so last night my boyfriend and i had sex for the first time [for both of us]. we had this planned out. at first it was kind of akward because i had to keep on contemplating over whether or not to actually do it. i was telling him how i bet it is going to hurt like people say and that i am going to be sore. we laughed and had fun in the beginning.. just it took an HOUR and half way into it my dad got home [we were in my room]. and my dad was calling out my name like two times and i had to let go and answer him without going outside my room. so we had to move to a different location in my room because my bed made too much noise [waterbed]. i dont know about you, but after having it.. i don't know why people are all so quiet about sex. even though i choke up if i try and say "i'm not a virgin." even though i was the girl in school who was always like "i'm staying a virgin till marriage!!" sex didn't hurt.. nor did it feel soooooooo "good". basically i was just waiting an hour.. for him to be done. i thought i was going to cry or something just because how i viewed virginity.. but i didnt. not even sad. is it wrong that i am just throwing this sex between my boyfriend and i over my head and forgetting about it? i have a feeling we won't be doing it again. he got tired inbetween [haha] and since it took so long.. i dont know. i wouldn't say no, just it was just so borinnng.
can anyone relate to me on what happened last night?

i love how you made your first post bout having sex with your bf.
but anyways, no i haven't had sex yet. but i don't think you should just completely forget bout the sex you had with your bf

well i have another screen name that i used alot.. many many posts. i just wanted this to be private without people knowing it was me. [17-f]

if it was boring then why did you continue?

i can't just say, ehhh stop your body is boring me. talk about a slap in the face! i basically did it because i love him to death and i always do things for people before i think of myself. not saying that giving him my virginity was something on those lines.

alot of people i have talked to has said that sex ruined their relationship [same age or younger than me]. i am feeling a little akward, but i still love him.. gah so confused
:sorry double posted: might as well use it well

ooh ok sorry my bad

o wow...i talked about sex to my friend since he lost it already and he said there's no point of waiting so long to lose your virginity cause its NOTHING.

that is how i am feeling now. crazy how i did a 180.

its fine if you talk bout it but just dont brag about it. U dont want to have a bad rep in school.
Idk, I think you should have waited but thts just me. Just dont crash and burn if he gon leave.

my boyfriend would never tell other people and be a pig. we were best friends at the beginning before going out so we know everything about eachother and what we would do and not do. i'm in 11th grade and he is in 12th. so we are mature to know what is wrong. especially me, i highly doubt we will have sex again. it took about an hour for me to decide when he was at my house. just sitting and thinking about it. sex is not something to brag about, and i hope i didn't come off that way. makes me barf =x

Well..for starters..really, is having sex such a big deal? Of course, the first time it'd be awkward a bit but still..o.O

no, it's not wrong to just not worry about having sex for the first time...IMO. i can't relate because i am still a virgin but it seems like you have everything under control but please...be careful.

the first, second and third time are quite akward. but the fourth time won't be because you've had three practices. =P