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d0nchikit0
Is it weird for a guy to be good friends with a girl? Like... they burp together, laugh at each other, like the same types of music, etc.? I mean.. but not like the girl.. as having some type of crush, just as friends? Because This girl is my friend and we do alot of things together.. but people think we are going out because we are always together, and once in a while we kiss.. not make out... Is that weird? I need a girl's point of view..
_sarcastic_
no i don't think it's weird. i have a guy best friend and i have a bf, my guy bestfriend and i do stuff together most of the time cept for the kissing bit. my bf is kinda fine with it i think.
winterzflamez88
i was gonna say it's normal because i no a lot of ppl like that, just a friendship between a boy and a girl... but wen u sed u kissed.... that seems weird. it sounds like friends with benefits 2 me.

r u sure u 2 hav absolutely no feelings 4 each other? cz that wuld definitly b frends with benefits, like u just mess around but stay friends.
d0nchikit0
Well... not us two.. I don't.. I don't know about her.. I mean, last time I told her I was going to the movies with some other girl, she had a mad look on her face so I don't know.. all my friends tell me I should definitely go out with her but I seriously don't think of her like that I don't know why..
..:loveee.NuTTii
^Maybe she's just looking out for you????
Anyway, I don't find it weird that guys have best friends that are girls. This one girl I know has a guy friend and whenever they leave school, they'll yell "I love you" to each other from across the hallway. It just cracks them up. And she's kind of possesive, like if he meets a girl, she'll want to know everything about her.....
or heck-maybe she does like you.
No1_2_NoBody13
ok so the kiss thing is werid...but for the other part no...its not werid...im like that with all my guy friends...to be honest they tell me things i dont even ask about....and one time they forgot that i was a girl and everything so i would say no it not werid....just the kiss thing blink.gif
laur3nw
I don't think it's weird, but where do you kiss her? on the lips or just the cheek?
And when you mentioned up there how she had a mad look on her face when you said you were going to the movies w/ another girl, maybe she kinda does like you. Maybe she feels like you're leading her on because of the kissing. I dunno..
d0nchikit0
QUOTE(laur3nw @ May 8 2005, 2:06 PM)
I don't think it's weird, but where do you kiss her? on the lips or just the cheek?
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Lips but no tongue or anything lol Like playing around we do it... It's hard to explain lol
suddenly she
QUOTE(..:loveee.NuTTii @ May 8 2005, 12:39 PM)
This one girl I know has a guy friend and whenever they leave school, they'll yell "I love you" to each other from across the hallway.  It just cracks them up.  And she's kind of possesive, like if he meets a girl, she'll want to know everything about her.....
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that was like me and my "half-ex (it's a long story)" last year. mellow.gif now that i think of it, i really miss him. _unsure.gif

the kissing part is the only weird part. and if she likes it.. well then yeah, she probably likes you.
brand0n
no thers nothing wrong with it!

my best friend is also a grl..but the kissing thing..? -_-
sammi rules you
you guys are gonna end up togetherrrrr. do ittttt. :]
KELLYYY
QUOTE(d0nchikit0 @ May 8 2005, 11:00 AM)
Well... not us two.. I don't.. I don't know about her.. I mean, last time I told her I was going to the movies with some other girl, she had a mad look on her face so I don't know.. all my friends tell me I should definitely go out with her but I seriously don't think of her like that I don't know why..
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*coughcough* She's jealous. You should go out with her, I mean, yall kiss. GO OUT WITH HER.
IamRad
of course is not weird. i have friends like that _smile.gif
SandRAWRz
it is not werid...it is just innocent friend fun
megan_x3
not really.. before i had a really tight guy friend that i always talk to on the phone and always hand around during break time in school.. but i never do that again because im not great friend with him... had a fight and is ok with him right now .... but its not bad or anything if you have a best girl friend.. thats normal .. wats wrong with it ?!?! shifty.gif
lovescream
I think it's okay. but I'm not sure if friends kiss or not. _unsure.gif but I guess some do. you two sound so cute together.. heh.
I'm guessing it's normal. dont mind what people think. they just probably haevn't seen a girl and a boy being friends. I think it's a gift to have a friend as the opposite gender. I dont know why. i'm just weird like that. happy.gif
HoodieObsessed
QUOTE(winterzflamez88 @ May 8 2005, 7:54 AM)
i was gonna say it's normal because i no a lot of ppl like that, just a friendship between a boy and a girl... but wen u sed u kissed.... that seems weird.  it sounds like friends with benefits 2 me. 

r u sure u 2 hav absolutely no feelings 4 each other?  cz that wuld definitly b frends with benefits, like u just mess around but stay friends.
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yaya, I Agree, kissing is a little beyond freinds in my opinion...I mean for a boy and a girl, for a girl and girl to jsut kiss each other on the cheek is fine as freinds, but if you are like kissing lips? that's a little different... wacko.gif
sweet_devil
i think its normal, my best friend used to be a guy, and when I was younger i used to hang out with guys a lot more because i went to a british school where all the girls were like really girly...the guys were more fun...
Shattered_Hope
You two sound like close friends...up until the part where you two occasionally kiss.... mellow.gif
pinkd0tcom
I have a female friend who is in the same situation, cept they don't kiss. I think it's perfectly fine. Other people, however.. tend to start rumours and so on.
angelshortipnai
like every1 else said, its fine, but i have no idea about the kissing part
angelrevelation
all that stuff is normal except for the kissing thing blink.gif
dani41790
I don't think your friendship is weird but I think the kiss part is O_o. Um one question, how come you kiss her when you don't have feelings for her in that way? If it's a kiss on the cheek then yeah ok but the lips? then thats a little strange.
i_love_billie_joe
no thats cool, i really want a guy friend like that. i dont have any guy friends only chick friends ermm.gif
pingpang_0811
it's not weird of guys be friend with girls. but............... kiss.. huh.. what kinds of kiss? just cheeks or??? french kiss?? if yes... yea, that's weird.
sheepy
you guys sound sweet. but.. the kissing?
laur3nw
I think she became attatched to you, and already developed feelings for you so when you're kissing her, it just leads her on even more...
xoxvietbabyy
I think it's perfectly normal and better that way because sometimes girls need to let loose, but can't tell another girl how they hate something, because the other girl with probably bash at her thoughts. Where as with a guy he won't. I think..
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