My m8 had gone out with this guy for 3times already. Yes, they kept going out and split up, going out...n split up...3times. And apparently they are "friends" now. Recently, i noticed that they are becoming flirty to each other. Do you think my m8 should try out her 4th time?

ive done that before, my ex and i dated on and off for 4 years and we would be together for a lil bit then break up, then get back together, then break up and so on. after awhile it gets old. we eventually broke up for good, and now im engaged to someone else.

so i would just let them have the time together now while they have it and when its over, its over and they will know it.

shouldn't this be in relationships?

well they might try and get back together, since they've done that three times already. i have a friend that does that

I really wouldn't know, but maybe try for another time. But I myself probably wouldn't try after the 3rd time.. Like " If at first you don't succeed, try, try, and try again. "

i think this belongs in relationships.

it might work. it depends on how the break up(s) were.

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ive had the same problem turns out me and the guy went out for about the 7th time!!! its not worth it dont let her do it keep them as far away as possible. its going to be a patter (an on and off relationship) trust me

5times ive broken up -- its worth it [we're still together]

i just say if it doesnt work out the first time its probably not going to work out the second time. and if it does its not going to work out in the end.

Well... I don't know, they are both my good m8s.
I guess they are not doing any harm for each other so it's ok for them to hang on like that?

Bleh i would just try to move on and aviod him from keeping it going on and off like a light bulb.

I don't think she should give him another try because it'll just keep on being on and off...tell her to forget about him and move on...

If they keep finding reasons to break up with each other then they should go out at all. But you should probably let your friend make her own descisions.

Depends on your friend, really.

//I had a hard time understanding m8.

^ m8 = mate = friend. british txt speak

can i just say, this thread is about me.

I LOVE how this drama is EXACTLY the same like, a year later. helen, sez and i are just messing.. theres nothing serous going on, we both know that.

well finding this topic was odd.

As a person who actually knows this story, no. No, James, no.

This is odd.

And old. I just noticed that. But anyway. How did you even dig this bck up?

It really depends.Maybe it is worth it.

well helen wa son CB in class the other day. which made do a COMPLETE double take as i walked past her computer, and so i searched her posts

well..if they love each other, sure.

Ah. That's really strange. Have you said anything to her?


Do you read?

no. it's only going to drag the sarah/me thing back to the surface in the long run. and i'm more than happy to let it bubble away under the surface.

i love sarah, but not like that. in fact, i just gave her advice about what to do about some guy who asked her out again. see, she has a whole nother ex since me, and no one can let it go.

and yea, it is the psycho on ewho threatened to kill me with a bottle. which REALLY freaked rae out.