i hate my f**king mom she has total control over me like she owns me or something or i'm like her lil pet that she could do whatever he wants with me.. she freakin abuses me and makes a promise and breaks them.. i ran away once but my friends f**king mom caught me at their house and called my parents damnit..I HATE HER SO f**king MUCH... she gets mad at every single little thing whenever i'm on the phone she always pick up the othetr one and says hang up shes busy i mean like wtf right? whats her problem i need freedom i'm not a little kid anymore i'm a teenager for christs sake and whenver i'm with my boyfriend harrison shes all like talking to me in chinese saying like lets go stop talking and shit i mean like f**k and my b days coming up in like 4 days and she won't even let me decide what i wanna do i mean its my birthday that days about me not you i mean like aren't i right? like i wouldn't tell my mom she can't go eat dinner on her birthday she has to go to the movies with me like i wouldn't do that i should be able to do what i wanna do and invite the people i wanna invite on my birthday

I'm sorry about that

Moved to Relationships.

i hope you have a kid who thinks the same about you.

aww im sorry about that my mom acts like she owns me to... she wont let me go anywhere not even 3 houses away 2 my friends house and she gets mad at me when i did nothing sometimes its not fair, i know... i guess our moms wont accept the fact that we arent in 1st grade anymore

mah mom used to be like that.. even tho your a teen.. dont mean that your grown up.. shes just protectingg you... how old are you btw? maybe if you tell me your age i can help you better...
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WHOA!!! you were born in 1993?!?!.. that means your onlii 11-12 years old... O.O! honey sorrie to tell you.. your NOT a teen.. your still a childdd... and your mom does have a right to tell you wat to doo cus she dont want you to do the wrong thingg... your luckie your even allowed to have a boiifriend...

You are not grown so your mom does have the right to tell you what to do as long as your staying in her house. Do you pay any bills? Put food on the table? I didnt think so. And if she abuses (like physically, and i dont mean spankings) i am sorry to hear that, you tell someone about that.

i'm the one who pays most of the bills

arent you 12 or 13..and if you pay so many "bills" as you claim, why dont you get your own place...buy your own car..???

you know what you're replys are pointless i'm serious

in your profile it says your born in 1993, a lil bit young to be paying bills, eh?

i bet you are anyways i am done here.

well we cant really help you with a problem unless your telling the truth so...yeah im done too

you noe wat? your post is pointless, im serious... your just a kid who wants to grow up.. and a part of growing up is accepting the critism that ppls will give you... so dont f*cking biitch and moan about stupid stuff.. if your paying bills and your working and you hate your mom so much.. move the f*ck out.. god... dont be f*cking biitching at us just cus we're telling you the truth... thats how life is.. get over it

i'm not bitching at you god you don't even know wat i just said i was talking to mzkandi

oh my gosh I'm so sorry! my mom's not controling at all, I love her, the only thing I dont' like about her is the way she won't go shoppign with me but what the heck, you can't ahve everything...she is like not controlling AT ALL granted there's not much she can control me aobut cause I dont' even go to school and I dont' ahve a boyfreind or anything sooooooooo...ya...but she doesn't cotrol my bday! that jsut stupid!! and she doesn't care which freinds I visit or anything, although sometiems she incurages me to visit so and so because I ahvn't visted her for a long tiem or something, but when it comes down to it I'm the last decision maker that's how it should be...maybe you should rant to your mom like you did to us tha tmight soften her heart a bit

..maybe...

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umm, paying the bills? I doubt that. what job do you have? 13 is far too young to get a job paying enouhg to pay the bills...I mean you can do a newspaper route and stuff but I Serisuly doubt that'll give you enough money to pay the bills...so umm, where's this money coming from anyway?

and how was mzkandi's reply useless? sounded like a good question to me...

anyway, don't worry, life always moves on, once oyu get a car and can drive than you'll be rid of your mom forever, think abotu ti form your mom's point of veiw, she's probably only tryign to do what's best for you..and by controling your life I guess that is what she thinks is best, she doens't think you are resposible enough to chose your actions yet, and at your age ti's true that some of us make mistakes, I'm not saying it's a good thing she's a control freak but you have allow for a little bit of guidence, after all, she IS your mother .

cheer up little one



I agree, if I had a boyfriend at that age my mom would freak

from reading the last posts i've learned your 11-13. i think that you shouldn't be in hurry to grow up. believe me when your do get more "freedom" you won't want it. you'll be wishing you were a kid again. you should try to see it from your mom's point view. she just wants the best for you and wants to keep you safe. about the birthday thing try to talk to her and see if you can reach a compromise about the birthday and other issues.

tht sucks.. sit down and talk to her about it

Hummm, hun, you are still a child and not adult.

Stop trying to be an adult. Stop trying to be someone older. Live your life a little. I mean, the real birthdays start when you are 14-18.

But it seems your mom does care about you. I mean, if its getting on your nerves, talk to her not yell/scream at her.

Those are my 2 cents.

i've been through that stuff with my mom when i was 14-17, i know what it's like. my mother even told me she would strangle me if we didn't live in america, and stuff me somewhere, actually the other day she was sitting right next to me talking to her friend and she said she wouldn't give a sh*t if i was stuck on the street being a hooker, nor would she care if i gave birth. she said she would have been better off giving birth to a piece of roast pork instead of me because that would be more useful.

this stuff doesn't bother me anymore because you know what? she's my mom, there's a reason she does things and the crappy things she says to me doesn't mean anything either, we all say sh*tty things when we're pissed.

your mother has a job she has to run around and take care of you and your siblings, she's been doing that for years, she can say that she hates you but that doesn't change the fact that she's still caring for you, she's putting food on the table and provides shelter for you. this will all pass, not everything can be hell me and my family still laugh together and etc. your mother is trying to look out for you, when you're 12, having a boyfriend can be dangerous she doesn't want you to get hurt.

don't try this rebellion crap, it will make everything worse...all it proves is that you're still a kid.

QUOTE(SuiE @ Apr 22 2005, 2:16 PM)

mah mom used to be like that.. even tho your a teen.. dont mean that your grown up.. shes just protectingg you... how old are you btw? maybe if you tell me your age i can help you better...
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WHOA!!! you were born in 1993?!?!.. that means your onlii 11-12 years old... O.O! honey sorrie to tell you.. your NOT a teen.. your still a childdd... and your mom does have a right to tell you wat to doo cus she dont want you to do the wrong thingg... your luckie your even allowed to have a boiifriend...

^ ditto on the edited part

also, even if you were a teen, your mom does own you until you`re EIGHTEEN.
besides, you`re only 11-12 years old. and being able to have a boyfriend is beyond generous. im 13 and my mom tells me all the time: "no boyfriends till second year in college" you know how effing long that is? ehh anyways..
she has the right to tell you to do whatever she wants you to do. i.e. wash the dishes, do the laundry, sweep the floor, etc etc. she`s your guardian, she owns you.
and for your birthday thing, for heavens sake, you`re supposed to spend your birthday with your family ! gawd, jst cause you`re a "teen" doesnt mean you shouldnt value your family anymore

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you know what you're replys are pointless i'm serious

and that reply to mzcandi was pointless too. was that remark any help to resolve your situation? everyone on cb is jst trying to help you understand that you`re not even a teen and you need to realize it.

sounds like one of my friends. She cant wait to move out.

to me her replies are honest. its something i would have asked your what 13? just because you pay a bill does not mean you can accept the real world. i read the first post you made and i was pissed off. you ran away... wow u ran away *sarcasim* you claim to be so grown up but u choose to do stupid childish things like that. you can mess up and be sent away to a home doing crap like that i know ive known ppl thats happend to. And they regreted ever runing away time after time. i have so much to say about this but i dont know where to begin. My mother was strict to a certain point even after i stoped living with her and it only showed that she loved me and cared for my wel-being so much so that she would go out of her way to make sure i was safe and i was ok. Im not saying that everything is always going to be ok. but my god to say that you hate her just flat out hate her. No one deserves to hear that from their child thats cruel. Your speaking as though she abandoned you or some crap. but from what im reading it seems like shes more over protective then anything. It seems to me you need a serious reality chech hun.

Oh whatever. You're 11/12? Stop complaining. I'm almost sixteen, and I barely get to see the sun. The only times I leave is when I go to school or when I go shopping WITH MY MOM. I never get out with my friends. So why don't you just crawl back into your little hole and realize that there are people out there who have it worse than you do.

i dont mean this in a critisizing way, but how do you manage to pay the bills? i just want to know... because this could possibly be child labor and/or child abuse. the chances may be very slight though...

you should stop rebelling; ive watched my brother rebel, and it is not pretty. my parents think i am too, but its in my family, and i can help if my brother is my biggest influence. of course, i havent told them that i dislike them ALOT (but not to the point of hate), because i know that i care for them somewhat.

and youre... a preteen (i think). be grateful that you actually have a mom to provide for you and she has to care for you, even the slightest, otherwise she would have thrown you out and put you in an orphanage.

i wouldnt use the word hate so lightly.

Your still young, stop trying to grow up so fast, and if you think people's replys are useless, don't ask for any people, your asking for people's opinions and your getting them.

And don't run around saying you hate your mother, because you will def regret it one day (I know I do), and she's really keeping tabs on you because maybe she thinks the worst will happen if she doesn't, I can only say with the birthday party, you should have your say so because it is your b-day so talk 2 her about it, but yeah your a little too young to have a bf....

You are a whining, snotty little BRAT.



All mothers are like that, you should be very f**king glad she even lets you have a BF. And as for paying "bills," what bills do you pay? With whose money? Do you even have a job? My dear, the only job you'll ever get at this age will be selling lemonade.



I recommend running away. I don't believe you actually dare to make a post like this. Your mother is only trying to help you; and yet you keep complaining about her and you even RAN AWAY to burden your friends' parents? Who obviously didn't appreciate your "teenage" rebelliousness.


Run away, little child, run away to the sewers. I daresay you'll be more happy there, from the look of your post.

Your born so young and stuff and you already have a boyfriend? The way I know it Chinese parents don't let their young ones date until 16 and older. Your 11-12 years old and your already paying the bills? I doubt that. Your not the right age to have a job and you still have an education. Your not a teenager, your still a child. My parents still bugs me, but their only trying to keep me away from trouble, and since your still a child I'd be like your mother and be more insecure about you. My mothers cool, she lets me hang out with friends, but you don't have to post this to bitch about your mother. She made you & wouldn't that mean she owns you? You shouldn't hate your mom so much. If you 'f**king' hate her so much why don't you move out all the 'money' you got? I'd understand if you were an 11-12 year old prostitute, but however stop bitching. She's your mother.
Oh yeah: How many time can you use 'f**k' in a sentence or in a paragraph? No ones teaching you well enough to let you expose that type of language.


It doesn't matter who your talking to, we're one big family.

Too bad...many moms are like that.

1. Stop acting like such a brat. It sounds as if though you have a supportive family (mother).
2. There is no need to run away, it's stupid and you're going to do yourself more harm then needed.
3. You need to realize that you are young. You have freedom, but you do not have freedom. Until you are legal and you move out from your mother, you have to live with her.
4. One day you're going to look back on this and you will think of yourself as an idiot, believe me.
5. You need to chill, just because your mom does not allow you to do simple things, does not mean you should hate her.

You haven't even graduated from eighth grade yet and you think you're old enough to do what you please, have any freedom you want, and have total control of your own life? Come on now, think realistic. You can't even drive yet, nor are you even a teenager. You're growing, your young and your mom is protecting you.

You'll be thankful for your mother when you're older. You'll realize that she only does what she does because she loves you. Who cares if she wants you off the phone--don't fight it, just get off and deal with it. THat's life, and if you don't like it, well, oh well, you'll have to deal with it. Nothing can ever be your way 100%.

I'd also suggest not running away again. Should your mom decide to call the police, she has the option for you to go to an audi house. You do not want to go that route.

1. she is not acting like a brat. her mom is pushing her to her limit.
2. running away can actually help. they may start to realize they need to start LISTENING to her instead of ONLY telling her wat to do.
3. i agree with u on this one but still it looks like her parents need to do some changing in attitude also.
4. this has happened to me n yes i might have been idiotic but at least it made my parents be more lenient n understanding n they actually LISTENED.
5. she should chill but its kinda hard to wen your parents just keep pushing your limit you know? it's the SIMPLE things that count.

her mom maybe doing this to protect her but she cant protect her forever this is something that her MOTHER needs to realize. she may be only in eighth grade but this is the way u feel at her age. n i dont think she has her way EVER. i think that was the whole point of this topic in the first place. i mean...wat kind of mother or father doesnt let u have the bday party u want? i mean maybe its not your first choice n they tell you WHY u cant have that kind of party but her mom just wont let her have it cuz her mom wants to do it HER way. not for her child's sake. that's just stupid.

She's 11, she does not need to worry about her limit being pushed. That's what makes her a brat, by complaining about little things that an 11 year old should not worry about.

If she was born in 1993, she is not in eigth grade, she is in sixth grade (or even fifth).

The point of the thread was for us to agree and sympathize with her actions. Did you see how she disregarded the advice given to her? It wasn't what she wanted to her, and was also the truth, thus showing a little more of her bratty side.

It's a birthday party she's whining about. A simple little birthday party. We do not know details, and it's not something to run away from home about. She's not getting her way, so she's being a dramatical baby about it.

I'm sorry, but what you wrote, shows me that you lack a bit of common sense.
You're a few months older then I, yet you have the mentality of someone quite younger. It's sad that you think that her ordeal and behavior is appropriate, and that her whining about a birthday party is okay for her to do.

Paying the bills? You're only like 11-12. Pure bullshit. If you can afford to pay the bills than just move out.

lies. She's like the most helpful person with relationships (other than chii)... mzkandi should be a mod! (and no I'm not sucking up. )

offtopic/
ocpimple, i have that same avatar, just facing the opposite way (and better quality).

Well, actually, cB only lets avatars be 100x100 px, so that's how it resized..
Here's the original:

I'm fond of stormtroopers, but goddamn that's too much action right there.

^hahaha.. agreed

Wow. You're an f'n little brat. And you're the same girl who made this post.... turd.

same here. except my mom is more strict about my friends. she listens to all my phone calls, she trys to pick my friends for me by telling me who she doesnt want me to be with, she doesnt even want me to hang out with guys, she thinks that i'm going to get raped by every guy friend that i have. -_-

and yest shes so mature. an 11 yr. old doesnt need to think about sex

She probably whores her body out to pay bills.

*sizzle* ouch man.

but um..you hate your mom because shes you mom. thats what i think.

i remember this topic, ugh what a little, bratty, attention whore

im sry someone said something about her being in eighth grade??

Gosh that sucks. Sorry you have a mom like that. Hmm did you try talking to her about it?

well maybe your mom's just worried about you. i'm sure she loves u at heart.. come on u're her child ya know.. there isnt' a parent who does not love their child.. but maybe u're just taking it a bit hard and maybe sh'es just a lil' protective over u.. but trust me.. one day u'll realise that all she's done's out of loving u. u will soon come to realise that i'm sure. i use to have communication brea downs with my parents too.. but try sitting down and talking through things with them slowly and patiently.. i'm sure if there's a will to work things out, there'll always be a way.. good luck*

she's just worrying about u.. maybe too over the line.. maybe u should try talking to her ... show her that ur enuff to be alone.. how to make her feel that? that depends on how she wanted u to be mature enuff..

other people have it more severe than you... and they still survive... stop whining

haha

I'm giong to take this fine opportunity to laugh at you

ahahahahahhahaha

okay.

You hate your mom because she's your mom. That's why.
Also, you're 11. And you have a job. And you pay most of the bills. And you want to screw your boyfriend. And you hate your mom because she's concerened about you because she thinks that you really are gonna go do your boyfriend. If I was your mother, I'd abandon you for being such a whiny brat. You know what? Just run away and live the rest of your life in the sewer. I'm sure you'll be better off.

God you're an idiot.

i read the whole 9 pages of the other post she did =)! yea.. i got bored.. its a rainy day.. this kid is such a retarded little f*ck... she starts useless topics begging foo sympathy and just wanting to attract attention to herself... she says shes gonna f*ck up ppls in cb just cus she dont like wat they saidd.. O.o... LMFAO! cracking me up and making me angry at the same timeeee... anyhOoosss.. wat a whoreee!

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i hate my f**king mom she has total control over me like she owns me or something

^well she IS your mom.

I agree, don`t try to grow up so fast. You`re mom is just doing what she thinks is best for you. Maybe she wants you to focus on school and on your grades then hanging out with friends.

BUT if you really want this to stop, tell her how you feel. I mean, she`s your mom she`s not a mind reader, and she probably didn`t go through the same things you went through when she was your age maybe her parents were very strict when she was younger. Tell her how you feel.

And also as you grow up your mom will give you priveledges and then you will have more freedom, but for now just listen to your mom. If she sees you can be mature then she`ll let you do more things that you wanna do.