Err... I'd just like to let you know that I'm a chick. haha. Might not seem like it or anything but I got the whole chick thing going on and yeah. Just kinda sorta bi. Well, very bi.

Notice the thing at the bottom of my signiture. "Show the pride/Show the beauty/RAINBOW." That's a gay thing. But, yeah. Just thought you might wanna know that.

i read it all.. whoa it was long lol.
anyway, you and your bf seem to have a really good realtionship, except for a few little things (ok maybe theyre not so little but still) and i know you dont want to lose him. if it were me i'd just consider it a guy thing to like that other girl, he didnt cheat on you or anything, so its not really horrible. and i also think he is very sweet at times from what you said. ahh im not real help huh, sorry.