im saying its pg-13, dont wanna get in trouble so ill try to use the least amount of explicit content possible. this saturday, in 2 days my prom is up, im going with this girl i really really like, we've been going out for 8 months and i might lose my virginity to her, i totally need help from people who have lost it cuz im freaking out. i dont know what i should do im afraid of what the girl will think about, it, and im afraid ill do something wrong. can someone just tell me what it was like their first time, leave out DETAILS, but just tell me something that can help me not be so nervous

KEY ITEM: LUBRICATED condom

please, for the girl's sake, and yours.

relax, and just hope you dont have a gf who's extra emotional, and if so, be prepared for a rocky ride. and pregnancy questions. but hey, we all have to face it sometime in our lives, why not now, right?


all i can say is, dont be in a rush to have sex on PROM night, it's a little cliched. but hell, go with it. RELAX, and do a lot of foreplay. dont worry about being nervous, everyone is the first time.

best of luck, if that helped any

Um...don't do it just because your in the mood...do it cause you care for eachother. Personally, i don't think it should be planned......but yea..if you are going to..use protection - don't be stupid about it.

Well it doesn't sound like you've done too much experimenting during your 8 months, judging by the amount of anxiety your post displayed. Just make sure that you are both in a warm comfortable place where you are not going to be disturbed.

If I have incorrectly assumed your level of expertise, then I apologise, but the most important thing is to take your time and I assure you, your excitement WILL get the better of you allowing you both to enjoy yourselves.

Spend loads of time kissing and exploring with fingers and tongues (too much detail for PG-13? lol) and do not try to be too hardcore your first time together if you are both somewhat inexperienced. There will be plenty of opportunity for experimentation the 2nd/3rd/4th/5th time. More than that & your on your own pal, coz my advice would be redundant!

And ffs, use a condom.

Enjoy!! Word and everything else UP.


Peace Out

Edit: As per your request for what its like: The 1st time is incredibly orgasmic and the 1000th time is even more incredibly orgasmic. The difference between them is the way you learn from your experiences.

yea didnt mean to make the prom part sound so cliched but we kinda talked about it happening than anyway. thanks for advice

you probably will be nervous no matter what you do considering that it is your first time to have sex. just don't worry because if she really loves you, than she we won't think anything bad of you.

Use protection!

And who knows, she might not want sex.

dont use ultra thin condoms.

is it her first time too?

i think you should talk to her about all this first...

First you have to make sure taht you two are ready...sex is a HUGE step

all i gottah say is .. dont rush. take things nice and slow. since its your first time and all. unless she likes it fast and furious.. then ahahaha good luck! :]