If you knew me, you would know that I DO NOT MAKE THE FIRST MOVE, I believe it's the guys job.. I have never made the first move but my boyfriend, is very.. VERY shy, and I doubt he would make the first move, but after he would kiss me alot. So should I make the first move, or confront him on being more affectionate??

it kind of depends on u..if u're willing to wait and let HIM make the first move, then just..wait! haha if u can't wait, just make the first move =] first time for everything!

it's really up to u do the decison...

hm well. i think you should get like a friend thats close to him to talk to him being like "oh did you and your name do anything yet?" then he prolly be like "no" and then that person will be like "well i think you and her should kiss, because i know she`ll kiss you back"

or ..

you can just make the first move when it seems like the right moment.

lol, thanks

GO FOR IT! trust me, i'm a shy girl too, and if my bf didn't make the first move, i dunno if i would've, but if he really likes ya, and if he's all nice around you, i say that you can just mention sumthin like that to him, like "hey, lets just sit here and cuddle" and then look into his eyes, cup his face, and plant one on him! he'll get the message...just suck it up and kiss him. a relationship is all about taking chances.

Just go for it! You don't have anything to lose.

Okay, well, a little story, not to freak you out oranything.
Haha but im not one to make first moves either.
&so one night i was at my friends and hesaid if i kissed him first then ed kiss me back.

so i went in to kiss him and got nervus and completely missed. >_<


hah. but id say if you feel like at the momet, you should make the fist move, then o for t. unless he WANTS wait,

for me, it usually depends on the atmosphere, situation and both moods. and i just go with the flow, do what i feel like. Dont be afraid to make the first move! .. Cant we have a both lean in sorta thing?

u said your bf is very shy, i really want to know how u both be together
mm...... if he's really very very shy, u should do the first move^^"
or maybe u can set a romantic background, push him to do sth.

if he's really shy then who made the first move to ask the other person out.
if he did, then just wait soon enough when he's ready he'll make the first move to kiss you
if you did, then this shouldn't be too hard to do, making the first move.
gather up the courage and plant one on him

yes go for it, kiss him first! good luck

Make the first move or....just be patient and wait....you can't really do anything about the fact that he's shy..

it is hard to make the first move but sometimes you just gotta go for it...

maybe when you say goodbye to him...kiss him on the lips....if he likes it he'll start making with you