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BabyBrat
I'm writing an article for a website on how to be an IT girl. An IT girl is someone who everyone talks about. She stands out in a crowd and people can't help but notice her. She is often the center of attention and controversial. She is admired by many but of course she has a few enemies too. In other words, people either love her or love to hate her, kind of like Britney Spears and Paris Hilton. What I need from any of you is YOUR tips on how one can become an IT persona. What are some ways to stir up controversy, drama, attention?
JlIaTMK
Oh god, how to become an it girl. Well, definately try to split up friendships between the "lesser people". I would definately say that is one of them.
For example: Pretend to admire one of the "lesser friend" and tell her/him about how their friend is not worth their time and how they can do much better.

But.... x.x

Is this something positive? An article about.... going against the "it" thing?
Or is it some kind of "it girl" promotion?
loljuliana
how to become an IT girl? social climb. that's the first thing that popped into my head. social climb. make sure no one knows about it. pretend you've known them for years. be friends with everyone.
Saeglopur
Turning into an IT girl is a hard decision. Being the pessimist that I am, I believe that you're not going to get anything out of being the IT girl - because personally, there are the people who don't like you anymore because you've changed and there are the people that like you because you've changed - but it's not you. So personally, at that moment, you - in the inside - is not being liked that much.

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As for tips, I believe that an IT girl should be friendly and not be choosy among people. If you want to be recognize, don't feel ashamed to introduce yourself and make friends with people who you know don't like you. You never know, you might be friends with them. Don't be shy and be confident but do not be overconfident. Also, DO NOT make yourself an IT girl because you have stolen everyone's boyfriend. For this occasion, try not to follow your heart or it'll get you in big trouble. Sometimes you need to follow your intellectual side rather than your emotional side.

... that's all. I'm not sure if that's what you want but *shrug, I'm bored.
danishcookiez
yes, be friendly with everyone. smile a lot, but don't let others run all over you. be confident. dress well. be very vocal
mzkandi
Being yourself and thinking outside of the box. Not caing what people think about you. When I think of an it girl, I often think of a girl that has a unique style from everyone else. Her personality is funky and inviting. Girls want to be like her and guys want to be with her.
to-devastate
^ Totally agree. happy.gif

An IT girl to me, is one who everyone admires. Everyone wants to be like her, and with her. I think an IT girl would be smart, pretty, stylish, nice, kind, etc. Basically, a role-model, if you must.
tweeak
moved to girls locker

sorry, im sure youd get more feedback here, but its more appropriate there
jnukes
umm .. be an overall good attitude person .. don't start crap with people .. don't be so stuck up ..

being good at sports .. being smart .. dress decent/nice .. have a good reputation ..
mocassinsx29
=T "It" girls are kinda.. ughhh... but that's just my opinion. ;)
To stir up drama? They could like..um...well, if you mean BIG It girls, not just ones in schools, they could star in some fresh movies with controversial [sp?] or like.. make a CD??!
Freakerr
an "IT" girl.. as in a girl who many people look up to and admire .. something along those lines you mean?.. im guessing. heh. well, i know it's cheesy to say this but BE YOURSELF. let the inner "it" girl come out. let your personality shine.. your humor, your smarts, and your friendliness.. be humble. smile. people will admire you for it.
Shattered_Hope
1.) Be different.
2.) Be confident.
3.) Have the right clothes.
4.) Have friends in many places.
5.) Have common sense..
megan_x3
be yourself !
don't copy other people
dont make gossips and don't break a promise
atleast know people and let be nice !
unique i say !
TootsInTraining2
Well, i've been an "it" girl.. im not being concited! I promise.
Well you have to work for it. You cant be shy, and you cant be afraid to take risks.
Being funny is a must. But not obnoxious.
stolenantics
be yourself try not to be a fake person because no one will want to be botherd with you and some ppl will think of you as mediocore. Keep in mind an "it" girl isnt a bad title meaning an it girl isnt that girl whose know for sleeping with everyone. alot of ppl get that confused
SandRAWRz
an It girl has to flawless, has natural beauty, a great personality, nice tan, knows everything(parties, gossip, entertainment world, etc) and outgoing
toodlepops.
How to be an IT girl.

1. Be LOUD!
2. Know all the newest trends.

? I don't know. mellow.gif
br0kenINSIDE_91
its prolly alot of work to be an "it" girl.
a) don't show ppl that you're TRYING to change. just show them "the new you"
b) be VERY freindly
c)dress perfectly. Not a hair out of place, etc.
d) help ppl, wheather its with their hw, advice, or whatever elser you're good at.
ItzOnlySydney
1.be smart
2. be beautiful??
3. be witty?
4. be tredny??
5. be creative( indivuality is key)

hmm...i tried
SilverInandescence
QUOTE(BabyBrat @ May 24 2005, 2:28 PM)
I'm writing an article for a website on how to be an IT girl. An IT girl is someone who everyone talks about. She stands out in a crowd and people can't help but notice her. She is often the center of attention and controversial. She is admired by many but of course she has a few enemies too. In other words, people either love her or love to hate her, kind of like Britney Spears and Paris Hilton. What I need from any of you is YOUR tips on how one can become an IT persona. What are some ways to stir up controversy, drama, attention?
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Believe in yourself and don't let anyone walk all over you. You shouldn't try to be stuck up and bitchy to people. If you have self confidence, then people won't try to mess with you and like you because you believe in yourself.
JlIaTMK
QUOTE(xd0rkette @ May 24 2005, 7:53 PM)
^ Totally agree. happy.gif

An IT girl to me, is one who everyone admires. Everyone wants to be like her, and with her. I think an IT girl would be smart, pretty, stylish, nice, kind, etc. Basically, a role-model, if you must.
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BUT yet, is it not someone who everyone fears?
EmmalieV
Be YOURSELF!

I dont think people should be told how to act , unless its a joke.
Jasminluvsu
i think you have to have a lot of attitude....like a diva
Fallen Fairy
Be yourself and look good while doing it.

fallen fairy
iiloveyou637
i'm an it girl
aznxdreamer
dude..this is from stargirl.
Paradox of Life
QUOTE(Fallen Fairy @ Jul 1 2005, 4:45 PM)
Be yourself and look good while doing it.

fallen fairy
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Couldn't have said it better myself. Why are you trying to be something you're not? Be the best you can be and people will like you for who you are.
xcaitlinx
ohhh, i know! you make a sex tape, whore yourself around, and sell your body. that's sure to stir up drama.
enyceXaddiction
try to get as much of people as you can.
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