A real crush? Not someone I just thought was cute?

My crushes in the past never liked me back.. Except my second boyfriend. I liked him but he didn't like me back, then later he liked me. EUGH...

But my current boyfriend.. When I first met him and became friends with him, I just thought he was cute... I guess I never really got to know him that well, at first, only because I didn't have any classes with him and i rarely saw him.

Yeah they have become my Bf. Only my first and seconf bf though(sp?)

Yeah.....

Don't all boyfriends/girlfriends start out as crushes?

Well, unless you got in the relationship because you didn't want to make the person feel bad...

thats what i thought... otherwise would you be together?

yeah but i've had multiple crushes which came to naught, i have a nasty habit of wanting what i can thave

yeah many tymes.

yeahss ! nd his my boyfrenn .. =) we just started not long ago .. but soon gonna b 1 month thoo .. in 11 dayss ..

All of my crushes never actually liked me back, so yeah I really try and not to even think about crushing on girls. One of friends went out with one of my crushes. It threw me off guard, but I couldn't do anything just because she doesn't date black people. I don't believe that for a minute though. That's cool. I'm no longer worried about it. I'm happy for them. They definitely deserve each other.

yup..2 of my ex's were my crushes before i really got to know them as a boyfriend lol....

haha damn well.. there's this guy i had a crush on, on and off throughout year 7-9? on and off but i was ALWAYS attracted to him.. then i moved to another country and one day we got to talking out of nowhere.. and now we're in a serious relationship, 2years exactly :) i love him with all my heart. its fate<3

nope, but i wish..

Because I view "crush" as a small liking for someone, I see that most "crushes" I've had are for jerks and so yea that's why I voted "No, he/she is an absolute idiot"..but special liking is something totally different

hmmm....
my crush WAS my bf. =]
so im not voting in the poll.
were still friends tho.
anndd... i became his gf cuz i didnt want him to feel bad. ==;;
but it turned out okay, still good frends.

Psh, he was my boyfriend.

yea but we broke up. i think that was one of the hardest things i ever went through it was over a year ago and i am still healing.

i would have never guessed he was gay.

mmm sometimes they do, and sometimes they don't... nowadays, the ppo i crush on turn out to be someone different from what i expect. -_-;;

My current ex was my crush.

The crush I had for 2 years asked me out like last week..

I've been so happy!!!! IT rocks!

yes, but its the first time its ever happened to me

pshh, i wish

lol maybe in like 10000 years

Nope. He turned out to be gay. It's all good between us now though.

Yeah... Love at First Sight can be complicated. I believe in it, but... I have my doubts.

yep, my current bf was my crush b4 we went out.. its gonna be 3 months soon :]

yeah..i think there was only one guy that DIDNT become my boyfriend..i always get what i want haha

yupp.. <3

the choice i wanna pick isn't there. yeah my crush was my boyfriend. we're not going out anymore.

Had a crush on this one guy at the start of our freshmen year. Turns out he liked me too. We've been together over a year. He's not the same person that he was when we first met (and I've changed a lot too) but we still love each other.

No dude ..

I tried hooking up with this dude I " liked " but he didn't like me. I realized it was one of those " damn i'm so lonely i just want to be with anybody " situations.. eck.

well i'm a pretty coy person when it comes to relationships and the guy i like. & usually the guy likes me first, and somehow, i begin to like them back. all we do is basically look at each other & that's basically it. eventually, feelings fade and there aren't any butterflies in our stomaches when we see each other, & so that's the end of that. it's kind of sad really, but i wait for the guy to make the first move, but that's never happened. i don't wanna make the first move 'cause yeah, i'm foolishly shy.

you didnt have a choice of Yes, but hes not my boyfriend anymore
haha

but i do have this new crush and im workin on it

I rarely ever get a crush on someone "at first sight" (nor do I believe in love at first sight, attraction yes, love no).

And I am currently dating my crush. ^_^


I went out with a guy for a week once, and I didn't like him. Horrible mistake. My best friend was dating his best friend, so she asked me to go out with him. Let's just say that after I broke up with him, he stalked me and my best friend for a month. So... yeah... don't date people you don't like. XD

Yup...my current gf was my crush...i had her 2 years ago but she "abandoned". I was heartbroken....I stil luved her but i nvr bothered to tell her, i just felt like I lost her for good. I stil luved her n she sed she startd luvin me again, but we ignored eachother all through last year...but we eventually made up n became luvers again!

im so not sure if i posted a reply on this one?? hahaha

but yep my long time crush is now my serious boyfriend =)
had on and off crushes on him for 2 years back in junior highschool, he was in the grade above me.. then i moved n stuff.. after 2 years we hooked up, he asked me to be his girlfriend, i was psyched haha! we're now together for 2 years =) serious and in love for the rest of our lives<3

my crush did become my bf...once...not now...i guess it was good while it lasted though...long distance...ugh

haha i agree! i broke up after 5 months..

my crush was my bf for about 4 or 5 months den we broke up

where's "yes, but we're not together anymore"......

my first crush isnt my second crush is my bf currently =D

yes, as a matter of fact, my crush did become my bf. but we broke up after...he saw another girl that he liked

Well not exactly ... we both knew we liked each other, but we didn't take it any further ..

Yeep. It's always nice when your crush beomces you bf/gf. It's better than them just going out with you because you like them.

Yes and no.

Yes weve been going out for two weeks...but its kinda rocky cuz we go to different schools

Nope. Sad sad sad. I like him; but he doesn't like me. Oh poo.

yup! they are right now lol

Wait, I have a question. Why wouldn't your boyfriend/girlfriend be your crush? You'd have to like them to be with them, wouldn't you?

yea
but for a very short time,,,

Well, i had a humango crush on this guy.. can you imagine that?

But, when we started dating he turned out not to be the person i thought he was.
He was a complete idiot and very immature.
So just be careful, make sure you really know the person.
Cause, I think love at first sight is well....not always what You want it to be.

yep.. crushed for 2 years... now we're actually together for a year and a half.. almost 2 years since the time we both "crushed" on each other.. i must add.. during da "crushing years," i found alot about him and even more once we're together.. good or bad.. i love it all..

well uh... my first crush , didnt like me. the 2nd one , we're currently almost gonna go out . =D hopefully.... *sigh**