To patch my Uxtheme.dll all I do is run the patcher from Neowin, then restart my computer, and I can use themes, right? For those of you who don't know what I mean, the Uxtheme patcher patches the Uxtheme.dll in order to enable you to use Visual Styles such as this one:
http://www.deviantart.com/deviation/9240396/. And, do you guys think that this is safe? As long as I back up my old file. I know many people have done this without any problems.