ok umm.. coming from a guy.. its not that hard to get our attention. seriously, i could sum this whole list up in this sentance:
be yourself and dont try too hard.
simple ne ?
it also depends on the guy.
Full Version: Ways to get his attention
wow thatz awesome!! it wrks! ^^
cool. i'll keep this in mind...
JUST BE URSELF AND IF HE RELIZES YOU GOOD AND IF NOT MOVE ON TO SOME OTHER GUY WHO CARES ABOUT YOU.. chances are hes already your closes guy friend..
Guys Point of view:
One thing I like is being flattered SPARCLY and not obviously. I mean it's good but when someone is like "ZOMG YOUR SO GOOOD!!!!!111!!"That's when it gets to a turn off so yes not mucho ego.
Out going ROCKS. I don't know any guy who says "I like shy girls". Being out going is the way to get a guy to notice you, being shy is a 1.532351614% chance that he'll notice you and it will more than likely will just be once while your standing alone.
Being energetic worked with being outgoing is a good combo. This would basically mean be yourself and act confortable around him. Don't be shy, I personally don't like to try hard to make conversation with someone because they just say " o..ok." or "That's cool". That might even give us the idea that your bored around us.
Eye contact-must
In short:
Stand out, if your outgoing and stick out (in a good way) from the crowd then you have a better chance.
One thing I like is being flattered SPARCLY and not obviously. I mean it's good but when someone is like "ZOMG YOUR SO GOOOD!!!!!111!!"That's when it gets to a turn off so yes not mucho ego.
Out going ROCKS. I don't know any guy who says "I like shy girls". Being out going is the way to get a guy to notice you, being shy is a 1.532351614% chance that he'll notice you and it will more than likely will just be once while your standing alone.
Being energetic worked with being outgoing is a good combo. This would basically mean be yourself and act confortable around him. Don't be shy, I personally don't like to try hard to make conversation with someone because they just say " o..ok." or "That's cool". That might even give us the idea that your bored around us.
Eye contact-must
In short:
Stand out, if your outgoing and stick out (in a good way) from the crowd then you have a better chance.
ooooo! i know a good one.
tell him you had a dream about him. a guy did that to me before and its so flattering. try to make it so it doesnt sound like a line.
tell him you had a dream about him. a guy did that to me before and its so flattering. try to make it so it doesnt sound like a line.
yea ive done that dream thing before. it works really good
thats super cool. thanks for posting 
good advice ;)
Definate nono is going through important parts of your relationship online... breaking up, asking out, moving to next steps or whatever. You need to do that face to face - you have so much more understanding of what the other person is thinking, it's important. Sure, ask them if they want to go to a movie online, but if you ask them to be your boyfriend, do it IRL. And who really wants to remember asking someone to be with them by typing to them?
another thing for the 'how do i know if he likes me' i noticed w/ my ex bf before we actually went out he was flirty w/ me in ways that like he'd tickle me or poke me in the ribs.. little things like that. esp when we were in my friends pool he'd grab me a lot and tickle me.. so idk maybe guys do that to get closer to a girl. 
I know im in teh wrong locker i was spying lol j/k but the whole thing is actually kinda right but the sexual thing saying like hi ther hot buns or what ever you said actually makes us think that your more in to and the clothes thing in my case it really doesnt matter what you wear what matters is your personality..........wel back to reading more of your forums lol 
oh and if you ask him a date.... make it something fun he would enjoy that would always show who you are, also.
don't be all horny on him and try to make out with him every second you get. like if you really want to kiss him, find a perfect time and place, lean over and give him a peck on the cheek//lips. then look at him and smile. Then he may kiss you back. [its how i got one fo my bfs]
don't be all horny on him and try to make out with him every second you get. like if you really want to kiss him, find a perfect time and place, lean over and give him a peck on the cheek//lips. then look at him and smile. Then he may kiss you back. [its how i got one fo my bfs]
damn> you're like Martha Stewart...uh, except for relationships, of course...let's just hope you don't rat out like the Valentine's candy companies or something like she did the stock market and wind up behind bars! lol
damn> you're like Martha Stewart...uh, except for relationships, of course...let's just hope you don't rat out like the Valentine's candy companies or something like she did the stock market and wind up behind bars! lol
why in the Hell did i put that twice?! 
thnx for this thread i'll keep it in mind ^_^
Awesome advice. Also, I read somewhere that you're not suppose to throw yourself at him. It'll make you look desperate. You're actually suppose to sorta play hard to get. I guess it keeps the guy guessing.
^ ya but dont play to hard, guys give up easily
yah, we do... 
^ Hey...
Not all of us do ^_^
(There I go being an exception again..)
Not all of us do ^_^
(There I go being an exception again..)
I'm sorry. Your the minority.
Hehe, jk
It's better when you do play hard to get though, but like they said, not too hard. lawl.
Hehe, jk
It's better when you do play hard to get though, but like they said, not too hard. lawl.
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Q:"I think he likes me! How do I know for sure?"
A: Well, a lot of guys act differently and vary in ways to show their affection. Some may include:
--> He pays extra attention to you. <--
--> He seems to enjoy bugging you <--
--> He grabs your attention in any way possible (negative and positive) <--
--> He tries to get close to you and converse whenever possible <--
--> He does a lot of things he doesn't really like just for you <--
--> You catch him looking at you, then he looks away <--
--> He gets extra shy around you <--
--> He tries to show off around you <--
A: Well, a lot of guys act differently and vary in ways to show their affection. Some may include:
--> He pays extra attention to you. <--
--> He seems to enjoy bugging you <--
--> He grabs your attention in any way possible (negative and positive) <--
--> He tries to get close to you and converse whenever possible <--
--> He does a lot of things he doesn't really like just for you <--
--> You catch him looking at you, then he looks away <--
--> He gets extra shy around you <--
--> He tries to show off around you <--
I hear this alot, its like the girls veiw of things, some of it is true but,
My perspective:
im more of a shy guy and i would only do 2 or 3 of those.
I would stare at the girl
most of the time i dont look away. ( for some reason... haha dunno the other person ussally looks away first and its easyier 4 u.
i do get shy, or nerveus i should say
i do really anything for my girlfriend even if i hate it with all my gut.
I never grab the attention negativly, some times positivly but not direct.
if their was a girl to impress me, i would look for,
dont look sluttish or something like that randomly out of the blue, maybe after she sometimes what i do is tell her bestfriend to ask her if she likes me or that i like her and then if she tries to impress me, then i know shes willin to go out... ext. and then you can change ur dresses so he knoes ur doin it for him not randomly.
dont be desperate. (we watch for people too desparte for us, its annoying we like the hard to get job, also i look if like the girl has like gone out with everyguy for like 2 days then im like wtf bc shes just more desperate for a bf or something.
Always try to hangout with the guy... guys like hangin out
Always try to be nice, dont be brattish and hard to get and shit just be nice and converse and shit i hate brats.
always talk alot, sometimes i dont know what to say but jennifer, my girlfriend talks alot and i love that bc i dont really have to say anything when i dont want to.
bring up stuff that the guy did like a band or competition, sports, ext.
dont change what topics you like to impress us. If ur like hell yeah i love ballfoot uhhhuuhh itss coolll.. bc we can tell, i really dont like football..
when you need relationship help, dont go to random people. just follow ur heart...
allright il stop, if u need me IM me kjm520
il admit most of this is from experience.
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Q: I like my ex again! But he has a new girlfriend.
A: You could fight for him , or when he breaks up with her, ask him out again, unless they get married later on in life and never break up.
A: You could fight for him , or when he breaks up with her, ask him out again, unless they get married later on in life and never break up.
Not a good idea.
I think a better answer for that would be, "Wait until he breaks up with her, but don't ask him out immediatly. He could still like her, so it's best to wait a few months before doing so."
I'm unpinning this cause it's linked in the resource topic.
Thanks for the advice. It's really great of you to pull together to all of this 'bcuhs it gets kinda' annoying after while when all the people asks the same question.
These are some good tips, I'm gonna use them
QUOTE(chaneun @ Apr 22 2005, 2:12 PM)
So, I realized that many girls are making topics of how to get guys, so I made a short detailed list of some ideas.
BEFORE GOING ON, MAKE SURE HE DOESN'T HAVE A GIRLFRIEND
Some no-no's:
Do not wear slutty/whorish clothes-If you want his attention, he could look down on you and think you're a low-life
Don't over-flatter him-Sure, it may please him after a while, but it gets annoying. What if a guy came up to you and kept repeating "YOU'RE HOT YOU'RE HOT!"
Don't sexually harass him-Don't say stuff like "Hey hot-buns! Call me!" What if a guy called you his bitch, then said "Call me"
Don't flirt with him if he has a girlfriend-Catfight.
Don't be rude to him or his friends-Sure, be like Helga in "Hey Arnold" Then bully him a lot to show your feelings for him. Great.
Don't become friends with his ex-Girls are violent too
Don't go out with his ex-They may say they're over him, but it starts drama. (from b0st0ngrl) -grabs popcorn-
Good ways to get his attention:
Talking to him:
-Look into his eyes when you talk.
-To be more flirty, look into his eyes deeply, then look away, then look again.
-Talk about interesting stuff, see if he likes video games, reading, yadda yadda yadda.
-Catch him in the hallway (if he goes to your school) just to have a friendly conversation.
-BE YOURSELF! But don't be obnoxious.
You're too shy to let out your feelings for this guy:
-Look through Myspace to see if he has one, then if you don't have a Myspace, make one. Add him to friends, wait until he accepts, then comment him about stuff he'd enjoy, then ask for his screen name, then start hanging out in school. You're now friends
-When you go out with your friends, invite him along, if you're going to the movies, purposely sit next to him
-Get to know him better, however you do, but don't be rude or obnoxious.
-Ask him out, if he hasn't asked you out already.
Q&A:
Q: The guy I like is such a jerk to my friends, and he's a jerk to other people too.
A: Pfft, he's not good enough for you. Duh?
Q: I had a reallly embarassing (sp?) moment in front of him! What do I do?
A: Just laugh it off, it'll show him that you're not over-emotional.
Q: I like my ex again!
A: Talk to him, or you could leave him. You'll get over him, unless you're like that girl in The Notebook
Q: I like my ex again! But he has a new girlfriend.
A: You could fight for him, or when he breaks up with her, ask him out again, unless they get married later on in life and never break up.
Q:"He likes me but, he doesnt want a girlfriend!"
A: give him a little time, but really just move on because most likely he doesnt like you like that and is just trying to be nice.
Q:"I think he likes me! How do I know for sure?"
A: Well, a lot of guys act differently and vary in ways to show their affection. Some may include:
--> He pays extra attention to you. <--
--> He seems to enjoy bugging you <--
--> He grabs your attention in any way possible (negative and positive) <--
--> He tries to get close to you and converse whenever possible <--
--> He does a lot of things he doesn't really like just for you <--
--> You catch him looking at you, then he looks away <--
--> He gets extra shy around you <--
--> He tries to show off around you <--
More to come..
Hopefully, this was helpful to you, and will make the clutter of topics in the Girls locker less crowded.
Oh, and if you want to know, I've never had a boyfriend
NOTE THAT ALL GUYS ARE DIFFERENT
BEFORE GOING ON, MAKE SURE HE DOESN'T HAVE A GIRLFRIEND
Some no-no's:
Do not wear slutty/whorish clothes-If you want his attention, he could look down on you and think you're a low-life
Don't over-flatter him-Sure, it may please him after a while, but it gets annoying. What if a guy came up to you and kept repeating "YOU'RE HOT YOU'RE HOT!"
Don't sexually harass him-Don't say stuff like "Hey hot-buns! Call me!" What if a guy called you his bitch, then said "Call me"
Don't flirt with him if he has a girlfriend-Catfight.
Don't be rude to him or his friends-Sure, be like Helga in "Hey Arnold" Then bully him a lot to show your feelings for him. Great.
Don't become friends with his ex-Girls are violent too
Don't go out with his ex-They may say they're over him, but it starts drama. (from b0st0ngrl) -grabs popcorn-
Good ways to get his attention:
Talking to him:
-Look into his eyes when you talk.
-To be more flirty, look into his eyes deeply, then look away, then look again.
-Talk about interesting stuff, see if he likes video games, reading, yadda yadda yadda.
-Catch him in the hallway (if he goes to your school) just to have a friendly conversation.
-BE YOURSELF! But don't be obnoxious.
You're too shy to let out your feelings for this guy:
-Look through Myspace to see if he has one, then if you don't have a Myspace, make one. Add him to friends, wait until he accepts, then comment him about stuff he'd enjoy, then ask for his screen name, then start hanging out in school. You're now friends
-When you go out with your friends, invite him along, if you're going to the movies, purposely sit next to him
-Get to know him better, however you do, but don't be rude or obnoxious.
-Ask him out, if he hasn't asked you out already.
Q&A:
Q: The guy I like is such a jerk to my friends, and he's a jerk to other people too.
A: Pfft, he's not good enough for you. Duh?
Q: I had a reallly embarassing (sp?) moment in front of him! What do I do?
A: Just laugh it off, it'll show him that you're not over-emotional.
Q: I like my ex again!
A: Talk to him, or you could leave him. You'll get over him, unless you're like that girl in The Notebook
Q: I like my ex again! But he has a new girlfriend.
A: You could fight for him
, or when he breaks up with her, ask him out again, unless they get married later on in life and never break up.Q:"He likes me but, he doesnt want a girlfriend!"
A: give him a little time, but really just move on because most likely he doesnt like you like that and is just trying to be nice.
Q:"I think he likes me! How do I know for sure?"
A: Well, a lot of guys act differently and vary in ways to show their affection. Some may include:
--> He pays extra attention to you. <--
--> He seems to enjoy bugging you <--
--> He grabs your attention in any way possible (negative and positive) <--
--> He tries to get close to you and converse whenever possible <--
--> He does a lot of things he doesn't really like just for you <--
--> You catch him looking at you, then he looks away <--
--> He gets extra shy around you <--
--> He tries to show off around you <--
More to come..
Hopefully, this was helpful to you, and will make the clutter of topics in the Girls locker less crowded.
Oh, and if you want to know, I've never had a boyfriend
NOTE THAT ALL GUYS ARE DIFFERENT
helpful and makes sense
yay. it's finally unpinned. :D
wow that's awesome.
NOTE THAT ALL GUYS ARE DIFFERENT
haha. good job.
NOTE THAT ALL GUYS ARE DIFFERENT
haha. good job.
this is really good advice. I'll try it... lol
wow..this is really helpful 
thank you
thank you
not bad. =)
I say just be yourself.
i think i read something like that in a few magazines. but i think its awesome that you put it up
b0st0ngrl..you are SOO right..my (only) boyfr--well, not really boyfriend..more of a fling.."dumped" me for my best friend and she went out with him. *tear*..now I like him again..but, I'm helping him get together with a girl HE'S in love with..how ridiculous am I? Needless to say, I need help in the boy department.
--> You catch him looking at you, then he looks away <--
--> He gets extra shy around you <--
I'm really glad you mentioned this.. you see, this guy that I like.. well, we only have lunch together. Sometimes I look down the table to see what hes doing, and i see him looking my way.. and then he turns away. I guess he's looking at me, I just kind of hope hes not looking at something past me. >.>
And he is really shy around me.. we may say Hi or something short like that. But if we are reallying talking, it's on AIM or something... he is a shy guy
--> He gets extra shy around you <--
I'm really glad you mentioned this.. you see, this guy that I like.. well, we only have lunch together. Sometimes I look down the table to see what hes doing, and i see him looking my way.. and then he turns away. I guess he's looking at me, I just kind of hope hes not looking at something past me. >.>
And he is really shy around me.. we may say Hi or something short like that. But if we are reallying talking, it's on AIM or something... he is a shy guy
hey that was pretty good advice! i would just add one more...if you keep flirting with him and paying extra attention to him, and he does nothing or seems to ignore you even more, HE DOESN'T LIKE YOU. and he's probly talking to his friends about "this annoying chick that always stares at me and talks to me."
u did a awesome job!!! this is really great!
i'm gonna try some of them laterr! :)
i'm gonna try some of them laterr! :)
Q:"I think he likes me! How do I know for sure?"
A: Well, a lot of guys act differently and vary in ways to show their affection. Some may include:
--> He pays extra attention to you. <--
--> He seems to enjoy bugging you <--
--> He grabs your attention in any way possible (negative and positive) <--
--> He tries to get close to you and converse whenever possible <--
--> He does a lot of things he doesn't really like just for you <--
--> You catch him looking at you, then he looks away <--
--> He gets extra shy around you <--
--> He tries to show off around you <--
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uhh..thats what he does. like every single one of the thingy listed. but he denies every one of it.
A: Well, a lot of guys act differently and vary in ways to show their affection. Some may include:
--> He pays extra attention to you. <--
--> He seems to enjoy bugging you <--
--> He grabs your attention in any way possible (negative and positive) <--
--> He tries to get close to you and converse whenever possible <--
--> He does a lot of things he doesn't really like just for you <--
--> You catch him looking at you, then he looks away <--
--> He gets extra shy around you <--
--> He tries to show off around you <--
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uhh..thats what he does. like every single one of the thingy listed. but he denies every one of it.
gah you have no idea how much that helps.
whoever wrote this is a freakin geniusss :]
thankss<3.
whoever wrote this is a freakin geniusss :]
thankss<3.
Shouldn't this be in Relationships?
Anyway. I guess this could be helpful for younger girls who haven't really had a chance to have a relationship yet. But for me, it's like, duh, common sense.
Anyway. I guess this could be helpful for younger girls who haven't really had a chance to have a relationship yet. But for me, it's like, duh, common sense.
Why hasn't this been pinned yet? 
Great job. This should lessen the number of "how do I get him to notice me" topics.
Great job. This should lessen the number of "how do I get him to notice me" topics.
niceee (;
thats a pretty cool guide to follow along to. props to you for creating it. (;
thats a pretty cool guide to follow along to. props to you for creating it. (;
Oh yeah I know I'm late but add this:
Many girls pretend to like videogames, cars, or/and sports just to get his attention. It'll work for awhile but after that they'll start thinking of her as a guy friend.
Many girls pretend to like videogames, cars, or/and sports just to get his attention. It'll work for awhile but after that they'll start thinking of her as a guy friend.
From my perspective if a guy likes you and he doesnt really talk to you much at school but likeon myspace or aim alot he definatley likes you 75% positve or at least thinks youre attractive which is kinda different... it means like he wants you to talk to him at school but he obviously cant cuz hes shy or sumthing....
This topic should be pinned, it's awesome. Good job Christine!!
^ It's linked in the resource center, so it doesn't need to be pinned anymore.
I don't think this is a good piece of advice. I think it's good to be friends with his ex because they'll be violent if you're not friends or even enemies. I am very close friends with my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, and everything's just fine. The only problem is, they dish up all the bad things about them, but I guess you just have to get over it.
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Don't become friends with his ex-Girls are violent too
I don't think this is a good piece of advice. I think it's good to be friends with his ex because they'll be violent if you're not friends or even enemies. I am very close friends with my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, and everything's just fine. The only problem is, they dish up all the bad things about them, but I guess you just have to get over it.
haahhaha
very helpful i guess?
:DD
very helpful i guess?
:DD
QUOTE
Q:"I think he likes me! How do I know for sure?"
A: Well, a lot of guys act differently and vary in ways to show their affection. Some may include:
--> He pays extra attention to you. <--
--> He seems to enjoy bugging you <--
--> He grabs your attention in any way possible (negative and positive) <--
--> He tries to get close to you and converse whenever possible <--
--> He does a lot of things he doesn't really like just for you <--
--> You catch him looking at you, then he looks away <--
--> He gets extra shy around you <--
--> He tries to show off around you <--
A: Well, a lot of guys act differently and vary in ways to show their affection. Some may include:
--> He pays extra attention to you. <--
--> He seems to enjoy bugging you <--
--> He grabs your attention in any way possible (negative and positive) <--
--> He tries to get close to you and converse whenever possible <--
--> He does a lot of things he doesn't really like just for you <--
--> You catch him looking at you, then he looks away <--
--> He gets extra shy around you <--
--> He tries to show off around you <--
gosh that didn't work for me TWICE! haha. well the first time the guy did like me but he wasn't sure if he was ready to go out and to be sure neither was i.... the next time which was like a couple of weeks ago, he liked another girl! and he just enjoyed my company... alot
but the girl rejected him and recently he's been into me again. haha but i don't want to be the "rebound girl" sigh
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