byonata
Apr 20 2005, 01:41 AM
I like this girl, but the problem is, I used to have a thing with her best friend, but me and her best friend NEVER dated... it may sound bogus, but I think Im falling for her...
i have a feeling that she feels the same. Just like since her best friend and I used to have a thing, we dont know what to do.
What do you think? what would YOU do, guys and gurls suggestion please!!!!!
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also me and her bestfriend stopped w/e thing we had, cuz she told me that deep inside she still have a feeling for some1 else. Im not pissed, I just didn't want to be anybody's second choice... especially from some1 you like.
_sarcastic_
Apr 20 2005, 06:34 AM
shouldn't this be in relationships?
tell that girl how you feel about her, don't let the thing you had with her bestfriend stop you.
i would just go for it
nicky04033
Apr 20 2005, 07:14 AM
talk to her more first, and then get closer
then tell her if u think it's da rite time:)
starlette
Apr 20 2005, 08:11 AM
well I think if you really like this girl, start off a friendship that has nothing to do with her friend. That means no hainging out with one to see the other type thing. Make sure she knows you like her for her, and not to get at her friend or something. I know its dumb, but I'm a girl, and we think that way sometimes. If you are already cool with her, try to talk to her more, compliment her, stuff like that, but make it sincere. Because u already had a thing with her best friend, she will probably be on guard, thinking you are up to something. And theres no telling what her friend has said about you. So I say just start spending more time with her, showing interest in her. One thing never to do is ask her. oh hows ur friend, oh have u talked to her today, oh I talked to ur friend today...even tho it is a common person you know, it will make it seem like thats what u are tying to find out about, her friend and not her. So yeah. Thats about all I can tell ya. good luck! :D
lilJdawg
Apr 20 2005, 08:26 AM
Tell the girl you like how you feel. Just because you had a thing with her bestfriend, doesn't mean you can't date her. don't let her bestfriend get in the way.
byonata
Apr 20 2005, 09:24 AM
wow... all of you think i should go for it... alright... i should build the foundation first then.. i should go talk to her. more...
billsta~
xxtaintedlips
Apr 20 2005, 09:36 AM
im of no help not many guys i liked have liked me back ...well there is one, but he is afraid to admit it cuz the snooty girls pick on him
ChEeR A HOliC Xo
Apr 20 2005, 10:12 AM
Well you never dated her bestfriend, so your fine. If you dated her then you would have a problem but u dont. So I would just contuine liking her, maybe get to know her more. I mean if your over her bestfriend then everything seem`s peachey!
177emories
Apr 20 2005, 05:07 PM
you like someone then tell that perosn beofre its too late ;)
mouse_3k
Apr 20 2005, 05:11 PM
I tell my friends cause I know they will tell someone and it will go on until the boy finds out. At least I wont be un-noticed haha. Im to shy to approach em myself
cHuNsAbAbIe012
Apr 21 2005, 06:42 PM
QUOTE(nicky04033 @ Apr 20 2005, 7:14 AM)
talk to her more first, and then get closer
then tell her if u think it's da rite time:)
n after u tell her let her talk it out with her friend. or u can talk it out with her but it's mostly their problem if u guys do end up getting together.
heyyfrankie
Apr 21 2005, 07:37 PM
if you and the girl you like's best friend never dated, than i don't see a problem with you liking and dating this new girl. just talk to her and see where it goes from there.
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