ha....just wondering cause i dont really want a girl that cusses more than i do..

Depends on how and when they're doin it
if its directed at me like " you f*ckin pu**y" then no.
but if its like " i want to f*ck u" then yes did that make sense?
and if its like " f*ck i stubbed my F*ckin toe!" then who cares

I personally think its a turn off when girls cuss. Maybe that's just me though. Lol.

I cuss, but not like most people. I do it conversationally. Like, it doesnt even come off as offensive. Most people dont notice it. Cuz I'm not like, hey you stupid F*CKER!!! What the F*CK were you not thinking you SH*THEAD!?!??! I'm like, dude, thats f*ckin cute I'm gonna tell my mom. Its like..did she just cuss? Yeah. I use em just like any other word. People are too scared of profanity. As long as you don't make yourself sound stupid, I think its okay no matter if you are male or female.

"dude thats f*ckin' cute im gonna tell my mom"


Ya why is it that we can cuss a lot but its like girls arent aloud to

I cuss a lot, I do it many times. But not in an appropriate way though. Hahaha. I believe that it's a part of everybody, it's not like you mean it, it just comes out right off your mouth. No one can help it. If you make a mistake, you just accidentally cuss. Also, it's not like it's against the law, you're not being deprived of your free will to do things you do. It's legitimate to say things, as long as you don't hurt anyone emotionally in the process. Hahahaha.


I don't know if guys think it's a turn off for them, but be realistic when you think about. The fact is, everyone does it, if not infront of your parents, then surely behind them. I have a high respect for both of my parents, that is also why I never cussed right in front of them.


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my friend was in my room and saw this. haha, she started rambling on about how unfair this all is. apparantly this signifies that guys are allowed to cuss and girls arent or something. oh well. i still say its a turn off when girls do ti excessively.

tha hekkk...why would anybody find cursing as a turn on? maybe rill derrty talk...but jus plain ol bad talk...that jus shows a lack of better words.

i have bad mouth. when im in school i cuss alot but not at around my house. I respect my mom and family alot. I know better

it isn't really a turn off or on. it just ... is.
i personally think it is funny!

I personally don't like it when they swear....but I can live with it..

i dont know... sometimes i say sh*t, and cr*p, is that considered cussing? i dont, but some do... but i dont say any of the otehr words. only once in a while... a long while...

I don't mind it. But I hate it when it's like every other damn word. It's like "I hate that mother f*cker son of a bitch. She such a stupid whore and that mother f*cked should be f*cked up her f*cking ass." You know.. It just gets annoying. My friend (aka my sister since we've been friends for forever) has a friend like that. It's soooo annoying. And get this... HER NAME IS ANGEL! Right.... She's pretty ugly, too. Not to be mean.

it's annoying when people use it casually, or just as a common exclamation.

it really is a turn-off for me i guess. i like clean innocent girls cos they're so cute. ^-^ like i said before, it just shows that they lack knowledge of better words, or they aren't refined enough. = \ if they're actually talking about the f-verb synonymous to "romp" or organic waste, i don't mind the language; but such expletives are totally unnecessary.

I think its funny how they talk about other peoples mamas. I never heard a girl say taht stuff before.

Ya they are cute, if i had a choice between a girl that curses alot and a girl that doesnt id pick a girl that doesn't. what do girls think about guys who curse alot?

i dont swear, personally i dont mind if the female swears as long they dont overuse it, or use it in front of my family. (bad impression with the parents)

If you're with a friend relating a story that includes say, an unfortunate incident and you say, 'That's fukked!' ...nothing wrong at all with that because the use of profanity in that manner is just a normal response. Yes, you could just as easily say, 'That's awful!' but its been a normal response to use profanity in certain situations for a very, very long time, regardless of your gender.

Please remember that it was the tite-ass WASP rulers that set the agenda for women, laying down ridiculous social values that they females were supposed to adhere to and which many in the Conservative Christian Right (US Government) would like to return to; but of course the 'rules' were different for men. The emasculation of women, especially from the 1960's onwards changed all of that.

People that deliberately swear in an aggressive manner in public are just pathetic attention whores. By coincidence it tends to be chav scum teens and will just as likely be girls as it will be guys, because they are uneducated trash that can only justify their existences via excessive displays of really boorish behaviour: bad language, provocation and fighting, public drunkenness, lewd and disgusting behaviour, etc.


If its in a private establishment such as a bar or club...who cares? But in public in front of parents with kids. Just foul.

Girls using words with sexual connotations in a sexually provocative manner to elicit a response from their partner, male or female, is an incredible turn on and is completely appropriate. That I luv!!


Peace Out

i swear quite a bit, but not like "you sh*thead, get the f*ck back here, i'm gonna kick the f*cking sh*t out of you, you b*tch!"

im a girl and cuss quite a bit only when im pissed other than that no. haha. but when guys cuss excessively its a turn off. everyone cusses nowadays. i think its ok if you cuss as long as it isnt too much.

Well, I don't really swear a lot... I'm so innocent like that. <33

Mehh. I don't care. I don't cuss that much.

The most profanity I use is when I'm typing. I was raised to be a gentlemen so I try to hold my tongue to prevent any obscenities around girls. If a girl does it, its not so mucha turnoff, its just unladylike. If she doesn't, great. If she does from to time to time, even better; it lets me know she's human.

Well, is natural, people can't help themselves when things come out of their mouth. If she's doing it frequently and is hurting someone, that is a TURN OFF..., and other than that how she is, you can't change a person...

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I make my posts waaay too long the bottom line was:

"I don't like ppl who cuss, i don't cuss, and I don't care what gender you are it's a complete turn off. And if you cuss infront of my mom and dad I will kill you."

well it depends how she is...like some people only curse to look "cool"

well i dont cuss at least not anymore i quit around middle school cause i didnt want it to become a bad habit or anything.

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who cares... i mean everyone curses now and again, but if someone curses in every sentence or every other word all the time.. its a bit wierd.

I cuss sometimes. But only when i'm really mad/excited, though.
I don't get it though! At my school if a girl cusses, people are all like, "OOOH!! Watch your language!" But when a guy does it, no one cares. It's stupid.

i curse alot...alot alot. Its a bad habit but some guys think its alright

...girls aren't allowed to? uhoh.

i curse a lot...or at least i used to. i still curse more than most girls i THINK.
i hang out with a bunch of guys a lot because most of my girl friends dont have my frees or lunch period. i used to curse a LOT, until a bunch of them really came up to me and told me that they'd appreciate it if i didn't do it as much. i think it bothered them, or just annoyed them, i dunno which. but i figured i'd stop anyway, because it's not exactly like its a great thing to always do. i cursed in front of my teachers wayyy too many times.

i really don't care at all >.< i mean, prolly 95% of the people in my school cusses..u can't help it..i tried to stop cussing, but I just can't help saying bad words..it just comes right out of my mouth witout me even noticing it.. I don't cuss A LOT A LOT, i cuss sometimes when i'm pissed or i hurt myself haha or sometimes, i'm playing around wit my friends like:

Friend:"can u do something for me pls?"
Me: "yesh, sure!"
"Friend:wait, wat site is it again?"
Me:"*gives the link*"
Friend:"oh okay, i'll do it"
Me:"no, i'll do it, b*tch!"
Friend:"no sh*t, i'll do it u b**tch!"

haha we both kno we're playing around tho.. i only do ^that to my close frends

It depends, i wouldn't want my bf saying, "you f**king hoe" "or f**k you [insert racial insult here]". But then a bf that doesn't say "f**k" is a wierd bf.

I curse every f**king second.





Oops


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Don't really want my girl sounding like Patches O'Houlihan. I'm afraid she'll then throw a wrench at me.

i don't like for a girl cursing more than I do. It's improper for a girl to curse. That's just my opinion. Peace out!

hm interesting question...like some have said, if one swears to be "cool" or something stupid like that then obviously not...otherwise whatever...if it gets EXTREMELY excessive, then thats a bit much, but meh. i tend to curse a lot too...depends on my mood.

See what i mean.^
why is it improper who made that rule?

Our foul language is only foul through the evolution of linguistics.

Example: Damn. (the damned, eternal damnation, damn! [as a playful exclamation {1700s}])

As a kid, I would get pinched, popped, scolded, etc for saying it. But little by little, the word isn't being looked at as such a horrible thing.

f**k was once a word that meant you did something with force. (Oh its done with force alright ). Now, the word is just as foul as Chewbaccas bathroom.

Personally, foul language of any kind is 'improper,' but, enter the logistics. So, who's to say whats improper or whats not?

Brandon, that's a very well iterated argument for the purity of language from an objective point of view and I applaud you for it.

But from an everyday subjective point of view, unless ones family and friends are all chav scum that use "fuckk, cuntt, motherf**ker" etc. as often as they do the words "the, it, and" etc. in public, society will not find it acceptable. It shows a lack of self respect as well as respect for others.

Use of expletives is common place and this is as you stated due to the evolution of language, but that does not excuse people to use any language they want to use in any given situation; if you're out with your family and you walk past a group loudly swearing, obviously for the sake of it, for attention, don't you just feel disgusted? I do.

Here in the UK they are finally introducing legislation which means that groups congregating in Malls will be ejected for acting in this manner in addition to not being allowed to wear baseball caps with hoodies pulled up to deliberately hide their faces from CCTV while they wreak havoc.

About time too!

Sexually suggestive language is very, very erotic in the bedroom tho!!


Peace Out

Hmm I don't really care if girls cuss once in a while but if they do it all the time and say the word N*G*A all the time thats just wrong.

who cares =)

I agree with you completely, and I wish that same legislation was introduced here in the US. My response was merely for the sake of debate. But, nevertheless, I get where you're coming from and I agree 100%

I love cussing honestly? "I swear if you f*cking gleak on me I will kick you in the f*cking balls?" That's something I might say ... or "Back the f*ck off me you dumb hoe" Lol... AL0T of the times I'm cussing they know I am joking, because that's just me.

A girl screaming f**k me f**k ME, is so overrated. Sadists.

i don't really cuss. especially not in front of my parents. i just say hell, crap, damn, shit...only those words really. but this is when im really really really mad. i dont even say that in front of my parents. hehe im so innocent

Who designated ''cuss'' words so bad, honestly what is so bad about them?

i curse all the f**king time....too bad if i boy doesnt like it because i refuse to change for anybody but myself and God