im suffering in this situation well not literally suffering but yeh. uhm i am basically holding onto a dream that won't come true. i like this guy in school but there's no way we could have a chance. and i just want to know ways which you can forget someone eventhough you see them at school sometimes. i don't know if this is being posted but please list some ways on how u can forget someone.

ps. i know this is sad, but therez no way i cud solve this.

thanks anyways

that is really hard...the only way for me to get over a guy is if he changed or i don't see him anymore

you can't get over a guy unless your heart say no

imagine he did something really mean to you or your friends. this way, you'll think of him as a disgusting pig, and you won't think about him in a good way anymore.

wow i know what you mean...i my self have this issue with this guy you see i am like in love with him and i dont know why. he looks at me and we click, but he does not dare tell anyone he may like me because he is like a smart, good looking jock. And i am just a regular old gal that stays to her self and keeps at her school work.

any way the best way i find is to erase the person from you heart. i know this may sound very difficult, but i know you can do it.
what you do is think that that person is the worst person in the world and that you and him would most definately not hit if off. and then you of course find a new guy to crush on. (this is extreamly difficult at my school :P)

uhhh...doesthat make any sense?

yea i only get over guys is if i never see him...tell him to move lol

you cant. you can only get over someone when youre ready to. and you dont decide it, your feelings do.

one word.

no.

If they meant alot to you...then I doubt it....but with time...maybe...just try to think of his bad habits...or just...don't think about him so much. Hope you do in time forget about him...

I just pretend he ain't there.

wow i'm like going through the same thing... i mean he's given signs (many surprisingly ) but i've always been way too scared to make any moves back. *sigh* and i think he's given up. but yea... just give it time

i don't think it's fair to forget him by pretending he's a jerk, if he never was in the first place. yea, he may have some bad spots, but that doesnt mean you should only think of those things just to get over him.

i don't think yu can really make yurself forget someone... im not really goin' through the same problem as yu, but i understand why yu want to forget him. cause me and my ex bf went out for 8 monthes and he left me and i've been tryin' to forget about him, and stop lovin' si8nce then. and the sad this is tha he left me in september =[. but anyway i hope yu have more luck then me.... just try not to think about him i guess?

Well , I forget a guy by getting someone else.

Sounds 0_o but its true.

unless u have brain damage or something...then nope. u will remember forever. if they were special to u, then u'll probably think about them a lot too. but the best advise i can give to you is: pretend to forget about them. or pretend you dont care. pretend. mabye you can convince yourself. just a little.

there really isn't a way to forget someone. unless like people have said.. you get brain damage & you get alzheimer or go into a coma or something. lol but other than that.. i think you can't really forget about anyone no matter how hard you want to & try to.

thats darn hardd haha here are things on how i forgot someone

1. i found someone else so u can just wait for a little or try to find someone else
2. ask your friends on what they think
3. hang around with ur friends sometime and have fun for some day
4. move schools. lol if its really that bad then yeah.
5. its almost summer.. try to have fun and forget
6. talk to God and tell him about your life as a bestfriend

hope that helps girl! man that happen to me b4 haha. peace

anything is possible and this is one of those possibilities.

you seem to be pretty young and you have your whole life ahead of you where you will be forgetting people as you move onto the next friend, boyfriend, place.

i'd be surprised if you could remember every single thing you said yesterday to every single person you came in contact.

i've gotten over a first love and yes, it took a few months but it happened and it made me a stronger person then what i use to be. patience is a virtue. you have to keep yourself busy with other things that you enjoy while you forget him. the way that i forgot about my love was basically wiping him out of my life. easier said then done because deep down i will never forget him, but all of the pain that he caused me was not a reason to dwell. he got on with his life which gave me more of a reason to continue mine and move on. lifes too short to waste it on depression and sadness from thinking of one person that you had feelings for. and never use someone else to get over how you felt for someone else, because you will lose that momentary person as well and it won't get you anywhere. you have to get over him on your own with no one elses physical help. keep yourself busy, and think of him as an ex-friend. those are always easy to get over. guys shouldn't be any different. good luck.

I've tried finding ways to forget someone but I can't. The best you can do is just try to move on.

it's really hard actually. i remember when i tried. @.@ took like two whole months. but i just basically made this list of everything that's wrong with the guy and then i looked at it every day. then, i'm not quite sure how i did it, but i sort of erased him from my memory, and i tried to hate him and stuff. and i also got a new crush.

but the reason i tried to "forget" him was because he was moving in 40 days. now he left, and i never really told him.

lol. its so hardd to forget. but im sure i will cuz i will be leaving to da uk in august and by then i can't see him no more. and therez only 4 weeks left of school which is really sad but den i dun think i'll see him anymore. for the rest of my life. i guess

Hit your head really hard so you get amnesia... you'll forget about the person... but then you won't remember anythign else....

Yeah, I know how hard it is. It's been happening to me lately.

I know this may seem strange, but just talk to yourself about it. The only person that really knows you best is you. Talk about all the reasons why it's pointless to like him. It's going to be difficult, and it may not always work whenever you want it to, but you do feel a lot better, getting out all of those words that you want to say.

Give it time, events will happen that will lead you the way out.

'Cause you've got a whole life ahead of you to find the right guy, you know?

yeah.. it is hard and i've been going through it right now too. cause i dont think i should like the guy i like. and my friends are kinda making me think like that even more. but it's my decision and i only know what's best (well God, Jesus, my parents do too) but anyways. you can't it's hard. the best thing to do is let time pass by cause you'll eventually forget unless you really do love him. but who knows.. and the situation with me right now. im not trying to get over him. im trying to keep liking him and actually love him. idk im weird

dont stop liking him because you feel like you have to. just wait until you really do.

You can never forget them. Perhaps only replace them with someone else, but you can never forget what they did. I guess you can only move on.

you can't forget them if you liked them ALOT.

but,
i have a question to all.
if you cant forget a person that you liked alot but yet you only liked them for a month or 2 or a few, how come some people cant remmeber theyre kindergarten or preschool teacher's name?

LOL this made me laughh mah ass off

you cant make your heart get over someone.

but you can make yourself believe you no longer like him.. like if i dont see the guy i like for a couple weeks, i feel like im almost over him and dont like him anymore. but the second i see him, i realize im not. wish it was easier

lol i so agree. the second i see him, i haf butterflies in my stomach again.

think of something else. keep yourself occupied. um...its a hard thing..i had the same problem..but i buried myself in school, dont do that tho, but just think of something else. something happier and better.

well....i'm sort of going through that. My personal opinion is to never lie to yourself. I read some of the earlier posts and i'm not against it or anything but i just believe lying doesn't work well in this situation. What i suggest is to repeat things to yourself. He's only one guy in your life. In college or whenever, yu'll find sum1 better. You'll find someone who's not ashamed of liking you. In the future, you'll find someone better. Just keep repeating that to yourself. Also, keep yourself preoccupied. Don't think about him that often.

Now, if only i can take my own advice...

Immerse yourself in something positive.

Spend all your free time that you would normally spend thinking about him, doing something like working out or studying.

you'll end up w/ either a really great body or straight A's

I once read this quote...

"Forgetting someone you care for is like remembering someone you've never met."

:)

Well, anyway, I got over a small crush by like...not talking a lot and basically not communicating or seeing him. Wasn't really too hard. If it's more than just a crush, you are doomed.



DOOMED I SAY

lol. thanks everyone. i'll try my best. but i know its soooo hard. but anyways, i wonder if there wuz one topic like this, i find it interesting.

omg! mai boyfriend changed his attitude and watever to try to be cool wif the guys. but he seems like a loser to me. but like it juss hurts me so much juss to see him acting in this new attitude ya know. and i couldn't forget about him. hm... i dont really know how to get ovah a guy. i try to find someone new, i guess.

i want to know... =[
gosh it's so freaking hard to get him out of my head.

ok i stumble upon this cool webpage www.forgetex.com and it seemed pretty logical..but im hesitating to download the ebook... Has anyone purchase the book on way you can forget your ex?

There's also some articles you read for free, it helps me feel better
and wanting to move on with my life again. I hope this helps..

You got the problem, they got the solution
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i wasnt able to get over with this one guy until i fell in love with another.

For me the easiest way to get over someone is to meet new people. They cold be new friends new guys whatever. I did that and I got over my ex in no time. I was very shocked at myself because I thought I'd never get over him.

Easy...
Keep active, physically and mentally.