So, I realized that many girls are making topics of how to get guys, so I made a short detailed list of some ideas.

BEFORE GOING ON, MAKE SURE HE DOESN'T HAVE A GIRLFRIEND


Some no-no's:

Do not wear slutty/whorish clothes-If you want his attention, he could look down on you and think you're a low-life
Don't over-flatter him-Sure, it may please him after a while, but it gets annoying. What if a guy came up to you and kept repeating "YOU'RE HOT YOU'RE HOT!"
Don't sexually harass him-Don't say stuff like "Hey hot-buns! Call me!" What if a guy called you his bitch, then said "Call me"
Don't flirt with him if he has a girlfriend-Catfight.
Don't be rude to him or his friends-Sure, be like Helga in "Hey Arnold" Then bully him a lot to show your feelings for him. Great.
Don't become friends with his ex-Girls are violent too
Don't go out with his ex-They may say they're over him, but it starts drama. (from b0st0ngrl) -grabs popcorn-

Good ways to get his attention:

Talking to him:
-Look into his eyes when you talk.
-To be more flirty, look into his eyes deeply, then look away, then look again.
-Talk about interesting stuff, see if he likes video games, reading, yadda yadda yadda.
-Catch him in the hallway (if he goes to your school) just to have a friendly conversation.
-BE YOURSELF! But don't be obnoxious.

You're too shy to let out your feelings for this guy:
-Look through Myspace to see if he has one, then if you don't have a Myspace, make one. Add him to friends, wait until he accepts, then comment him about stuff he'd enjoy, then ask for his screen name, then start hanging out in school. You're now friends
-When you go out with your friends, invite him along, if you're going to the movies, purposely sit next to him
-Get to know him better, however you do, but don't be rude or obnoxious.
-Ask him out, if he hasn't asked you out already.

Q&A:

Q: The guy I like is such a jerk to my friends, and he's a jerk to other people too.
A: Pfft, he's not good enough for you. Duh?

Q: I had a reallly embarassing (sp?) moment in front of him! What do I do?
A: Just laugh it off, it'll show him that you're not over-emotional.

Q: I like my ex again!
A: Talk to him, or you could leave him. You'll get over him, unless you're like that girl in The Notebook

Q: I like my ex again! But he has a new girlfriend.
A: You could fight for him , or when he breaks up with her, ask him out again, unless they get married later on in life and never break up.

Q:"He likes me but, he doesnt want a girlfriend!"
A: give him a little time, but really just move on because most likely he doesnt like you like that and is just trying to be nice.

Q:"I think he likes me! How do I know for sure?"
A: Well, a lot of guys act differently and vary in ways to show their affection. Some may include:

--> He pays extra attention to you. <--
--> He seems to enjoy bugging you <--
--> He grabs your attention in any way possible (negative and positive) <--
--> He tries to get close to you and converse whenever possible <--
--> He does a lot of things he doesn't really like just for you <--
--> You catch him looking at you, then he looks away <--
--> He gets extra shy around you <--
--> He tries to show off around you <--


More to come..
Hopefully, this was helpful to you, and will make the clutter of topics in the Girls locker less crowded.
Oh, and if you want to know, I've never had a boyfriend

NOTE THAT ALL GUYS ARE DIFFERENT

Sounds like something I'd read in a magazine :D

Oh and you might want to add to not go out with your best friends ex. It starts major fights even if your best friend says they're over him...

That's pretty useful, esp. with all the topic about that.
Pinned!

If anyone has anything to add to this, post it here and the first post can be edited

Guy's should post here also, for their opinions.

Wow, pinned

This thread is so needed because those "how do i get a guy to notice me" appear every day

Thanks...That was very helpful. Not that I like anybody...

you should write a book [like many others] and actually get paid.

or become a dating counselor.

this will [hopefully] eliminate all of those girls needing for attention from boys topics.
And another:
"I think he likes me! How do I know for sure?"
Well, a lot of guys act differently and vary in ways to show their affection. Some may include:


More to come... this was all I could think of at the moment. I think this was posted in another pinned topic somewhere, but this topic recently seems to be on the rise of multiplying.

I'm that good?? wow.

wow..
this is good!
thanks for making it!!

very good. =]

but this is just a generalization. remember there are exceptions, but most boys aren't that complex. That's pretty much how i act when i like a girl. NOOOO..now they will KNOW. *gasp*

oo this is awesome
another, Q:he likes me but, he doesnt want a g/f
A: give him a little time, but really just move on because most likely he doesnt like you like that and is just trying to be nice.

thanks. hopefully there won't be as many useless topics in the girls locker now

wow. that was very usefull (no lie). i will actually try to remember those things...because i have this whole "shy girl, can't look at you in the eye" thing going on...haha

How helpful. I'll try some of this out soon

THANK U. im sick of seeing topics about that kind of stuff.. if a guy doesnt like u he doesnt liek u! get over it.

seems extremely helpful.

hmm, maybe you could figure out some answer to this, i was asked this awhile ago by one of my friends and wasn't too sure how to respond

what would you do if you like a guy and want to ask him out, but you are not sure if he likes you or not because sometimes he acts like it and other times he doesn't, but most people who know him think that he likes you? and what if you think that he likes another girl, and you ask him if he likes her, and he says sort of but he doesn't want to go out with her, does that eliminate the possibility of him liking you?

once again great job

Just stare at him, like this little emotion - >

Finally....no more 'how do I get his attention' threads

hahaha guys guys guys... i don't think we need this kind of stuff,

but it's helps anywy.. ;-)

This is helpful..

Yes you should write a book! ^^

I wonder why no one thought of this sooner!

Oh well its here now! YESSS!

i find it's so helpful...
and i read the ways to know he likes me or not...
i found there are some exactly about him ^^

Would be useful to many many many newbies

You should add like making the first move or something or how to get him to kiss you? Dunno if you'd wanna do that but just a thought

that's a good topic! i always see topics based on "how to get a guy" READ THE DARN POST PEOPLE!

my bf that i have right now........i pretty much made all the first moves......he loves it.....i kissed him first......i told him i loved him first.........but i dont know.........i guess i can't really say how to get a guy cuz well......i didn't really have to try hard for that one........he was just really into me!

Thanks. I had some issues with this guy. Hehe.

I love this article! I'm definitely keeping it! :)

yeah.....it does....i went out with my friend's ex.......she didn't talk to me the whole time....but what pissed me off....is she told me all this crap about him...then when we break up....she turns around and goes out with him again.......*grr.

does it reli work???but if u reli like dat guy.....u'll feel nervous wen talking 2 him

heee...the situations are really close to real..and many of them did happen to me
i would follow the suggestions!

something to add :

* If you like him, don't be annoying and constantly ask him who he likes. it doesn't work. Waste of time.. and will end up not liking you at all

^^

Nice tips.. But I wonder what guys think half the time. I mean do they get nervous around the girl they like too? Are they as psyched as girls when they find out she likes them? I wonder..

Great Job, Alot of young ladies need advice and this is a good FAQ section.


2000th Post

^Congradulations :]

wow thanx!
i should show the no-nos to my buddy maritza!! that ought to get thru to her if i dont! lmao

I'm gonna try this....It's really helpful.

Very good tips..

omg this is soo helpful.. just have a question..well i like this guy and i've liked him for a while but him and i are good friends...so like 5 monnths or something he found out i liked him and so he askd me out..but he only did it because he felt bad for me and so then the next day he got me alone and we worked it out and everthing...but i told him that i was over him..but i still do lke him...but im not sure he likes me or not but hes been acting sorta different..should i go for it and ask him out...flirt a little first...or should i not do ne thing cause it could ruin our relationshp as friends?

haha.. thats some really good tips!

i mean.. how exactly do you know you "like" someone...
i dont know how to say this.. x.x

Who cares if the guy has a gf. I just go for it. [=

finally.. I needed that advice THANKS

awesome topic ^___^ i know some girls who really need to read this....

sluts are definitely no fun, and if the guy only likes girls who look like hookers, then you're probably not worth it.

remember... CONFIDENCE!!! just not obnoxious.... aim is a good way to confess you like him.... but break ups online are cheezy.

hehehe thanks for the advice! i'll def use that next time.

Thanks, that's helpful ^-^

nooiiiiccce

hah thanks a lot for that!! its really awesome!! =]

wow i already knew most of that, but it really speaks to you when it's actually written down! thanks!

thanks this helped me alot :D