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HoodieObsessed
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Well, I used to have this problem where I was too embarrised to ask my mom for bras. well, I got over that a week ago and asked her, she understood and we went shopping.

First we went to zellers, I fit one of the A girls bras alright...but it wasn't perfect. all the adult bras the cups were too big for me.

So we went to the bay and couldn't find anything, so eventually I got up the courage and asked a employee if they had any AA bras, or anything they might thing owuld fit me. So she measured me and went around finding all the AA bras they had. About 30, or maybe less, maybe more like 20, I donno, I didn't count. So I tried them all on. Same problem. The adult ones were jsut too big in the boobs...like they jsut weren't shaped right, and the kids ones were much better but there wasn't much to choose from and the ones I got to try on were either slightly too big, extremely ugly, or jsut uncomfertable. One of htem was actually defective cause one of hte straps was twisted, but the other one wasn't huh.gif . well, I didn't like that one anyway so I don't care.

We spent like 2 hours at zellers and 3 hours at the bay. nothing. I went home and jsut cried for like 5 hours. And I'm still crying...kinda on and off. i'ts horrilbe. some are jsut soo close...but there's not nearly enough selection in the kids bras! ...

...so I guess my question is...where is a good place to try? or..have oyu had this problem? sad.gif

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apple.
omfg, try...lesensa girl..hehe i used to go there ^^
they have nice ones..but umm..if you can't find a bra your size..maybe you don't need one yet? blink.gif
jiaho93
OMG, I have the exact same problem!! I can't find small enough bras ANYWHERE. I do need them though, so it kind of stinks. pinch.gif
HoodieObsessed
QUOTE(xSonia @ May 7 2005, 11:08 AM)
omfg, try...lesensa girl..hehe i used to go there ^^
they have nice ones..but umm..if you can't find a bra your size..maybe you don't need one yet?  blink.gif
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hmm, I'll try lesenza girl...although I mgith feel kinda stupid walking around in a little kids store pinch.gif

And I do need a bra..my boobs ARE there, and they ARE noticible when I don't wear a bra...especially in my close fitting choir uniform pinch.gif dammit, stupid uniform mad.gif it's low cut so I need a low cut bra, otherwise I'd jsut wear the sports bras I have now. *sigh*

My boobs are big enough I want bras, and jsut small enough that hardly anything fits me sad.gif

I'm 14 too dammit... cry.gif

my mom had exactly the same problem...why couldn't I inherit my boobs from ym dad's side?! stubborn.gif

QUOTE(jiaho93 @ May 7 2005, 11:11 AM)
OMG, I have the exact same problem!!  I can't find small enough bras ANYWHERE.  I do need them though, so it kind of stinks.  pinch.gif
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awesome, I ahve someone to relate to, YAY! _smile.gif

That made me happpy.

Although I'm not quite sure why someone else suffering makes me happy huh.gif hmmm

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well, I guess I'll jsut have to continue my search sad.gif maybe if I mow the lawn my mom'll want to go shoppign with me again shifty.gif
iheartsimba
hm...maybe you don't need one? Not wearing a bra is great =] I wish I could do that lol.

So wait, why can't you wear kids? Who needs an adult one if they dont fit anyhow...and maybe you don't know your size. Next time you go shopping ask an employee to measure you. They can find your perfect number and cup so easily, and help you out.

Anyway. I don't go to much beyond Vicky's. Well actually a few days ago, I got one from macy's. It fits really well _smile.gif

//edit// Just saw your new post..
So you HAVE boobs...but a double A is too big? Gosh..Idk. I still suggest getting measured. And I know Victoria Secret has bra's that are a bit for younger people, not much padding or anyhting, and they are lowcut. I don't know if there sizes range much in the AA's _unsure.gif
HoodieObsessed
QUOTE(iheartsimba @ May 7 2005, 11:15 AM)
hm...maybe you don't need one? Not wearing a bra is great =] I wish I could do that lol.

So wait, why can't you wear kids? Who needs an adult one if they dont fit anyhow...and maybe you don't know your size. Next time you go shopping ask an employee to measure you. They can find your perfect number and cup so easily, and help you out.

Anyway. I don't go to much beyond Vicky's. Well actually a few days ago, I got one from macy's. It fits really well _smile.gif
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as I said, I did ask some one...and she was okay...but she didn't pick out the nicest bras in the world, hmmm...

...I DO want to wear kids bras, but not the ones that have lace all over them and are like see through pinch.gif and my rib cage is bigger than alto of kids bras, I'm jsut so messed up mellow.gif and the sotres I went to hardly had ANY kids bras to chose from.

I think I should have been born a boy sad.gif

EDIT

Just saw your edit, lol, and I'll try victorias...if I ever get my mom to go shopping with me again _unsure.gif the last trip was kinda a bummer. _dry.gif
winterzflamez88
Whoa, I'm EXACTLY the same!!! Like, I can't fit into cup sizes, but i definitly do need 2 wear bra. I'v bn wearin kids sizes but they're gettin way 2 small. I think mayb limited too wuld hav sum, or mayb get sum soft cups.... i duno, i'm goin' shopping for new ones today, i'll tel u how it goes.

i'm 14. i think i'm like a 32AA or 32 A or sumthin
BELLA_RAGAZZA
just try wearing a sports bra if your not ready for adult sizes?
angelluves2rock
dont worry..sum day itll fit u
HoodieObsessed
QUOTE(winterzflamez88 @ May 7 2005, 2:57 PM)
Whoa, I'm EXACTLY the same!!!  Like, I can't fit into cup sizes, but i definitly do need 2 wear bra.  I'v bn wearin kids sizes but they're gettin way 2 small.  I think mayb limited too wuld hav sum, or mayb get sum soft cups.... i duno, i'm goin' shopping for new ones today, i'll tel u how it goes.

i'm 14.  i think i'm like a 32AA or 32 A or sumthin
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yay, another poor soul like me _smile.gif


I'm not the only one throb.gif

and unfortunatly I cant' go shopping today cause my mom jsut came back from a concert she watched and sh'es not up fer shopping, and tomorow I have a choir proformance (wearing our ulternative high cut costume thank god...I do have a bra for the low cut one but I hate it and ti's uncomfertable pinch.gif ) so I can't go then..I'll probably end up going on monday, but I'm gonna be more thorough looking for bras, I think asking an employee was a good thing to do, causr they find stuff way faster than I do _smile.gif
XxLipstickRomance
Yeah, maybe you should try sports bras. I guess you could get a custom made bra. It would probably be way too expensive, but you'd have a bra that fits you right and you'd be comfortable in(?)
--x who0ps
QUOTE(HoodieObsessed @ May 7 2005, 10:44 AM)
I got to try on were either slightly too big, extremely ugly, or jsut uncomfertable.
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^ uhmm, well why does it matter if it's extremely ugly? no one's going to go under and see it right? pinch.gif


but anyways, i buy mines at walmart biggrin.gif
they're cheap =]

and maybe you should try sport bras? i think they'll fit anyone, as long as..your chest isn't like a hole or something o_o
Just_Dream
QUOTE(winterzflamez88 @ May 7 2005, 2:57 PM)
i'm 14.  i think i'm like a 32AA or 32 A or sumthin
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I've been a 32A for the past 4 years. mellow.gif pinch.gif

... Anyways hmm.. HoodieObsessed, try strechy soft bras... not those pointy shaped ones. The shaped ones might be too big. Or you could always try push up bras, which are padded, thus when youe ar them, they're more comfortable because they feel smaller than regular bras when youe ar them, but look normal.. or well that's how mines are. I usually don't wear that many shaped bras, but ones that are soft and yea.. You know what I mean lol.

I'm pretty flat, but I'm still able to find bras. How tall are you, anyways? I guess it depends because also your chest size as well as measuring under your chest. IDK how to explain it, but there's a way in which it might not fit. Yea you should try victoria's secret. :]
HoodieObsessed
QUOTE(--x who0ps @ May 7 2005, 5:01 PM)


^ uhmm, well why does it matter if it's extremely ugly? no one's going to go under and see it right?  pinch.gif
but anyways, i buy mines at walmart  biggrin.gif
they're cheap =]

and maybe you should try sport bras? i think they'll fit anyone, as long as..your chest isn't like a hole or something o_o

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haha, lol, ya, I DO wear sports bras, tha'ts what I'm wearing right now, but I need something low cut for my choir uniform, and our choir often changes in one giant room all together..so I don't want something that's god ugly. mellow.gif but I've got two weeks till my trip with my choir and I homeschool which means more tiem for shopping so I should be able to get some by then _unsure.gif I hope I hope I hope lesenza girl has something, or la senza or silk & satin. if they don't that would be a bummer. stubborn.gif

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aera
department stores should have some... maybe places like hechts, target, kohls, basement... limited too should have some. i used to go there and they had some. im pretty sure kohls, hechts, and basement have some.
HoodieObsessed
QUOTE(akinachan @ May 7 2005, 5:29 PM)
department stores should have some... maybe places like hechts, target, kohls, basement... limited too should have some. i used to go there and they had some. im pretty sure kohls, hechts, and basement have some.
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eh, ya, thanks for the thought but I don't have any of those stors near me, and I live in canada and I think a few of those stores are only in the u.s.? hmmm, I'm pretty sure there's a Target somewhere around here tho...
crazybabii412
try a push-up bra in a AA size. i'm not quite a full A, but i fit perfectly into a 32 A push-up. i use "lily of france" or something
zurhibaku
Well maybe you can improvize and use bikini tops. I did that when bras didn't fit me.
Mireh
try the ones at limited too

i used to buy bras from there, believe it or not.
Just_Dream
QUOTE(crazybabii412 @ May 7 2005, 6:51 PM)
try a push-up bra in a AA size.  i'm not quite a full A, but i fit perfectly into a 32 A push-up.  i use "lily of france" or something
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^ Wait wait wait.. what's the difference between A and AA? o___o
HoodieObsessed
QUOTE(Just_Dream @ May 7 2005, 9:08 PM)
^ Wait wait wait.. what's the difference between A and AA? o___o
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lol, AA is smaller biggrin.gif an AA in girls is too small for me...ti' shard to imaging anything too small for me but it is, it must be for practically flat chested girls blink.gif but A in girls works, and AA in womans is too big usually pinch.gif like not really too big but...jsut wrong...like it's shaped weird...with the top bigger or something and like what? I donno, I jsut don't fit it, weird. but it could be jsut the one I tried on were like that.

---^ I'll try a push up bra, thanks for hte suggestion _smile.gif

QUOTE(zurhibaku @ May 7 2005, 7:24 PM)
Well maybe you can improvize and use bikini tops. I did that when bras didn't fit me.
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lol, awesome, maybe I should. hah, but thne ofcourse they tie behind your neck so wodln't that be kinda obvius? _unsure.gif anyway, I wanna buy a new swimsuit soon, like a bikini top and boardshorts probably, so I'll try that. biggrin.gif
misoshiru
yes christina, there is a difference.

i'm not sure. you could try victoria's secret. yeah, and as mireh said, limited too has bras there too. i heard the gap body ones are ok. or the calvin klein ones.
WhiteLotus*
Try Limited Too. They have bras for smaller sizes.
misoshiru
QUOTE(HoodieObsessed @ May 8 2005, 1:13 PM)
lol, awesome, maybe I should. hah, but thne ofcourse they tie behind your neck so wodln't that be kinda obvius?  _unsure.gif  anyway, I wanna buy a new swimsuit soon, like a bikini top and boardshorts probably, so I'll try that.  biggrin.gif
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a lot of people at my school wear bikini tops as bras. and theres also kinds that they sell in taiwan which are kind of like bikini tops, but are actually bras, except they tie behind your neck. think of it as 'stylish'
teeners4
there's double AA? well personally i think people who are A or lower don't need to wear bras.

but thats a personal opinion. well dont stick with sports bras. i heard they make your boobs smaller or keep them from growing

yea get them to measure you and tell them you dont want lacey materials and you prefer low cut.

so they wont give you all the ugly ones

i really love la senza!
winterzflamez88
Heyy i was one of the grls with the same problem as u (can't fit into cup sizes)!!!

I just went shopping @ kohls yesterday and i still culdn't find ne. i went 2 the kids section the bras were exactly the same as those in the other kids sections in other stores. but i tried sum on neway. none of them fit. like if i raise my arms up, the cups wuld slide up n only cover half my chest, and thats exactly wut i DONT want. even the biggest one there did that, and i duno if it's cz the bras r still 2 small, or 2 big now. so i walked out the store agen with nothing and started 2 cry. i no, its like a pretty stupid reason 2 cry, but i dont c how mostly every1 else out there can find the right ones and i cant.

and 4 the ppl saying that A sized ppl dont need 2 wear a bra, its not exactly tru, we still need them. even tho our boobs r smaller, doesn't mean that they're not there. wen we run, they still bounce, if we wear a tshirt w/o a bra, the nipples'll still stick out. we dont need as much support as the bigger chested, but that doesnt mean we dont need ne support at all.

gosh, i hope that didn't sound like i was yelling or nething, i'm just feelin' sad.gif rite now. i feel so pathetic ovr not bein able 2 find a bra cry.gif
Mulder
u could always by those "in between bras". i had to start on those when i was smaller than a AA. so embarassing... pinch.gif most of the time i just didnt bother.
jue
i would say maybe try some stores like gap; old navy; and those stuff.
or maybe get a customed made one jsut for you
IamRad
LIMITED TOOOOOOO! umm kohls? they have a kids section.. hmm what else...
brand0n
I HAVE SIZE Z BOOBS!! I CANT FIND A BRA EITHER!! I FEEL UR PAIN!!
Shortiiex
i went to victoria secret a few times and i got AA...but they rarely have that now...or you can go to victoria's secret so they can measure you and find you the perfect size they have
trainspotting0116
amazing, ive sorta got the same problem. im almost 15 and im 5'8, and i like have nothing, ive too much not to wear a bra, but i dont fill out most bras properly. i just find olga A or AA push up/ padded. those fit nicey.

the worst part is, i look pretty old for my age, i pass for 18, but not having any boobs is wayy difficult.
HoodieObsessed
QUOTE(winterzflamez88 @ May 8 2005, 6:25 AM)
Heyy i was one of the grls with the same problem as u (can't fit into cup sizes)!!!

I just went shopping @ kohls yesterday and i still culdn't find ne.  i went 2 the kids section the bras were exactly the same as those in the other kids sections in other stores.  but i tried sum on neway.  none of them fit.  like if i raise my arms up, the cups wuld slide up n only cover half my chest, and thats exactly wut i DONT want.  even the biggest one there did that, and i duno if it's cz the bras r still 2 small, or 2 big now.  so i walked out the store agen with nothing and started 2 cry.  i no, its like a pretty stupid reason 2 cry, but i dont c how mostly every1 else out there can find the right ones and i cant. 

and 4 the ppl saying that A sized ppl dont need 2 wear a bra, its not exactly tru, we still need them.  even tho our boobs r smaller, doesn't mean that they're not there.  wen we run, they still bounce, if we wear a tshirt w/o a bra, the nipples'll still stick out.  we dont need as much support as the bigger chested, but that doesnt mean we dont need ne support at all. 

gosh, i hope that didn't sound like i was yelling or nething, i'm just feelin'  sad.gif  rite now. i feel so pathetic ovr not bein able 2 find a bra  cry.gif
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omg, that sounded like you jsut told the whole story of my life, that is EXACTLY the way I feel, I couldn't ahve said it better sad.gif

I'm going to try some more places tomorow for bras and if I find any I like I'll be sure to tell you. But just to let you know, if you don't need anything low cut I love the JoeBoxer sport bras. like they arn't really sport bras, they are like cut tanks, you know what I mean. but they work really well for me, if I didn't need something low cut I'd probably jsut buy more of those. But I donno where you live but I buy those at The Bay? I donno if tha'ts in the united states too or not, might jsut be a canadian thing, but ya...you could try that. *sigh* so complicated for us, everyone else gets it so easy sad.gif damn my stupid boobs. damn damn damn.

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P.S. I dont' think there is a Limited Too in canada, I wish there was _dry.gif
winterzflamez88
Heyy i found one that's pretty good, it's here:

http://www.kohls.com/products/product_page...D=1115680151346

they have it in a lot of other brands too, mine's lily of france, but its pretty much the same. yea, softcups r the way 2 go! they're at walmart and kohl's @ kids dept. but i duno if u found 1 alredy. this one's prolly OK 4 low cut
aznxdreamer
i think they have bras at limited too...i dno. i never shop there i was just walking by and i saw some bras. try victorias secrets or somewhere that specializes in bras because then theres a wider selection.
HoodieObsessed
QUOTE(winterzflamez88 @ May 9 2005, 3:12 PM)
Heyy i found one that's pretty good, it's here:

http://www.kohls.com/products/product_page...D=1115680151346

they have it in a lot of other brands too, mine's lily of france, but its pretty much the same.  yea, softcups r the way 2 go!  they're at walmart and kohl's @ kids dept.  but i duno if u found 1 alredy.  this one's prolly OK 4 low cut
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awesome, that looks pretty nice. I havn't tried walmart yet, I'll put that on my list of stores to try.

and dang it my mom didn't wanna go shopping today cause she has to get ready for visiters tomorow, so I'm gonna ahve to wait till wenesday or thrusday pinch.gif nways, I will update if I find anything. _smile.gif

QUOTE(aznxdreamer @ May 9 2005, 3:21 PM)
i think they have bras at limited too...i dno. i never shop there i was just walking by and i saw some bras. try victorias secrets or somewhere that specializes in bras because then theres a wider selection.
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ya, tha'ts what I told my mom when she didn't want to go to la senza I'm like "well they specialize in bras so they probalby have more choices" and she's like "NO, all the stores HAVE EXACTLY the same bras, if you can't fidn anything in zellers, than they wont' ahve anything for you EITHER"

*snort*

this is why my mom doens't wear bras hehe.gif

lmao
HoodieObsessed
SPAM!

*cough* ahem *cough* sorry for uhh spamming but you see if I jsut edited the reply above than no one would every see this, and it's important! showoff.gif

Forgive me cry.gif

I finally got some that fit me!!!! WHEEEEEEE
I got em from La Senza girl! I checked out la senza and silk & satin first and soem of the A's got really really close but they were just this much l l too big. so IW ent to la senza girl and tried on some AA bras, the first two were too big, I dono why, it was jsut the wrong...style...so uhh, I finalyl found two that fit alright!! they are SLIGHTLY too big for me but you really can't tell, I mean they fit but if they were a bit smaller it would still fit, get what I mean?

anyway, jsut really wanted to say that...I'm SOOOOOO happyy!!!! I don't think Iv'e been happeir in my life...really...I can't stop smilling I'm like so incredibluy happy nothing can fase me! and I'm lookign forward to going shopping with my freind saturday casue I won't be afraid to change in the same change room with her (which is always fun shifty.gif ) cause my bras look nice. lol. heheheheh, I LOOOOOVe LIFE!!

WHHHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE biggrin.gif biggrin.gif biggrin.gif biggrin.gif

:satisfied:
xoxvietbabyy
Congratulations? Lol. Anyways since you've already found it, but I was going to suggest La Senza girl..
IamRad
QUOTE(crazybabii412 @ May 7 2005, 9:51 PM)
try a push-up bra in a AA size.  i'm not quite a full A, but i fit perfectly into a 32 A push-up.  i use "lily of france" or something
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i wear lily of france. they make my boobs bigger hahaha. but it doesnt really 'push them up or whatever.

try wearing camis instead? they make camis with padding, so it should fit u. u can try any stores macys jc penny etc. for those
winterzflamez88
QUOTE(HoodieObsessed @ May 11 2005, 7:30 PM)
SPAM!

*cough* ahem *cough* sorry for uhh spamming but you see if I jsut edited the reply above than no one would every see this, and it's important! showoff.gif

Forgive me  cry.gif

I finally got some that fit me!!!! WHEEEEEEE
I got em from La Senza girl! I checked out la senza and silk & satin first and soem of the A's got really really close but they were just this much l l too big. so IW ent to la senza girl and tried on some AA bras, the first two were too big, I dono why, it was jsut the wrong...style...so uhh, I finalyl found two that fit alright!! they are SLIGHTLY too big for me but you really can't tell, I mean they fit but if they were a bit smaller it would still fit, get what I mean?

anyway, jsut really wanted to say that...I'm SOOOOOO happyy!!!! I don't think Iv'e been happeir in my life...really...I can't stop smilling I'm like so incredibluy happy nothing can fase me! and I'm lookign forward to going shopping with my freind saturday casue I won't be afraid to change in the same change room with her (which is always fun  shifty.gif ) cause my bras look nice. lol. heheheheh, I LOOOOOVe LIFE!!

WHHHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE  biggrin.gif  biggrin.gif  biggrin.gif  biggrin.gif

:satisfied:
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WoW CONGRATZ!!!! So there IS hope for us small chested grls after all LoL
HoodieObsessed
QUOTE(winterzflamez88 @ May 12 2005, 1:21 PM)
WoW CONGRATZ!!!!  So there IS hope for us small chested grls after all LoL
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ya, lol, a llittle, although the ones I ahve DO make my boobs like like 1/8 inch bigger all the way around...lol...and it's kinda noticable, but I mean it fits my boobs...although there are some air pockets inbetween of my boob and my bra where the boob jsut isn't big enouhg, lol..but ya, it dfoes fit, and it's comfertable, and it looks good.

after all, a bra making your boob look bigger isn't exactly a bad thing is it? hehe.gif
cutelilmonkie930
woa...this exact thing happend to me last week...i guz im waiting waitin...dont give up hope...lolz
xcaitlinx
sometimes i have a problem b/c im inbetween a C and D and since all bras run either small or big, a D is usually too big but my boobs practically pop out if i wear a C. oh well.
Paradox of Life
Excuse me for probably not reading all the posts, but I think you don't really NEED to wear a bra. But sometimes it's handy when you're changing in public like for PE (at least for me). Training bras care really easy. You can even buy them at Target, Burlington Coat Factory or Walmart. Underwear isn't a big deal for me so if it's cheap and ugly, I don't really give a damn. ermm.gif As long as it fits and it's comfortable, I'm fine. I feel weird talking about bras... blink.gif
synechdoche
Um, just because a girl is small-chested doesn't mean that she doesn't need a bra. Many (most?) wear bras to prevent "nipplage" from showing, and that's something even the small-chested have to worry about. :P Trust me.

Anyway, happy you found something that fits you. I was going to suggest something, but then I actually decided to read more of the previous posts. :P

Edit: Whoops, just saw the last reply was like a month ago. Sorry 'bout that!
topsyturvy
^ Wow you're right, this topic is pretty old blink.gif but i'll reply to it anyway biggrin.gif

I'm so glad HoodieObsessed got herself a bra _smile.gif Cheers for her!! cool.gif Lasenza Girl rocks, that's where i got my first bras. shifty.gif
xMiZziexKiMx
yay 4 you!! hehe
lozerface87
maybe you dont need them yet?
you're lucky. they're annoying.
im 15 and mine are like BAM, C!
avalon*
Try an A in the girls' section, because an A in the girls' section is smaller than an A in the women's section, although they should technically be the same. Try different brands too. Maidenform is good.
MeLoNiSyUmMy
then..maybe you're not ready for an actual bra bra..?
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