I think its out of order my boyfriend told me its fine if I snog other guys I'm so confused What do I do?

Dear, this shouldn't be here.
This should be in either Relationships or the Girls' Locker.

Anyway, do you mean "snog" as in "snag"?
Otherwise, I don't know what you're asking..
If you mean get with other people at the same time, that's not a good idea.

"Snog" as in "make out," you know, kissing. It's a British-ism

^ Oh! Okay, thanks. I guess I should've looked at urbandictionary before posting. :P

What the heck? Snog? Hahahha what a cute word.

Topic Moved to Relationships
(Community Center > Relationships)

wth?! ur in a relationship and he is telling u its ok to make-out with other people? i dont get that at all...if u really dont like the idea talk to him about it, because to me that sounds really stupid

That's weird.

1) you could talk to him about how you feel.
2) or you break up with him because like this will prolly show that he "snogs" with other girls

omg snog??? i'm glad i read this book written by some british lady or i wouldnt have a clue as to what you were talking about...anyways if my man said i could kiss other dudes i would think he was really feelin me that much. he probably kissin other girls

haha i know what snog means...i love british slang. anyways, um yeah that is kinda odd...i'd talk to him about it and yeah it kinda sounds like an excuse for him to go snog other girls...

no. its wrong. hes might saying that because he does it.

nope, not okay to me. i kno if my bf went off and kissed sum1 else, i would kick his butt and tell him to explain himself, truthfully, and not some "we just fell on each other blah blah" crap. i believe that a kiss is something very special, and that it should be shared with some one you love.

i say no

Sounds like he doesn't care about it much...I don't know...but this might be a sign that he doesn't see your relationship with him as important...and he might be hinting a breakup?

uh...no if he tells you taht you can then he will too

that's just wrong, if he lets you do that maybe he's also doing it to other girls. talk to him about it

i don't think that's a very good bf, i mean i would get very jealous if my bf did that to another girl.

Wth? O_o. No I don't think so. Idk know why but it kinda sounds like he said that to you so that he could do that himself to some other girls. But then again I could be wrong. I just don't think it's right he said that.

lol if ur boyfriend lets u snog with other guys then obviously he isnt a very good boy friend now is he? dump him, get a better one ^_^.

i hope its not!

hmmm i dont think it would be ok if he allows that then he really dont care towards you that much i say break up with the jerk

.:tonY:.

that is one weird guy...

i dont know to either say he is secure.. or extremely insecure.... id have 2 meet him..... bot snogging with other guys.... he probably wants to catch u so he can dump u... i dunno..

He probably is already 'snogging' up anotehr women out there.

wtf. NO it is not okay. i really want to hear from someone that says it's okay.

Uhmm, no. That's kind of a red flag saying, "HEY! I'VE BEEN SCREWING/MAKING OUT WITH OTHER GIRLS!" BUt I'd probably take advantage of the opportunity.

If you like that sort of thing I don't care what you do.

haha then it would be time to rethink your relantionship

No no definately not. When you're in a relationship wih someone you shouldn't go snogging with other guys, it'll just give him areason to break up or to do the same with other girls. I would talk to him if it bothers you this much. And ask him why he said this.

a total no no

He's been snogging, shagging and any other 'ing' with other girls already. Dump him, move on.

^ He might be saying that because he's guilty of doing "those things" with other girls and he wants to say, "Well you can do it too!" I don't know how easy it is for you to just dump him, but I say you have a 1 on 1 with him and get to know him a bit better. If he thinks it's okay for you to snog other guys, maybe he's not ready for a REAL commitment.
It's good that you're not saying, "Oh cool!" and that you're actually analyzing the situation.

Hell to the no thats not okkk

what?? ur boyfriend is telling you that it's okay to makeout with other guys? whoa...thats not good. I would def consider dumping this guy. Because if he thinks that it's okay for u to be kissing other guys, then he probably is using that to justify that it's okay for him to be kissing other girls. Why would you want a boyfriend that would want either of those things? yeck! lol very much consider not being in this relationship

if he says its fine for you to "snog" other guys; it means he is probably snogging other girls. anyway, i voted no cause i would never tell my gf that it was ok to do anything with anyone else but me :) - i trust her so i dont have to worry

He's saying that because he just snogged another girl probably. Thats what people do, cover up for what they just did by saying its okay for everyone else to do it..

that is exactly what i was about to say!!!

i totally agree w/ this. This might be true or he was joking.

If you are comfortable with it then go ahead. If not, ask him why he wants you to make out with other boys.

mmm...he could feel that he's not good enough for you if he says that =\ I say no.

He is probably just saying this to you because he wants to "snog" with another girl or already did it. So no!

snog usually refers to make out, french, ect. (sry if someone else already explained)

hmm to me i think it means he doesnt care about you..

If it means make-out. THEN NO.

Aha. You must be British. The land of Earl Grey and snogging. "How do you do?"
Lol


I say it means he doesn't care, and that means he doesn't love you.

often, when we want our bf/gf to do smthn..but we dont wanna tel them we want them to do it. WE do it..and hope that they'd do the same

i think he just wants u to allow him to "snog" with other girls
but still..that is just soo wrong in every way possible.

Hes probably giving you approval to snog other guys so he won't feel so guilty about snogging other girls. Maybe?

maybe hes telling you its okay to snog, because he wants to snog. tell him how you feel. thats really weird tho...

uh NO. That's consider cheating. Feelings might develop & such.

flirting is okay with other guys. but snogging??!?!?! (it means kissing right) NO that is wrong!!!! no exceptions

That just weird.
Like Tina said...

QUOTE

flirting is okay with other guys. but snogging??!?!?! (it means kissing right) NO that is wrong!!!! no exceptions

Flirting is totally fine [I guess] but snogging is just plain NO. [Haha I just said what she said] Yes mayb he doesnt love you. I mean you can kiss anyone and a kiss is suposse to be special.