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likeachild
ok so there's this girl I like at school
and her friend thinks we should get together cuz we would
be a "cute couple"
so she talked to her and told me that she said "she would talk to me about it"
it's been a while and she still hasn't said anything yet..
I don't know maybe she likes me
cuz she smiles everytime I see her
but maybe she wants me to ask her out

but what do I say???
I don't want to sound stupid and awkward and stuff

HELP!

I'm dying here!
cry.gif

School year's almost over....

Please help!
mglbaby
blink.gif wut r u scared of? rejection?? juzz ask her out! try to be sweet bout it though tell her u like her n ask her out but donn mention bout other ppl thinkin u'd make a cute couple..it has to involve juzz 2 of u so u donn hafta worry bout wut other think n wut others think u should do... if u like her ask her out..
alinamalina14
QUOTE(mglbaby @ Apr 13 2004, 5:04 PM)
blink.gif wut r u scared of? rejection?? juzz ask her out! try to be sweet bout it though tell her u like her n ask her out but donn mention bout other ppl thinkin u'd make a cute couple..it has to involve juzz 2 of u so u donn hafta worry bout wut other think n wut others think u should do... if u like her ask her out..

i second that opinion there
Flaunted
go for it!! take chances
likeachild
just say i like her and stuff?

should I say anything specific?

like what exactly should I say?
Mireh
Be casual. You act like youve never asked out a girl before wink.gif

just be like "hey, wanna get together some time"




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likeachild
thank's for your good advice everyone

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xjjajeengx
0o0o if its notto late, my opinion:

say...
"Hey, wanna go out with me later?" wink.gif

dont wait for her to move on you. be the "man" blink.gif hahah laugh.gif or you could wait... but chances are... she's waiting for you...
CEP
Here's what you do:
You catch her alone after school.
You ask her out the following weekend.

If she likes you, she'll say yes. You just need guts really.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi
xtremeliquid
I think you should take your chance before its too late. If she likes you and you don't ask, she might be tired of waiting and she might start liking another guy so my advice to you is to just ask her.
likeachild
QUOTE(xtremeliquid @ Apr 13 2004, 7:37 PM)
I think you should take your chance before its too late. If she likes you and you don't ask, she might be tired of waiting and she might start liking another guy so my advice to you is to just ask her.

crap I hope that doesn't happen ohmy.gif

yeah...I'm going to do it
wish me luck please mellow.gif
jooleeah
*wishing you luck* remember to be very calm while you do it.....if you're too nervous then everything might go bleh.
xtremeliquid
Make sure you don't sweat lol.
Kathleen
*Wishes you some more luck* You'll be great! I'm sure she'll say yes. happy.gif Why wouldn't she?
rOckThISshYt
lol. you should ask her out yourself. maybe she had the intention of talking to you, but was too scared to do it. i think you should go for it!!! tongue.gif
LinknPrk__003
Just say that u wanna go out with her its not that hard i do all the time
waccoon
QUOTE(v@por @ Apr 13 2004, 6:00 PM)
School year's almost over....

Please help!

well, what grade are you in? you have the whole summer to be with her if you're seeing her again next year
inn0centmarianne
aw good luck! she better say yes, you seem like a really nice guy. worse thing that can happen is for her to say no, but you never know, she'll most likely say yes, and then you guys will live happily ever after biggrin.gif hehe
oh yeah, and about the school year being over, I know it pretty close to the end, but like waccoon said, there is always summer vacation..
mai_z
ask her out...the worst she can do is kill you (...or say no rolleyes.gif )
GD LUCK!
dani41790
good luck
angel-roh
awww guys cannot be shy...they are supposed to ask a girl out...dont be stupid... u think u will act like stupid? then dont go and ruin ur love life LOLS jp haha... umm.. well... it seems like ur not ready for a relationship... jus go to her...and tell her if shes ready to go out^^;; and ask her wats her feeling toward u...hehe....thats a good start to ask^^
likeachild
QUOTE(Mireh @ Apr 13 2004, 5:43 PM)
Be casual. You act like youve never asked out a girl before wink.gif

um.... ermm.gif

it's spring break right now
so i'll ask when skool starts again which is only a few days away

she's on a vacation trip right now....
likeachild
could i just say...

did you miss me?
the answer will probably be no..
then, i'll say
well, i missed you
conster
QUOTE
v@por Posted on Apr 15 2004, 5:17 AM
  could i just say...

did you miss me?
the answer will probably be no..
then, i'll say
well, i missed you 


aww thats so sweet happy.gif yeah i say just tell her u like her and ask her how she feels about you biggrin.gif
Gray_is_here
Ask her out to a fancy restaurant! lol! if you want...
well I gotta know your grade first before i could help you

well good luck tho!
likeachild
QUOTE(Gray_is_here @ Apr 15 2004, 8:44 PM)
Ask her out to a fancy restaurant! lol! if you want...
well I gotta know your grade first before i could help you

well good luck tho!

dude I'm in 8th grade

I don't go to "fancy restaurants" lol! laugh.gif
ThePrincessofTKD
goodness...you`re on spring break and all the spring break you`ve been thinking about her..? ohmy.gif

man..what a lucky girl.. wink.gif haha..

just wait patiently...`cause impatience could kill your chances of being with her..

don`t freak out and run out of words to say...

act "natural"...and leave the girl breathless...

lol

with your cologne that is...haha..

she`ll be like "ohh...you smell gooooood.."

haha.. happy.gif
Gray_is_here
i say u should approach her and be the one to take her breathe away and take the chance...

take the chance! its hard to lose someone you care/like for so much when you have so lil time



well hope this helps!
likeachild
QUOTE(Gray_is_here @ Apr 15 2004, 10:18 PM)
well hope this helps!

thanks happy.gif

"every minute I'm not with you
I hope I'll see you soon
There's just something that happens
when you walk into a room
Cuz instantly I feel so complete
and you give me this feeling
it's like no other feeling
and it knocks me off my feet.

I don't think
there are any others
out there like you
and I won't blink
cuz that would mean I'd miss a second beside you

Please don't ask me
what I like about you
cuz it's every little thing you do
and that's just the way you make me feel...


Dream away.....
wub.gif huh.gif ohmy.gif laugh.gif
her me-->me--->me

A happy ending?
happy.gif throb.gif happy.gif
iheartsimba
QUOTE(v@por @ Apr 13 2004, 5:00 PM)
ok so there's this girl I like at school
and her friend thinks we should get together cuz we would
be a "cute couple"
so she talked to her and told me that she said "she would talk to me about it"
it's been a while and she still hasn't said anything yet..
I don't know maybe she likes me
cuz she smiles everytime I see her
but maybe she wants me to ask her out

but what do I say???
I don't want to sound stupid and awkward and stuff

HELP!

I'm dying here!
cry.gif

School year's almost over....

Please help!

ok...so she smiles at you?

thats good...

she told her friends she wanted to talk with you about it...

as in she probably likes you bc if she didn't she would probably say something like "uhh...i odn't think so...." or something like thaat...

she hasn't talked to you yet...

as in shes to shy and she wants you to make the first move.
try calling her first or somthing.

and her firends think ud look cute togehter...

as in if her friends think that, that will probably mean shes gonna say yes...friends influence everything.
iheartsimba
QUOTE(v@por @ Apr 16 2004, 12:38 AM)
thanks happy.gif

"every minute I'm not with you
I hope I'll see you soon
There's just something that happens
when you walk into a room
Cuz instantly I feel so complete
and you give me this feeling
it's like no other feeling
and it knocks me off my feet.

I don't think
there are any others
out there like you
and I won't blink
cuz that would mean I'd miss a second beside you

Please don't ask me
what I like about you
cuz it's every little thing you do
and that's just the way you make me feel...


Dream away.....
wub.gif huh.gif ohmy.gif laugh.gif
her me-->me--->me

A happy ending?
happy.gif throb.gif happy.gif

oh thats so sweet!!

how could any girl NOT like you!!!!

you should show her the poem./..
likeachild
QUOTE(iheartsimba @ Apr 16 2004, 7:19 PM)
ok...so she smiles at you?

thats good...

she told her friends she wanted to talk with you about it...

as in she probably likes you bc if she didn't she would probably say something like "uhh...i odn't think so...." or something like thaat...

she hasn't talked to you yet...

as in shes to shy and she wants you to make the first move.
try calling her first or somthing.

and her firends think ud look cute togehter...

as in if her friends think that, that will probably mean shes gonna say yes...friends influence everything.

yes... friends influence everything...

I think I'll slip it into her locker...?
iheartsimba
yah do that, if she doesn't like that then she's crazy.
likeachild
QUOTE(iheartsimba @ Apr 16 2004, 9:57 PM)
yah do that, if she doesn't like that then she's crazy.

you really think the poem is good?

thanks... _smile.gif flowers.gif blush.gif
iheartsimba
QUOTE(v@por @ Apr 16 2004, 10:19 PM)
you really think the poem is good?

thanks... _smile.gif flowers.gif blush.gif

yah, it's really good.
i think she'll like it. _smile.gif
likeachild
QUOTE(iheartsimba @ Apr 16 2004, 10:36 PM)
yah, it's really good.
i think she'll like it. _smile.gif

ok

do you think I should write it out or type it up?
angel-roh
heh oOoh a poem? aww... but u kno some ppls dont understand poems and they jus dun care....so yeah....jus tellin' u~~ lols my friend says "it's a wasteful thing to make a poem for ur lover... i wuld jus buy them gifts or... watever they want" lols
likeachild
QUOTE(anqel_r0h @ Apr 17 2004, 8:12 AM)
heh oOoh a poem? aww... but u kno some ppls dont understand poems and they jus dun care....so yeah....jus tellin' u~~ lols my friend says "it's a wasteful thing to make a poem for ur lover... i wuld jus buy them gifts or... watever they want" lols

are you sure?
hibiscus_hunny
dont be too shy around her... if you do ask her out... that can be a really big turn-off for some girls, cuz most girls want a guy that they can talk to.
kraziegrl
QUOTE(mglbaby @ Apr 13 2004, 5:04 PM)
blink.gif  wut r u scared of? rejection?? juzz ask her out! try to be sweet bout it though tell her u like her n ask her out but donn mention bout other ppl thinkin u'd make a cute couple..it has to involve juzz 2 of u so u donn hafta worry bout wut other think n wut others think u should do... if u like her ask her out..

yea!! do it!! try it :] if she says no, then i guess she wasnt the one. who wouldnt like you? ;)
IBathedinAcid
Don't be scared of her saying no. I bet she likes you more than you think. _smile.gif
Mireh
QUOTE(v@por @ Apr 15 2004, 5:17 AM)
could i just say...

did you miss me?
the answer will probably be no..
then, i'll say
well, i missed you

Hmm...If I were you, I wouldn't say that. If she doesn't like you, it might scare her off...

Try the causual way --> cool.gif
iheartsimba
what?!? poems are the best...i think you should write it down...like you just wrote it in homeroom thinking about her,,...
ahh *sighs*
i'm the type of girl who like things to be romantic =]
xXLiTtOMuNkEeXx
i have the almost same problem as this guy, except i'm in 9th grade. and the girl that i like hardly talks to me now. in 8th grade we used to be the best of friends(i think?) but after the summer passed and entering high school we barely say hi to each other? but i still really really like her. what do i do?!? cry.gif

=O
China_Man_11
QUOTE(v@por @ Apr 16 2004, 12:38 AM)
thanks  happy.gif

"every minute I'm not with you
I hope I'll see you soon
There's just something that happens
when you walk into a room
Cuz instantly I feel so complete
and you give me this feeling
it's like no other feeling
and it knocks me off my feet.

I don't think
there are any others
out there like you
and I won't blink
cuz that would mean I'd miss a second beside you

Please don't ask me
what I like about you
cuz it's every little thing you do
and that's just the way you make me feel...


Dream away..... 
wub.gif          huh.gif      ohmy.gif      laugh.gif
  her        me-->me--->me

A happy ending?
happy.gif  throb.gif  happy.gif

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Smile at her. and then talk
girls love that! trust me..
anna_banana08
tell her you like her quick! :-) haha
Yemmerz
if your gonna give her the poem, write it and then she'll know you put your heart into it. GOOD LUCK! aww your a sweet guy i hope everything works out good
lozerface87
ahh! what happened isnt spring break over yet?

i wanna know! blink.gif
tWinKliEmE
QUOTE(lozerface87 @ Jun 20 2004, 4:12 PM)
ahh! what happened isnt spring break over yet?

i wanna know! blink.gif

same here! im dyin to kno
Violent K
Ack, damnit, man! pinch.gif

You waited way too long. Listen, the worse the ninja could do is say no. It wouldn't kill you. I mean, at least it's a straight answer and you ren't left wondering and you could finally move on.

I mean wow ... don't miss your chance, man. Live in the moment and take every single opportunity you get to do the first impulse that comes to your head. Don't think on it for too long.

Sometimes the best thing to do is not to worry about the consequence and just go for it, because sometimes you'll get a better consequence than you ever could've imagined by thinking about it. _smile.gif

MMFCL
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