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k00alah
what if your true love that you've gone out with for sooo many years told you one day that he/she doesnt love you anymore?? how would you deal with it??
alinamalina14
i would probly react with a laugh and b like stop joking like that, n if it was tru, i wud run away and cry for days
krnxswat
Well, there's not much I can do, is there? I'll probably just be like whatever, and tell her that she'll always be in my heart and stuff like that... and go home and cry. wink.gif
bluecrystals
i would cry awhole lot. and within time, eventually move on.
Kathleen
QUOTE(k00alah @ Apr 13 2004, 8:35 PM)
what if your true love that you've gone out with for sooo many years told you one day that he/she doesnt love you anymore?? how would you deal with it??

If they didn't want to be with you anymore, would they not be your "true love" ? blink.gif Anyways, I'd probably do the same thing Seon Ho (krnxswat) said.
xjjajeengx
aww yea, i agree with Seon Ho.
if you want to save face, be like "Oh lols finally! thanks man!" and then the next day, put an effort to flirt with everyone laugh.gif that should get him hecka jealous... _smile.gif

but... theres plenty of people out there... you never know if that person wasnt ur true love or not. you have to "experiement" and go out and find more guys and stuff... wink.gif
AngelicEyz00
OMG... i remember when I told my bf I wasn't IN LOVE with him anymore, but i still loved him, he was so hurt =( but then I told him I was still in love with him when I was actually with him (long distance relationship)
pandatotherescue
i would cry like a little baby and tel her i love her and if this is wut she wants then i guess she's gonna miss out
rOckThISshYt
awww... i feel so bad!!! cry.gif dump their asses! and kill em! boxing.gif

but seriously, i would cry till i couldnt anymore and depending on how much i loved em, become antisocial for a while, then move on. whistling.gif
LuShuZxLaNa
i'll be too hurt to even think about crying. i would jsut be so depressed and sad. i'm not a person that normally cries.
k00alah
its weird having soo many negative situations a couple can go thru.. hope we dont all experience these things..
F0r3v3r
laugh.gif id kill myself!
hair products
what if i order a jr. bacon cheeseburger and they only give me jr. bacon cheese? oh wait.. that's already happened. I'LL GET YOU WENDY'S!
melface
I'd be all like:

Oh.... well... I'm sorry... [[tears--> turns around and walks away slowly]]...
and then that night i'd kill myself.
poisonedxivy
i'd probably be speechless and just walk away. and then later on i'd start bawling when it finally sinks in ... sad.gif cry.gif .. hhah~
malenky_koshka
wow. thats harsh. like everyone else way saying, the best thing to do is act like you don't care. like it's no big deal, then if you need to let something out, do it when your alone ::imagines a person suddenly bursting into tears randomly on the street:: huh.gif sad.gif
dani41790
man if dat happend to meeh, i would b all heart broken n stuff
Mireh
I would sigh and say it was never ment to be sad.gif
angel-roh
heh that happened to me....but my best friend, justin... made my day...he made me happy.... then he tells me that he loves me..... i was so shock... i mean hes such a nice person...and he was alwais there for me...and he told me he loved me when i was going out wit my ex.... i dont kno........ but.. i said yes... in the day of his birthday..of course he was happy abot that...haha... but my feelings...when the person i loved rejected me.... i didnt want to move on.. i wanted to keep on loving him...til the end...but i guess that didnt work out... cus it hurted me way too much....my pain was growing inside my heart.... i wanted to kill myself.... cus of that...but justin saved my life...he made me happy...reallie happy... i felt like i was i going out with the person i love...heh... he was alwais there for me when i was down and sad... he let me cry over his shoulder^___^;;

so jus to let u know........

if u loved someone for so long.... i kno it's hard to move on... u feel like u dun wana move on cus u wana love that person for a very long time... but u kno wat? sometimes... they can love u back... but sometimes they are not gona love u back... i kno if u have wait...he will come back to u...and sometimes if u wait... he wont come back to u...and ur heart will be broken...and be in pain... so wat im saying...... is... move on... it's reallie hard i knoe.... but if u wana wait... u neba kno...someone will come to ur life and save u from the pain u have.^^;;
conster
aww man.... that'l hurt so much.. i dont knoe wut ill do tho lol
COLDasICE
QUOTE(anqel_r0h @ Apr 14 2004, 8:49 PM)
heh that happened to me....but my best friend, justin... made my day...he made me happy.... then he tells me that he loves me..... i was so shock... i mean hes such a nice person...and he was alwais there for me...and he told me he loved me when i was going out wit my ex.... i dont kno........ but.. i said yes... in the day of his birthday..of course he was happy abot that...haha... but my feelings...when the person i loved rejected me.... i didnt want to move on.. i wanted to keep on loving him...til the end...but i guess that didnt work out... cus it hurted me way too much....my pain was growing inside my heart.... i wanted to kill myself.... cus of that...but justin saved my life...he made me happy...reallie happy... i felt like i was i going out with the person i love...heh... he was alwais there for me when i was down and sad... he let me cry over his shoulder^___^;;

so jus to let u know........

if u loved someone for so long.... i kno it's hard to move on... u feel like u dun wana move on cus u wana love that person for a very long time... but u kno wat? sometimes... they can love u back... but sometimes they are not gona love u back... i kno if u have wait...he will come back to u...and sometimes if u wait... he wont come back to u...and ur heart will be broken...and be in pain... so wat im saying...... is... move on... it's reallie hard i knoe.... but if u wana wait...  u neba kno...someone will come to ur life and save u from the pain u have.^^;;


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whomps
QUOTE(COLDasICE @ Apr 17 2004, 10:23 PM)
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I can read it.
angel-roh
QUOTE(COLDasICE @ Apr 17 2004, 10:23 PM)
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yeah u prolly have small eyes...if ya wana read it, why dont u copy and paste ..and paste it to ur word pad...and make it big to read it..and not complaining
Winter
I'd be speechless at first. Then I'd say 'Okay yeah whatever' or something lik that. Then go hme and cry for a few days. Then I'd go back to normal coz I know he'd want me to stay the same...
LQ_Darksoul
I would cry...Beg....Plead...Yell... Then I would cope by doing lots of drugs and sleeping with lots of random girls and dropping them like it was nothing. Oh wait...That isn't what if...That was what happened...
instantmusic
if i had a long time baby and one day she said she didnt love me... i would have those cinematic episodes where the main character goes into some deep depression, and then vow to fight crime.

i had a situation like that. cept i vowed to fight international crime. "USMC".
pyrochick19770
I`d be ballin` till i made a whole nother ocean. Seriously..I`d end my life...
conster
to think about it, i would probably stand up tall to him and make him feel that its his loss as much as i can lols and then cry later wink.gif
anna_banana08
i'd cry........ and then die. heh.
NvieDi3ai3yGrL
it's not easy .. but you can't really do anything about it .. you can't force love .. once it's not there anymore you learn to move on and be strong .. remember that at one point in time you were single and just fine on your own .. if you happen to get back together again one day then you know it was meant to be .. but don't try to hold on to something that isn't there anymore .. it'll only lead to further heart break .. be smart and give other people a chance .. hold on to all the wonderful memories you shared .. keep them alive in your heart and you never have to let that love go completely ..
waynezworld
start drinking.. get her drunk.. screw her for the last time.. and get her pregnant and tell her to fudge off..


JUSSSSSSST kidding..
i would try to stay good friends and then maybe one day get back together ??
ill cry like a baby cry.gif
sweetlyz
i would cry .. but i don`t think i could ever deal with it
LiNHy POO
i would be like *are you serious?* after sooo many years? then i think we start agruing.. and eventully ill start crying... ill try to get far away from him as i can... cry by myself and listen to music... then the next day ill talk to sum1 else about it..
hottie_101
QUOTE(k00alah @ Apr 13 2004, 8:35 PM)
what if your true love that you've gone out with for sooo many years told you one day that he/she doesnt love you anymore?? how would you deal with it??

To be honest, I think I would think they were just kidding, and if they weren't I would probably be depressed for a couple days. Then my parents would ask me what was wrong and give me a long @$$ lecture.
illushun_eyez
cry
InfamousOwen
I went and got blasted with Colt 45 everyday for like 2 months, spent the 2 months house hoping, lost all interest in EVERYTHING that was important to me and have yet to fully recover from it.......this was about 2 1/2 -3 years ago
sailormei
I'd ask them what was wrong; was it me? him?... And then I'd probably be really depressed. Cry for days, weeks, months, no contact with the other half....and then I'd just try to get over myself and think about other things..
islandkiss
good question.. I have to admit I have no courage or strength when it comes to breaking up.. there would probably be a lot of tears shed. cry.gif
NatoBoy
that would suck!!! id be relly hurt inside and id just have to go to my frends for advice....a true frend's advice....
Mizz Cindy Tron
That's hard to answer..I'm tryin my best tu get over the same situation but it's pretty complicated..
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