... she HAD been swearing a lot at her mum... Actually loads of us wear thongs.

My god you shouldn't be wearing a thong though. It's not normal for that age. I AM THAT AGE!

I used to babysit a girl who was 9 and she wore thongs. YEAH. I know.

I don't think she was spanked, the story just doesn't make much sense to me. I bet they were just pocket marks from sitting down or maybe her ass is just like that and she was to embarrassed to say.. haha

9 sheesh that is young!

I only wear one occassionally, and I'm 13. I'm pretty sure she was spanked though. I mean, why would she want to lie about that? Also the marks looked pretty convincing...

I was just a little surprised at how many girls my age ARE spanked.

9?? *faints* Well actually, I am 13 so yeah. Hehehe, I lied. But 9 *bleep* years old? I think I am going to pass out. *faints* *gets up* *faints* gets up*

ALRIGHT!

Um, lol. But anyways, still. Even if she was spanked or not, it's wrong.

umm getting a spankin isnt abuse..... and a lil young for a thong.... and if she wouldnt have cussed then she wouldnt have gotten a spankin, now would she?

Too young to cuss neither. Your right! But, when I actually have to, I cover it up. Like this: *bleep*

well first of all i would never cuss or swear at my mom or dad cause i know for sure that i would get in BIG trouble. but believe it or not my parents never spanked me or punished me. but if she has marks on her butt then why is she wearing a thong so she can show the whole world? btw i'm 13 too so yea...

Wow , Ive never gotten spanked . ever.

Thats kinda weird to be doing to a 13 year old.

wow.. o_O i have NEVER gotten "spanked" ..and i ALWAYS thought that was weird... always

Lots of parents give their kids "spankings". But you told us that she was swearing at her mom and she's 13. If you want to swear at 13 you do it with your friends, not at your mom. So her mom didn't spank her for the hell of it, she used it as a form of punishment. I've been spanked many times, and belivie me a smack on the bottom is nothing compared to child abuse. So I'm pretty sure your friend is safe.

Oh, and I'm 13 too.

I don't think it WAS abusive... I just had to check with her tho.

Well, cussing out at your mom a lot really isn't acceptable is it?
And really-thongs???? What's the big deal. Underear is underwear. Why does everyone want thongs????????
0.o

is she hot??? i rarely see 13 year old girls wearing thongs....

Because they're sexy


I think its pretty normal. I got ass whoopings all the time up til 11 or maybe at the lastest 12. I know somebody whos last spanking was at 16, she might have been playing around though o_0

I've never been spanked before, even as a child.
Although I have had a clothes hanger thrown at me.
Perhaps she has strict parents?
Its not really abuse if she did something wrong.

i havent got my ass whooped since like 5th grade....but, in the black community its not uncommon

my mom still tried to do it to me and im 17. but then again she's the old fashioned korean mother.

Wow. 13 year old and wearing a thong ?!?! amazing ! ^.- but actually, if someone is getting abused, you should tell a parent or someone that is older than 18. Someone like a doctor , your parent, or even your teacher. Tell them that your friend is getting smacked at their butt and getting bruises that can harm them. Do something that can help your friend. But i don't think its necessary for parents to smack them. Just ground them for a short period of time and that wil do it. I don't get smacked .. im too good for that.

please go away.

no, i haven't been spanked since about 11. she shouldn't have cursed at her mom anyway.

Ay it dont matter how old you are, u get smacked, u get smacked. She deserved it honestly



same same. 13 year old wearing thongs?? kids these days...

i never got my ass whupped. only my legs.. and they hit me on the head.. i find getting hit on the head so damn annoying!!

Ah.. How.. oxymoronic-ish. She's 13. She's wearing a thong. And she still gets spanked on the butt. K.

My parents stopped the physical punishment when I.. was 9 or 10? I don't know, it was around 4th or 5th grade. And my mom says that it's wrong to hit teenagers because they can run away.

any time i do something i shouldnt be doin. they threatend to cut my dsl off. then i become a good little boy

my dad used to beat to the point of where i couldn't sit down for a week. but i haven't been "spanked" since 3rd grade and i'm techinally in 8th now. my mom punishes me by lecturing me and taking computer "priviledges"(yea right, it's mine) away from me.

i wore a thong at 13 (i'm 14) only because i hate underwear lines. but maybe she had jeans that showed them and she didn't want people to see it? well anyways.. to the point---> i've never been smacked. maybe you should have a talk with her parents or tell her to talk with them. try not to get too invovled in her family life because sometimes it can only make situations worse. maybe she did something wrong to deserve to get smacked on the butt.

i'm 13 and i've never been smacked. if i do something wrong, my parents won't even punish me or ground me. they just sit me down and lecture me for a really long time to annoy me.

Different parents have different ways to decipline their children, perhaps that's the way they learned when they were younger. I guess it's normal, I don't get spanked o_o they either just yell at me, or...yeah that's about it.

Hmm I haven't been spanked since I was like 5.. My parents just yell at me now, but i haven't done anything against their rules for a while so not much yelling lately.

i've never been spanked in my life bare bum or not. i mean, of course i wasn't always behaved as a kid, but i've never be spanked. not once. most people would look at my situation as my parents being to easey on me, or maybe even spoiled. but the truth is, i've never really done anything wrong enough for a spanking. (i know, sounds inpossible, but i'm my case it's true). just the thought of the spanking leaving marks kind of makes me...shudder.

but in anycase, i do think that she's too old to be getting spankings, but definetly too young to be displaying a thong.




same here.

my parents never smacked my bum. i wouldnt let them >_>

freedom of speech mister....

13 year old wearing a thong.....almost everyone does it


anyway i think she's a little old to get spanked....

i haven't got hitten since.....6

why is everyone trippin over a 13 year old wearing a thong?

Apparently, spanking is 'barbaric.' At least what I've heard.

Huh... I'm also 13 and I have never been spanked on the bare bottom before. O.o I find it kind of odd, but whatever... A punishment is a punishment.

As for the thong issue- *shudder* Only about 1/10 of the girls in my grade level wear thongs. I find it strange, but whatever you feel comftorable in...

Ground?? ha... that doesnt work for me or alot of ppl i kno.... i got spanked when i was a kid, and im 16. the last time was a while back probably like 9 or 10, but i kno if i did something bad enough now my mom would woop my butt.... the belts kept me from doing stupid stuff cuz i kne i'd get in trouble.... and cuzz @ ur mom?? my goodness, where are you from.... down here (in tx, or just plain south i guess) u deserve a BIG "spankin". i guess its just territorial whether or not woopins are acceptable... but my butt would be spanked too if i was to cuzz @ my mom NOW......

never been spanked in my life by my parents

i just get spanked by friends and random strangers

haha my first high school experience

*waiting at lunch line by myself*
*someone smacks me hard in the butt*
i look at him and glare at him while all his friends stare back at me

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and now we're friends!

haha me and my gfs..thats how we greet each other


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wow your friends wear thongs? i dont wear thongs and im 16 and ppl in my school who wear thongs dont change just like that

lols...wow...i havent got a spanking in a long time....hahaha.....the last time i got hurt by one of my parents....they just....hit me dead in my face...or they threw something at my head....heck i deserved it...i would have threw something at me too...hahahah....puberty....*sigh*....haha =]

+__edit haha...there was alot of comments about thongs even though the topic has nothing to do with thongs...hahaha...i just thought that was funny...=] not that i mind people having their own comments and opinions and such...haha....i just dont see what the big deal is ...i mean i do if you wear it to show off for the guys...but i wear it because....no pantylines....

i spose it dosn't matter what underwear u wear unless of course your goin out with ya g banger string half way up ur back, then it matters... i meen underwear cmon u dont c it my parents will give me a whack on the arm if i don somethin rong n im 14, but i guess when u think of smacked bum u think little kid, plus it dosnt really hurt on ya bum. if she shows signs of real abuse like bruising or cuts or anything like that, then its time to get worried. keep a look out 4 her n all shud be fyn

OMG. You just go away. This isn't about you having a girlfriend. And it may be freedom of speech, but this isn't about YOU (sorry)

Uh. Was she wearing a thong just to show and bring attention to everyone that she has a big hand mark on her ass? Pssh.

What the heck. What school do you go to? Goodness.

i've never had a real spanking before...

when i get hit i get hit on my face and sometimes my butt