The beginning of this year I went out with a kid. We'll call him Steven. Now I liked Steven and I went out with him, but then rumors went around saying he liked someone else and I broke up with him. Now, months later after I broke up with him, when I asked him out the other day he said no.

1.) WHY MIGHT HE HAVE SAID NO?
2.) WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE HIM SAY YES?

Thanks so much for your help guys I LOVE YOU ALL!!

~Katie

this should go in relationships... right?

uhh... you should get over him.

well firstly did u break up with him cuz of the rumours or what happened? if you did then i guess you shouldn't have at the beginning because those are just rumours and if you really love him you should've trusted him and ignore all those rumours, well if he comes to you and admit it in that case yes you should but i guess he didn't so.

maybe he doesn't want to get hurt again? or maybe he's moved on from you since you dumped him in the first place..

and not all "rumors" are true. some people stay stuff to get you to break up with people (maybe because the people that started the rumor likes him or whatever) you shouldn't trust the rumors you should trust your boyfriend.

yeah i think this should go in relationships..

maybe because he got crushed because of something he might have not done in the first place. orrrrrrrrrr he probably got over you. and you can't force him to say yes. imagine having an arranged marriage with him, and he's in love with another girl. you're happy he's not. wouldn't that hurt you?

Umm....you dumped him....it's no surprise he won't say "yes"....he's probably over you already.....I suggest you move on.....he might have already liked someone else...

he probably said no b/c he is over you or he liek someone lese


if he move on you shoudl too

He probably moved on within the few months. Get over it. You were the one that dumped him.

he's moved on, you should too

you shoudnt have broken of with him. as you said it was a RUMOR. you couldve at least talk with him about it. it might've not been true. and now hes prorbaly have moved on.

he's probably over u. it HAS been MONTHS..feelings can change in months

he probably already moved on just forget about him and move on.

well you broke up with him so he moved on. like you should. you can't expect him to suddenly drop everything again for you.

1.) WHY MIGHT HE HAVE SAID NO? He's afraid you might not trust him because what might of happened in the past, or he's afraid of getting hurt that you didn't trust him
2.) WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE HIM SAY YES? You cannot make him say yes, but you can show him that you want another chance, shower him with attention, maybe he'll notice.

^ what they said.

you dumped him.. he doesn't wanna get hurt again.. so he said no. he's over you.

ok well i think
1) B/c he felt bad when u dumped him and now he thinks u won't trust him and stuff
2)Hmmmm.... i think u should um tell him your sorry? and say like "i didn't know that the rumors weren't true and i'm sry" somthing like that u should just try to find a way to get him back.. have a talk about the rumors and stuff and see if it wasn't true maybe if u talk face to face he won't lie then u can show him that you actually trust him if he tells u the truth that the rumors weren't real

you should have talked to him about the rumours first.
He's over you, get over him.

You should get over him.. I mean obviously he doesn't want to be with you. Maybe if you've given him a chance to tell HIS SIDE of the story about this whole "liking someone else" rumor back when you two were dating, it could've been where the rumor WAS a lie and you two would've never broken up. He probably said no because he thinks you don't trust him, OR he probably does like someone else. That, or maybe he might've stopped liking you a long time ago.

The best thing to do is move on. You don't want to be clingy, especially since YOU broke up with him about that rumor. What can you do to make him say yes? Well.... not much. I mean, you could tell him that you still have feelings for him and tell him sorry.. but tell me, were the rumors true? If not then.. tsk tsk tsk. I don't think he'll take you back so easily either way.

first of all, you broke up with him because of the rumours, right? did you ask him about it before you decided to end your relationship?? he has every right to be mad at you if you havent asked him yet and believed the rumours instead of him. second, why would you ask him back out when you were the one who dumped him? remember, hes still mad, so why would he agree? think over this. get over it.