Okay, today I was at school and I was trying to talk to Butthead.* All of a sudden, she just yelled out, "Bitch, if you have something to say about me, say it in my face!!" I was really confused and didn't know what happened, so by the end of Math period, I started to cry. Well, it was later that I found out that she had read my xanga. I was also pissed off at her one day, so I wrote an entry saying that I'm pissed off at her and that I thought that my so-called friends were being hypocrites, yada yada ya. So then at lunch, she started making fun of me with her other friends. All of a sudden, I started blacking out on her. She just pissed me off so much. A little while later, I overheard her saying some stuff about me (I also think I heard her make up some crap). Sooo...

1. What should I do??
2. Would you have reacted the same way Butthead did? If not, then how?

*Name has been changed.

1. ignore her. let her realize her own flaws.
2. no, because things come and go. things happen, and fights will occur. one conflict and the resulting emotion shouldn't change anything. we all have our bad times, and therefore, "butthead" is a very immature butthead. what a loser.

you deserve better.

don't do anything, it's her loss. don't try talking to her, you'll just be 'digging the hole deeper and deeper'
you deserve better friends

you shouldn't of wrote about her on ur xanga, i understand why she got pissed but she's sooo overreacting and really you should let her do it until she gets bored but if it gets out of hand tell like ur best friends and ask them what they think or if its really bad tell ur parent or something. i saw some movie that the girl didn't tell anyone and it got so bad and whatever.. it was called odd girl out and it was a lifetime movie, iono if u saw it lol

Girls are bitches.

1. This will all blow over in a few days. It's just what happens most of the time.

2. I think I would have been..upset. I definitly would have confronted you, but trying to get even, I don't think so.

Just talk to her, and explain why she was pissing you off that day. Because I would think that if you just went up to her and went "you're pissing me off today" I doubt she'd handle that well either. Sometimes it's better to keep things..private? =/

^^ The reason that I wrote about her is because she was pissing me off. She also preferred to hang out iwth her bf over her friends and gave me an attitude when I asked her something. I also don't know how she got my xanga...



I know what you mean. I never told her my xanga's username, and I have no idea how she got it. Since I wanted to let my feelings out, I decided to write it on my xanga. I already explain why she pissed me off that day, but that just caused her to bitch more at me. I never told her "you're pissing me off today". I was pissed off at her and wrote the entry like, on the 4th, and she just brought it up today by yelling at me.

^thats a flaw in blogging. Sometimes, the people you don't want reading the entry read it.

Whta you should try or at least attempt to her is talk to her about the situation. Just tell her what was up.
Also, I know she'll read your xanga again. Just put in your xanga an apology in your entry. Hopefully she'll accept it.

1. Just leave it. She's not even worth it.

2. I would've been hurt. And she probably was.. That's why she was saying all that mean stuff about her.

Now just let her cool off.

shes probably just teasing you, or maybe in some case jealous of something

i agree. i've gone through some stuff like that when it comes to posting stuff on your blog...but really, blogs are a place to vent so i don't think one should get so worked up about it but anyways...just try to talk to her but i agree with food's advice.

i dotn get it, you blacked out? what?

1. What should I do??
-You can either solve the problem by explaining it to her and maybe...she'll understand.....or....just never talk to her again....
2. Would you have reacted the same way Butthead did? If not, then how?
-I wouldn't have reacted the same way as "Butthead" did because I guess I'm pretty reasonable...I would actually try to find out what happened and the reason why....instead of just blurting everything out before I even knew the whole situation...which is what I think "Butthead" did...assumed everything...

She was probably hurt by what you said in your Xanga. Hey, I would've been hurt, too. Wouldn't you?

1. What should I do?? Ignore her, if you fight her that will not solve anything, (I'm not a big fan of fighting)
2. Would you have reacted the same way Butthead did? If not, then how? I would just ignore her, I'm too scared to even think about fighting or talking back. Sometimes it helps not to say anything.